20 17 May Day weather in Guangdong.

Parents love their children, which has far-reaching influence!

However, there are so many misfortunes in this world that people fall into them and can't untie the heavy shackles for a lifetime.

There is never absolute fairness in this world. Some people live in the family of Zhong Ming Shi Ding all their lives.

Some people are plain, while others are accompanied by misfortune all their lives.

This is the reality of the world we live in. Although some misfortunes have not befallen us, perhaps we can learn the true meaning of life from them!

Huang Wanlan was born in Guangzhou from 65438 to 0934. Although old China was generally poor, she was "despised" as a woman.

But she was lucky enough to find a decent job in the country's power plant very early.

Her life is obviously smoother than that of her peers. At the age of 23, she married a young man in the same factory, and the two young people formed a happy family.

After the marriage, the two soon welcomed their first child, a boy. The couple named him Li Jianjian, hoping that the child would be strong and brave when he grew up.

Because both husband and wife work in factories and are relatively well-off economically, they have never been mistreated by this precious son since childhood.

And Li Jianjian did not live up to their hopes. The children thrive and are very smart, which makes their family of three the envy of everyone.

In the 1970s, the eldest son was in his teens. Considering the good family economic conditions and China people's emphasis on "more children and more happiness", the young couple decided to have another child.

As a result, God seems to care for this family. Huang Wanlan soon became pregnant again. At the age of 37, she gave birth to a son named Li Jianen.

The couple are very pleased with the arrival of this child. They have had experience in raising their eldest son before, so this time they have prepared many nutritional supplements for the child, hoping that the child can grow up healthily.

But soon, the couple noticed the abnormality of the child. At the age of one, children should learn to walk.

However, the child has never seen any signs of walking, and even feels weak.

Seeing this symptom, Huang Wanlan's husband bought a lot of bone tonic things and asked Huang Wanlan to stew some bone soup for his children, but it didn't work after some tossing.

Huang Wanlan was a little anxious, but her husband comforted her and said that it would be fine if the child grew up, maybe it was just a little late.

But with the passage of time, it should be the age to call mom and dad, and the children can't see anything slowly.

At this time, the husband and wife couldn't sit still, and hurriedly took the children to the hospital for examination. As a result, the results of the exam surprised them. It turned out that the child was diagnosed with "Down syndrome".

Everyone may have heard of Down syndrome, and there are many such examples in reality.

There are many reasons for this disease, such as old age, heredity or exposure to carcinogens.

Obviously, this situation of Huang Wanlan and his wife is probably due to their age.

The internal manifestation mechanism of this disease lies in the abnormality of "chromosome 2 1" in the body, which leads to mental retardation, developmental disorder and facial deformity.

In other words, Li Jianen will be a child who will never grow up. Not only will he be unable to live an ordinary life all his life, but he will even involve his family in taking care of him.

This news is undoubtedly a huge blow to this family that has always been envied by outsiders.

The couple can't accept this result and think that the hospital is very backward and may be misdiagnosed.

Fortunately, the couple took their children to Guangzhou Grand Hospital for examination. As a result, after some tossing, the couple can only accept this fait accompli.

Looking at the starving child in my arms, I don't know what the couple are feeling at the moment. I originally hoped that "how blessed it is to have more children."

Now it has become a "burden" of life. I wonder if Mr. and Mrs. Huang Wanlan regret giving birth to this child?

But after all, the child has been born, and the child is innocent, so even if it is unacceptable, we can only face the reality and take care of the child wholeheartedly, hoping for a "miracle."

As the days passed, Li Jianen grew up day by day, but unlike his peers, he had already learned to walk, talk and go to school. His life seems to be fixed at a certain point in time, except that his body grows up day by day, and his mind still has no progress.

When he eats and drinks Lazar, he needs someone to take care of him. At first, Huang Wanlan needed a job, so she found a family nanny for her son. Every night when she comes back, she throws herself at her son and takes care of him wholeheartedly. She even dislikes that the nanny is not careful enough to serve her son's life needs over and over again.

Because Li Jianen is a boy, it is difficult to wait on her when she is old, so many nannies are reluctant to work in her house any more. There is no way. For the sake of children, Huang Wanlan simply retired at the age of 47 and went home to take care of the children full-time.

Due to physical reasons, Li Jianen's natural resistance is lower than that of ordinary children. He will have a fever, catch a cold easily, and even get sick when the wind blows in bad weather.

Therefore, whenever she goes out with her children, Huang Wanlan will habitually add some clothes to her children. Every night, she often gets up at night to quilt the child.

When the children grew up, Huang Wanlan never went out shopping or visited friends' houses in his spare time like other colleagues.

After work, she takes care of her second son all the time and teaches him to walk and talk over and over again.

Perhaps Huang Wanlan's action touched the sky. 15 and 16 years old, Li Jianen began to learn to walk, and even simply called "mom and dad".

This makes Huang Wanlan and his wife feel unprecedented excitement, and even fantasize that they can make persistent efforts to let their children live a normal life.

But unfortunately, nothing has been realized. Since then, Li Jianen's appearance has stayed here, which is equivalent to the IQ of a seven-year-old child and has never changed.

This also made Huang Wanlan and his wife sad, and bigger challenges began to appear.

After Huang Wanlan went home to take full-time care of his son, the burden of the family fell on her husband. Fortunately, the eldest son is married, and the economic pressure is not great. The most important thing is Li Jianen's psychological pressure here.

When the children grow up, it seems that it is time to get married. Although there are major defects in their own conditions, the couple always consider that someone needs to take care of their son after a hundred years.

Therefore, I thought of using family conditions to marry a daughter-in-law for my son.

Not to mention "there must be courage if there is reward!" In front of the high bride price of Huang Wanlan and his wife, and after the propaganda of the matchmaker, many girls really tried "blind date" at home.

But seeing Li Jianen's appearance, the result is expected. Some polite people will find an excuse to leave politely, and some straightforward people will lift their legs and leave.

After many failures, Huang Wanlan and his wife were disheartened. It seems that the son they gave birth to still needs the husband and wife to accompany him for life.

Perhaps, this is a good thing, at least, to avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble.

But even this did not last long. Just after Li Jianen's 30th birthday, his body began to deteriorate, his brain declined, followed by a decline in intelligence and a sharp deterioration in his physical coordination. Waiting for him is just lying in bed every day.

Since then, the neighbors have never seen Huang Wanlan take his son out for breakfast and a walk. Perhaps, they speculated that Li Jianen's health might deteriorate. After all, it is inevitable for people with Down syndrome.

Li Jianen lying in bed also brought great challenges to Huang Wanlan and his wife.

In the past, at least they could walk and eat by themselves, but now they lie in bed every day. Apart from needing someone to feed them, the biggest misfortune is that they will get sores when they lie in bed for a long time and need to turn over from time to time.

This is obviously not an easy task for Huang Wanlan, who is already old.

Fortunately, her husband also retired from the factory. The couple helped turn over with one hand and scrubbed their son with the other. Although it's harder than before, it's ok.

It's a pity that Huang Wanlan's husband left first. Due to long-term work, his health is not very good. Plus, he always felt sorry for Huang Wanlan and his mother, so he was depressed for a long time.

So in a few years, I couldn't keep going and left.

After losing her husband, Huang Wanlan suffered more. She wants to die, too, but what about her son if she doesn't die?

Are you going to drag down your eldest son's family all your life?

Thought of here, Huang Wanlan can only be strong, although her heart is very painful. At least on the day when she is alive, she should try not to disturb her eldest son. After all, his life should not be like them, living in "baggage".

However, the eldest son Li Jianjian is not irresponsible to his family. After losing his father, considering that his mother couldn't live alone with his brother, he took the initiative to take his mother and brother home.

Since then, Huang Wanlan's husband's work has been handed over to his eldest son. As usual, their mother and son cooperate to take care of the sick Li Jianen day after day.

Although, in Huang Wanlan's mind, she doesn't want to see this situation now, and there is no good way at the moment.

But the thought that if she is gone in the future, then these jobs can only rely on her eldest son, which she can't imagine anyway.

After all, she knows the pain in her heart.

Although, in Li Jianen's case, Huang Wanlan can send him to a welfare home to be taken care of. She did have this idea before, but she never thought about it again after going there once.

In her eyes, when she arrived at that place, she was basically like a "living dead", which she could never accept.

Those, since then, Huang Wanlan has been making up her mind, this secret can only be known by herself, and this kind of suffering can only be borne by herself.

As Huang Wanlan turned 70, her health gradually began to deteriorate. She suffers from high blood pressure and heart disease, and her heart is often pounding, and she gradually begins to feel powerless to scrub her son's body.

What is even more frightening is that Li Jianen began to eat less, and sometimes even stopped eating. This is not a good sign, indicating that his son's health has deteriorated again, and it is likely to be more troublesome in the future.

Looking at his son's appearance and body, Huang Wanlan finally realized that it was time. So, from 20 17, she often went to community clinics and asked the doctor for sleeping pills on the grounds of insomnia.

In less than half a year, the doctor prescribed more than 60 pills for her, but Huang Wanlan didn't take these sleeping pills, all of which she accumulated.

On may 9th, 20 17, the eldest son went out to work, leaving only her and her youngest son at home. So, she began to implement her own plan. She cooked a bowl of porridge for her son, added some honey and, of course, all the sleeping pills she had saved.

In order to ensure that this behavior is only out of her personal thoughts and has nothing to do with anyone else, she wrote a letter and confessed her motives in detail.

After that, his son fell into a deep sleep, and Huang Wanlan stayed by his side. As time went by, he finally looked at his son without breathing.

After the eldest son came home, Huang Wanlan truthfully confessed everything to his son and asked him to take her to the police station to surrender. Of course, Li Jianjian knows very well why his mother "killed his brother". So, under all kinds of entanglements, he still obeyed his mother's practice.

20 171October 26th, 17-year-old Huang Wanlan sat in the dock of the court. Prior to this, the relevant staff had investigated the reason why Huang Wanlan killed his son.

So, in the afternoon, Yuexiu District People's Court made a judgment. Although Huang Wanlan violated the law and constituted a crime, "his crime is pitiful and his feelings can be forgiven."

In combination with Huang Wanlan's surrender, and having reached the age of 75, he obtained the unanimous understanding of the victim's family, so he was given a lighter punishment and sentenced to three years in prison and suspended for four years.

For this result, Huang Wanlan was obviously a little surprised. Perhaps, killing people must be a price to pay in her heart, but she would rather pay for it than end her son's life by herself. It can be seen that she is really helpless and excusable.

20211kloc-0/On October 26th, Yuexiu District People's Court issued an announcement, deciding not to execute the original sentence against Huang Wanlan, which means that Huang Wanlan can live his own life in his later years without serving his sentence in prison again.

The story of Huang Wanlan and her son really made us feel sad. On the one hand, we are feeling the greatness of maternal love.

On the one hand, I feel sorry for the last tragedy.

Perhaps, our society can learn some reflections from it!