What's the difference between boys and girls' mentality after lovelorn?

Men have high self-esteem. For a lovelorn person, you may not see his pain on the surface, but it is really painful behind him. In fact, lovelorn is a great blow to a man, and sometimes it may destroy his belief in life. Compared with men, women's emotions are gentle and delicate. Although they are not like stormy men's emotions, they are also like spring breeze and rain, moistening things silently. Many women will choose to smile in front of others after falling in love, and then Lacrimosa. After lovelorn, women may cry a lot to vent their emotions, and will soon come out of their grief and throw themselves into the next love. Many men fidget all day after falling in love, and even feel sad. After being lovelorn, a man may repeat the following scene in his mind: If I had apologized to her at that time, she might have forgiven me and wouldn't have come this far. I can't extricate myself from the regret of being lovelorn. Women, on the other hand, are more resourceful and can adapt to the drastic changes in lifestyle. After breaking up, many men will speak ill of their ex-girlfriends everywhere. This is not because I hate my ex-girlfriend, but because I am immature. Breaking up and being dumped is a very painful reality that no one can easily accept. In order to maintain inner balance, some men will say to themselves, "She has such a bad personality that breaking up is a good thing." This practice of defending one's behavior is called "eliminating cognitive dissonance". I tried my best to protect myself because I insisted. It seems that girls are the most humble after breaking up. In fact, girls can express it, and boys just hide it in their hearts. In fact, there are many comfortable girls and many painful boys. At first, I ate, drank and had fun everywhere. When you are alone, you begin to remember. After that, it got better and better, and the degree became lighter and lighter. Boys are lovelorn: take the next one seamlessly. Girls are lovelorn: the first day they cry, the second day they think, and the third day they look back on the fourth day. What is the difference? Is to see who loses worse.