An ideal example

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1. A young man came all the way with a big package on his back, and wanted to see the infinite master. He said, "Master, I'm so lonely, so miserable, so lonely, and the long journey has exhausted me to the extreme;" My shoes are torn and thorns cut my feet; My hand is hurt and bleeding. My voice is hoarse because I shouted ... why can't I find the sunshine in my heart? "

The master asked, "What's in your big package?" The young man said, "It means a lot to me. It is full of the pain of every fall, the crying after every injury, and every lonely worry ... Thanks to it, I came to you. "

So the boundless master took the youth to the river and they crossed the river by boat. After landing, the master said, "Go ahead with your boat!" "What, ship?" The young man was surprised. "It's so heavy, can I carry it?" "Yes, you can't." The master smiled and said, "when crossing the river, the boat is useful." But when we cross the river, we have to put down the boat and go quickly, otherwise it will become our burden. Pain, loneliness, loneliness, disaster and tears are all useful to life. It can sublimate life, but if you never forget it, it will become a burden to life. Put the gun down. Children, life can't be too heavy. "

The young man put down his luggage and went on his way. He found his pace relaxed and happy, much faster than before.

Feeling: "Let go of the baggage and start the machine" is not without benefits. Under the guidance of the boundless master, young people finally know that life is not so heavy. In fact, each of us should learn to give up pain, loneliness, loneliness, disaster and so on. When you meet on the road of life, let yourself go into battle lightly.

2. In hell, a large group of people are holding a long spoon around a bucket of soup, but because the spoon is too long to reach the mouth, everyone can only sigh and frown at the soup; In heaven, a large group of people are also holding long spoons around a bucket of soup. Although the handle of the spoon is very long, everyone scoops up the soup and feeds it to each other, and everyone is happy to drink the soup.

Feeling: helping others is helping yourself; Caring for others means caring for yourself.

3. When Confucius traveled around the world, he passed by Lvliang Waterfall. It poured down from a height, and the sound of water slammed. Then Confucius saw an old man go down. Confucius thought that the old man might have committed suicide, so he quickly called his disciples to save him. But in an instant, the old man appeared a hundred paces away. He walks and sings with white hair and is very handsome. Confucius caught up with him and humbly asked, "Please tell me, what is your secret to dealing with this current?" The old man smiled and said, I just went in with a whirlpool and came out with a whirlpool. I adapt to the trend, not the trend.

Feeling: coordinating with the whole and moving together with the whole. This is really a new understanding of "going with the flow".

In ancient times, there was a scholar who went to Beijing for the third time to take the exam and lived in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had two dreams: the first dream was that he planted cabbage on the wall; The second dream is rain. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. These two dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar hurried to find a fortune-telling dream interpretation the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller patted his thigh continuously and said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow cabbage on the high wall? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? "

Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? "

When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high (middle) to grow cabbage on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? " Hearing this, the scholar felt that it was more reasonable, so he took the exam happily, and as a result, he actually won a flower exploration.

Feeling: positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine; Negative people are like the moon, but the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas, what kind of future.

Once upon a time, two scholars went to Beijing to catch the exam, and they met the funeral procession on the way. One of them was suddenly upset and thought, What bad luck! There is no hope for this exam. The other party saw the dark coffin, but smiled and said, "coffin, coffin (official talent), I will definitely go back to high school this time." It turned out that the former fell into the hands of Sun Shan, while the latter became the first place.

Feeling: Good mood has advantages and disadvantages. Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. In a good mood, the sun is shining; Life is smooth when you are in a good mood.

6. Each of the two brothers went out with a suitcase. Along the way, the suitcase weighed heavily on the brothers. When the left hand is tired, they have to change their right hand. Suddenly, Big Brother stopped, bought a pole by the roadside, and hung two suitcases on the pole. He picked up two boxes and set off, but he felt much more relaxed.

Feeling: The younger brother in the story is lucky, but the luckier brother is because he helped himself while helping others. The journey of life will inevitably encounter many difficulties. You know, on the way forward, moving the stumbling blocks under others' feet sometimes paves the way for yourself.

7. Two ants want to climb over a wall and look for food at the other end of the wall. When an ant comes to the foot of the wall, it will climb up without hesitation, but every time it climbs halfway, it will fall down because of fatigue and fatigue. But he didn't lose heart, fell down again and again, quickly adjusted himself and got up again. Another ant observed it and decided to walk around the wall. Soon, the ants bypassed the wall, came to the food and began to enjoy it. Another ant keeps falling and starts again.

Feeling: In order to achieve a lofty ideal or goal, besides unremitting pursuit, positive progress and courage to work hard, we should also pay attention to the way or means of struggle, that is, the problem of "direction". Find the right direction, get twice the result with half the effort, and easily step into the hall of success; If you find the wrong direction or don't know the direction at all, you will get twice the result with half the effort and even miss success.

8. Is there a man named Richard? Patty's racer couldn't help but report the results to his mother excitedly after the first day of the race. "Mom," he rushed into the room and shouted, "There were 35 cars in the race, and I won the second place."

"You lost!" His mother replied. "Mom," Richard protested, "so many cars took part in the competition that I won the second place on the first run. Isn't this a good result? "

Richard!' Mother said sternly, "You don't have to run after anyone!" " "

In the next 20 years, Richard? Patty dominates the racing world. He became the most award-winning racer in the history of motorsport, and many records he created have not been broken so far.

Feeling: "Richard, you don't have to run behind anyone" has always inspired Richard? Patty ran at the front. If you are eager for greater success, then you should believe in yourself. Believe that you are unique, nothing is unattainable and nothing can't be surpassed. Numerous facts show that the higher the goal you set, the greater your final gain. Let's always use Richard's mother's words to imply that there is no need to run after anyone!

9. In the vast wasteland of Alaska in North America, there is a kind of mouse, which feeds on vegetation and is extremely fertile. However, when the population is too prolific and causes serious damage to vegetation, the fur of some members will automatically turn bright and dazzling yellow to attract the attention of natural enemies. If natural enemies reduce the number of mice to an appropriate number, mice will rush to the cliff in droves, hug each other and throw themselves into the sea.

At the same time, there is a fox in this land, which feeds on mice and is the natural enemy of mice here, but their predation on mice is not unrestrained. When the number of mice decreases and the number of foxes increases, which seriously threatens the reproduction of mice, foxes will take action to limit the development of the population: some members will get together and dance wildly day and night until they die of exhaustion.

Feeling: The behavior of mice and foxes should win our real understanding, sympathy, respect and respect. Because of our own reasons, it is difficult for us humans to understand, sympathize and respect, let alone the nature and animal kingdom. Humans have always been proud of being far away from the evolution of nature, proud of being the most brilliant and beautiful spiritual flower on this planet, and even more proud of conquering nature with rational iron hoofs. In the face of the above-mentioned animal behaviors, we humans should feel ashamed and ashamed, feel guilty and reflect on ourselves. As a creation of nature, man should blend in and adapt to nature, and should not destroy or go against nature.

10, a hunter said, "Once, I chased a female wolf with two cubs. She can't run fast because the wolf's feet don't work. The distance between me and the wolf gradually shortened, and the mother wolf turned and climbed to a huge sand dune. I'm surprised. Usually in times of crisis, wolves will circle in dense vegetation and use complex terrain to escape. If you climb to the sand slope, the wolf can climb very fast, but once you climb to the top of the slope, you can see everything in a glance, and the wolf can't run away anymore. I killed the mother wolf and found two little wolves in a pile of dry camel dung. It suddenly dawned on me that the mother wolf was trying to protect her cubs, climbing the hill delayed my speed, bought time to hide the child, and tried her best to run in the opposite direction in exchange for the child's life.

Feelings: Usually we only know that wolves are extremely ferocious. Today, after reading this material, we can know the wisdom of the female wolf. We are ashamed of the love and self-sacrifice of the female wolf.

1 1. Once upon a time, three brothers wanted to know their fate, so they went to consult a wise man. After listening to their purpose, the wise man asked, "It is said that there is a priceless night pearl in the distant Guoguo Temple in Tianzhu. What would you do if you were asked to get it? "

The eldest brother said, "I am indifferent by nature. In my eyes, the night pearl is just an ordinary bead, so I won't go. "

The second brother patted his chest and said, "No matter how difficult and dangerous it is, I must get the night pearl back."

The third brother said sadly, "Tianzhu has a long way to go, and there are dangers everywhere." I'm afraid I'll die before I get the night pearl. "

After listening to their answers, the wise man smiled and said, "Your fate is clear. Big brother is indifferent by nature and does not seek fame and fortune. Naturally, it will be difficult to prosper in the future, but he will also get the help and care of many people in indifference. The second brother is resolute, strong-willed and has no difficulties. He may have a bright future and become a great man. Third brother is soft and weak, and always hesitates. It is destined to be difficult to achieve great things. "

Feeling: "Character decides fate." In a person's life, it may not be the level of knowledge and skills or physical health that determines our destiny. A healthy attitude and good psychological quality are the keys to success. Psychological quality largely determines a person's success or failure. Now, people have realized that emotional intelligence is more important than IQ. A person who is emotionally stable, optimistic and confident, and good at getting along and cooperating with others can often cope with the ups and downs of life more successfully, and become a talent and develop more easily.

12, Tu Zilong didn't build a stable until he lost his horse. People say it is too late. Tu Zi Long said, "It's not too late to study medicine after a broken humerus. In the past, both Qi Huangong and Jin Wengong hurt their own countries first, and then returned to China to become the five tyrants. Gou Jian, the king of Yue, lived in seclusion in Huiji Mountain, then destroyed the king of Wu and became the leader of the League. Sun Bin was flogged and later became a strategist of Qi State, which had great influence in the world. When they are in distress, who doesn't say that they will rot in the soil with dead roots and fallen leaves? However, once it is brilliant, people will look up to them like the stars in the sky. The drought in July stopped the growth of seedlings, but they can still be cut, hoping for their own seedlings; If you think it's too late, abandon it, and the field will soon be deserted. " A few months later, the dragon slayer's horse came back and people admired his foresight.

Feeling: Tu Zilong is a wise man, because he knows the way of life: nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory; However, it is not too late to mend. A strong man has setbacks in his life, but he can achieve great things because he is good at preparing in advance and grasping opportunities.

13, one night, two people were walking in the cold snow when they met a passer-by who fell to the ground and couldn't walk. Passers-by begged two people to help him. However, the road ahead is still very long, and my physical strength has been exhausted and I can't tell the direction. If you rescue this passer-by, doesn't it mean adding a burden to yourself and pushing yourself to the wall? So, two people made different choices-one dumped passers-by and walked forward; The other picked up the stranger and struggled forward. The two people who finally walked together warmed each other along the way, determined the direction together, and finally got out of the predicament; But the man who walked alone was swallowed up by heavy snow and night.

Feeling: This story illustrates the basic spirit of being kind to others. Indeed, in real life, you think he is an alien who opposes you everywhere, but in fact he is your confidant; You think he is the sand in the eye, but he is the pearl in the clam. It's just that his views and methods of looking at things, analyzing things and dealing with things are "different" from ours and often disagree with us. We should find him, tolerate him and be kind to him.

14, Hokkaido, Japan produces a strange eel, and many fishermen in seaside fishing villages make a living by fishing for eels. Eel life is very fragile. As soon as it leaves the deep sea, it will all die within half a day. Strangely, an old fisherman goes fishing for eels every day. After returning to the shore, his eels are always alive and kicking. However, several other fishermen who caught eels died after returning to the shore, no matter what they did with the eels they caught. Because the price of fresh eels is almost twice as expensive as that of dead eels, in a few years, the old fisherman's family became a well-known rich man. The fishermen around are doing the same business, but they can only maintain simple food and clothing. On his deathbed, the old fisherman passed on the secret to his son. It turns out that the secret of the old fisherman raising eels is to put a few miscellaneous fish called pike in the whole cabin. Eels and pike are not the same kind, but also famous "rivals". Several weak barracuda ran around the pile of eels in panic when they met their opponents, thus activating all the dead eels in a cabin.

Feeling: Many people regard their opponents as a menace, an alien, a thorn in their side and a thorn in their flesh, and can't wait to get rid of them immediately. In fact, as long as you think about it carefully, you will find that having a strong opponent is a blessing and an accident. Because a strong opponent will make you feel a sense of crisis at all times and will inspire you to be more energetic and fighting spirit.

15. If an animal has no opponent, it will become lifeless. Similarly, if a person has no opponent, he will be content with mediocrity and develop inertia, which will eventually lead to mediocrity and inaction. If a group has no rivals, it will lose its vitality and vitality because of interdependence and subtle influence. With an opponent, you will have a sense of crisis and be competitive. With an opponent, you have to work hard, innovate and forge ahead. Otherwise, you can only wait to be swallowed up, replaced and eliminated.

1987, 75 nobel prize winners met in Paris. Someone asked one of them, "What you learned in which university and laboratory is the most important?" Surprisingly, the scholar replied, "It was in kindergarten." "What did you learn in kindergarten?" The scholar replied: "Give half of your things to your friends; Don't take things that are not your own; Things should be placed neatly; Wash your hands before eating; Apologize for doing something wrong; Have a rest after lunch; Observe the nature around you carefully. Fundamentally speaking, all the things I have learned are these. "

Feeling: Habit is a behavioral tendency that people gradually develop over a long period of time and are not easy to change temporarily. The formation of habits has a process. The cultivation of good habits requires perseverance and self-discipline. Good habits are the foundation of success. We should carry forward the good habits we developed when we were young. How many good habits (or virtues) do you have left now?

16, Chunlan and Haier are both pioneers of domestic enterprises and have more experience in international competition than other enterprises. Haier changed its organizational system in the face of WTO and welcomed digital domestic enterprises with a digital attitude. Chunlan, which has carried out property rights reform, faces the challenge of WTO and foreign competition with a flexible new system. Both Haier and Chunlan are revolutionizing. If our enterprises in China in 1980s are the second generation after the reform. Then, we can see that in 2 1 century, Haier and Chunlan, the heroes of the previous generation, are leading China enterprises to make breakthroughs in the third generation.

Feeling: Nothing is smooth sailing, and reform is full of hardships. Don't be afraid of resistance in reform. The success of any reform will come at the expense of many sacrifices. Reform is the only way for social development.

Philosophical story

17, a frustrated young man asked a monk. After understanding his purpose, the monk put two cups of tea in front of him. He made a cup with warm water and let the young people drink it. The young man took a few sips carefully and found that there was no fragrance at all. The monk made another cup of boiled water, but it was not filled. I saw the tea in the cup rise and fall. After a while, a faint fragrance slowly overflowed from the cup, and then the monk added some boiling water to the cup, adding water three times, and the tea inside rose badly every time. The young man smelled a fresh fragrance. He tasted it carefully for a while, nodded with satisfaction and said that everything was understood.

Feeling: the same tea leaves, two different temperatures of water make a cup dull, but a cup is full of fragrance. In fact, life is like a cup of tea. Only by ups and downs in difficulties and obstacles and tempering in pain and bitterness can we truly appreciate the original flavor and charm of life. In the ups and downs and tempering again and again, life becomes radiant and fragrant. Life is not just a cup of tea. As long as you feel it with your heart, nature can be compared with life, and its philosophical significance varies with people's spirit, pursuit and mood. As a plum blossom, some people think she is lonely, and some people admire her Ao Shuang style; Being the same stone, some people think it is stubborn, while others appreciate its tenacity and persistence.

18, a master taught two apprentices to make wine: at noon on the Dragon Boat Festival, choose rice with full grains, mix it with water drops in the mountains and rivers where the ice and snow have just melted, pour it into a pottery urn made of Millennium purple sand, and seal it for 998 1 day until the cock crows three times before unsealing it. The two apprentices found all the information they wanted and waited for a long time. Finally, the eighty-first day arrived, and they couldn't sleep at night. The first cock crow came from a distance, and it took a long time for the second cock crow to ring faintly. When will the third cock crow come? It's hard to say. One of the disciples couldn't help it any longer. He couldn't wait to open the pottery jar, which was filled with water as sour as vinegar and bitter as Chinese medicine! He could only throw it to the ground in disappointment. On the other hand, although curiosity burned in my heart like wildfire, I couldn't help but want to reach out, but I still gritted my teeth and insisted on opening it after three crows. The urn is filled with bitter, sweet and clear wine, and the smell is intoxicating! I just waited for another cock crow, but the result was quite different.

Feeling: Sometimes, the difference between a winner and a loser is only whether they can persist, and this "bottom" is sometimes a year, sometimes just a few days, and sometimes it is just a "chicken crow". Therefore, if you want to create something, you must practice this persistent kung fu and strive to cultivate your perseverance. In a word, persistence is the most important thing in life. Whoever can stick it out will win.

19. One night, the ancient Greek philosopher Thales saw the sky was clear and observed the stars on the grass. He walked slowly while looking up at the sky. Unexpectedly, a deep pit appeared in front of him. As soon as he stepped on it, he fell like a stone. When he realized it, his body was already in the water. Although the water flooded his chest, it was two or three meters away from the road. He couldn't get out or get up, but he shouted for help. Terez was rescued from a puddle by passers-by. He stroked his injured body and said to passers-by, "It's going to rain tomorrow!" " "Passers-by smiled and shook his head and walked away, telling Thales' prediction as a joke. The next day, if it rains, people admire Thales very much Some people don't think so. They said, "Thales knows things in the sky, but he can't see things under his feet."

Two thousand years later, the German philosopher Hegel heard this story of Thales and said a famous saying: "Only those who lie at the bottom of the pit forever and never look up at the sky will not fall into the pit."

Perception: as long as you explore anything, you will encounter danger or injury; The ladder of success lies in "obsession". If you are persistent, you will succeed.

20. According to legend, Buddha Sakyamuni once asked his disciples, "How can a drop of water not dry up?" Disciple mused, "A solitary drop of water can be blown away by a gust of wind, and a pinch of soil can be sucked dry. What is its life span? " ? How can you not do it? "... the disciples couldn't answer. Sakyamuni said: "Put it in the river and sea. "

Perception: ① Only when individuals are in the collective can they fully reflect their own values and make their youth stay forever. Whether you are a man of lofty ideals or a great hero, your strength and contribution can only be limited compared with the masses. We must establish the materialistic viewpoint that the people create history and respect the people's initiative. Any successful person comes from the masses and should regard himself as an ordinary member of the masses, otherwise he will lose his luster and vitality like a "drop of water" leaving the sea.

2 1. A zoologist, while investigating animals living on both sides of the Orange River in Africa, found a strange phenomenon: compared with antelopes living on the east bank of the river, antelopes living on the west bank of the river not only have stronger reproductive ability, but also have stronger running ability. Zoologists are confused. So he did an experiment: catch 10 antelopes from both sides of the river and exchange them with each other. A year later, the number of antelopes sent to the west coast was 14, while only three antelopes were sent to the east coast, and the rest were in wolves' pockets.

Zoologists have solved the mystery: the antelope on the east coast are strong because there are a group of wolves living nearby. In order to survive, they must "compete" with wolves, so the more they live, the more effective they are. On the other hand, the antelope on the west coast lack natural enemies and have no viability, and the more they live, the weaker they become.

Feeling: The above story tells us: Without competition, there will be no survival, and there will be no development. In fact, there is competition everywhere in life, such as stadiums, gymnasiums, officialdom, battlefields, examination rooms and so on. There is pressure and motivation only when there is competition. Competition can make people catch up and constantly surpass themselves.

When Franklin was young, he visited a venerable old man. At that time, he was young and energetic, holding his head high and striding forward. As soon as he entered the door, his head hit the door frame, causing him to rub it with his hand and look at the door much shorter than his body. The seniors who came out to meet him saw him like this and smiled and said, "It hurts! However, this will be the biggest gain of your visit to me today. If a person wants to live safely in this world, he must always remember: bow his head when it is time. This is what I want to teach you. "

Franklin regarded the teaching gained from this visit as the greatest gain in his life and listed it as one of the principles of life, thus benefiting him for life. Later, he became a great man. In this conversation, he said, "This inspiration has helped me a lot."

Feeling: if you want to enter a door, you must make your head shorter than the door frame; If you want to reach the peak of success, you must keep your head down and be ready to climb. "As long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is ground into a needle."

23. Ceng Zi is a student of Confucius. His name is Zeng Shen. He is very knowledgeable.

Once, Ceng Zi's wife went to the market to buy things, and her little son went with her. Mother wouldn't let him go, and her son was crying behind. Mother coaxed him and said, "Good boy, you are at home. When I come back, I will kill the pig for you. " Children believe it. Ceng Zi also heard it.

When Ceng Zi's wife came back from the market, she heard Ceng Zi sharpening his knife, as if she really wanted to kill pigs. She hurried forward to persuade: "I said that killing pigs is just to coax children, but you are serious." Ceng Zi said, "You can't just play jokes on children. The child is too young to distinguish right from wrong. Everything imitates his parents' words and deeds. Now if you lie to him, you are asking the child to lie. The mother is lying now, and the child will lie to others when he grows up. How can he educate children like this? "

Ceng Zi's wife nodded and thought that Ceng Zi was right. Ceng Zi picked up a knife and killed the pig. Ceng Zi's wife also stewed pork for the children.

Feeling: Honesty is a pure reflection of the soul, which can not only illuminate oneself, but also warm others. When a person has honesty, he has the gold of life. Education should start with children's young mental health, otherwise, nothing can be achieved.

24. During the Song and Yuan Dynasties, the world was in chaos. Scholar Xu Heng went out because of the hot weather and unbearable thirst. There happened to be a pear tree by the roadside. Pedestrians went to pick pears, but Xu Heng was unmoved. Someone asked, "Why not pick pears to quench your thirst?" He replied, "pears are not your own. How can you pick them?" The man laughed at him for being pedantic and asked him to be flexible: "In the chaos of the world, pears may not be taken." Xu Heng primly said, "Although pears have no owners, their hearts have owners." Still struggling with thirst. This man is ashamed.

Feelings: Passers-by's ideas are somewhat flexible, but Xu Heng shows a high degree of principle. Maybe we have been oppressed by shackles for too long, so that we can surpass the principles that are beneficial to society now, but we should think that when principles are regarded as transcendence, a series of practical problems will arise, such as human feelings, money, power ... everything can surpass principles. How to maintain a hard-won democratic society?

25. Mrs. Bell built a garden outside Atlanta. This garden is big and beautiful, which attracts many tourists. People like singing, dancing and laughing in the garden. The more Mrs. Bell watched it, the angrier she became. She hung a sign in the garden, which said, "Welcome to play here, but there is a poisonous snake in the grass in this garden." If someone is accidentally bitten by a poisonous snake, please take emergency rescue measures within half an hour, otherwise life will be hard to protect. " This idea really works, and those playful tourists flinch when they see the brand. A few years later, Mrs. Bell's garden was almost deserted because there were too few people walking around, weeds were overgrown and poisonous snakes were everywhere.

Feeling: Mrs. Bell can completely enjoy the beauty of nature and the beauty of harmonious interpersonal relationship with people. However, her mistake ruined all this, and tourists were discouraged. Mrs. Bell is lonely, too. Facts show that only people can enjoy happiness. * * * enjoys both material and spiritual things, so much the better if people can communicate and understand in the enjoyment of * * * and realize the promotion and progress of * * *.

26. A biologist saw an eagle among chickens on a farm, so he asked his master, "Why did the king of birds fall into this state with chickens?" The owner said, "Because I have been feeding it chicken feed and growing up in a henhouse, it never wants to fly. It doesn't think it is an eagle at all." The biologist said, "However, it is an eagle after all and should be taught." After some discussion, the two are ready to release the eagle. Failure on the first day, failure on the second. On the third day, biologists took the eagle to the mountain and encouraged it again, saying, "You are an eagle, belonging to the blue sky and the earth. Spread your wings and fly! " Miracle appeared, the eagle slowly spread its wings, and finally issued a long cry of victory and rushed to the sky.

Perception: ① Praise generates power, power creates miracles, and miracles come from power. Education should pay attention to teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, and we should not take it for granted. Encourage more and criticize less; Understand more and blame less; More support, less irony. If this can be done, poor students will miraculously become top students. 2 environment makes people. A comfortable environment cannot create a life full of fighting power, and a successful life needs to go through storms and challenges. ③ Goals affect growth. Know yourself and be clear about your goals. Eagles should fly in the sky, and don't commit themselves to the life of chickens.

27. The crab got lost in the forest and met a frog. He asked, "Brother Frog, how can I get to the river?" The frog pointed to the front and said, "Go straight ahead and you will reach the river in a moment."

The crab walked for a long time, but it still didn't reach the river. Later, the crab met the frog and accused me of saying, "You made me suffer so much. I haven't seen the shadow of the river for a long time." The frog said, "I didn't lie to you!" " I told you to go straight ahead, but you crawled sideways. Of course, you can't get to the river. "

Feelings: ① Without the correct direction, it is difficult to achieve the goal; ② Without the correct method, it is difficult to achieve the ideal of "crawling sideways"; 3 without a correct attitude, not introspecting, blindly accusing others of misleading, and ultimately useless; (4) to help others, we should proceed from reality; ⑤ Put forward suggestions with sincere attitude; 6. Instruct others to specify.

28. Once upon a time, there was a man who was extremely lazy. Because he was too lazy to do anything, his family finally made him three rice balls and kicked him out of the house. That lazy man doesn't know where to go. He hung the rice ball around his neck and walked aimlessly. Walking, I'm hungry. Lazy people would rather starve than unpack the rice balls. At this moment, a man with a hat and an open mouth came across. The lazy man thought, is it because he was hungry that he opened his mouth so wide? So he said to the man in the hat, "Hey, can you help me untie the package hanging around my neck?" There are three rice balls in it. How about giving you one? The man in the hat replied, "What are you talking about, my brother?" I was worried that the rope of the hat was loose and it would be troublesome to tie it up, so I opened my mouth wide so that my chin could tighten the rope! "

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