Leshandsome's troubles! Please come and help!

I'm not preaching, I just want to give you some help from my experience.

I 13 hated skirt makeup as much as you did (of course, I still hate it now). For this reason, I have had many conflicts with my family. Almost every time I buy clothes and shoes, I have to make a scene, which is inevitable. Not all parents are open.

But as you get older, you will gradually gain some "freedom". For example, you can go out with friends to buy clothes. Of course, you can gradually let your family know that dressing is a personal character and cannot be forced. But be tactful. Because quarreling can't solve the problem, it intensifies the contradiction. Perhaps, the issues you and your family will argue about in the future (such as coming out) are more intense than clothes. Don't make things difficult for you, they are your closest relatives.

I want to emphasize that many T's like men's clothes, but you should know that not all men's clothes are T's. To be a good T, there are many things to learn and adhere to. The most important thing is to understand that if you study hard and find a good job in the future, you and your other half will have a life guarantee in the future, and inner persistence is far more important than appearance.

As you get older, there will be some compromises. For example, I still won't wear skirts and high heels, but I will keep my hair (not too long) to hide myself better.

Whether you dress openly or restrainedly, the most important thing is to respect your inner choices and understand what you want. Love life, contribute to society, love people around you, be positive and sunny. Our life is wonderful:) Come on!