Chen's classic quotations

1. For me, love is not a close relative of skin, not a dish or a meal, but an immortal desire and a heroic dream in a decadent life. The fish and its bike

Not everyone has the courage to care about money, and people who care about money are not necessarily vulgar. Everyone has a soul in his heart, and he wants to breathe. Is coffee bitter?

It is said that in the afternoon, women who have experienced wind and frost, leisure and money often dress up and drink coffee in fixed cafes, which, like ripe fruit, exudes a long taste of growth experience and attracts attention. Is coffee bitter?

Desperate heart is the most interesting, like a flower blooming in a deep valley, which will wither in one day. Where to go tonight?

5. The realization of the ideal is often like this. You have achieved your ideal, but it is not what you think. Is coffee bitter?

6. Traveling makes me see farther and think more carefully, and understand the regrets of life and the benefits of the world. My travel philosophy

7. Everyone has a repressed desire, but not everyone is so stubborn and tirelessly pursues the repressed desire. Is coffee bitter?

8. Sorry, white is the most complicated color! I am depressed and angry, struggling in one vortex after another in my life. Trilogy of middle school girls

9. Life is real, but not so real. Life is beautiful, but not so beautiful. Life is beautiful, but not so beautiful. There is such a subtle, fatal and sentimental distance between fantasy and reality. Manjuan west wind

10. So traveling is not easy. Perhaps it can be traced back to this person's early life, inner wishes, unresolved problems in life, major gains and losses in life, or he is deeply hidden in the vast and dark subconscious. My travel philosophy

1 1. Everything in the world is perfect. The bird is in its nest, the river is in its bed, the child is in its mother's arms, and even the comet across the sky is in its orbit. I want to swim across the sea.

12. It is said that the sun stood on the ground in ninth circle before sunrise and said a wish, confession, joy, anything to the sky. At this time, the god in heaven can hear and is willing to help the prayers. Trilogy of middle school girls

13. Vienna has such gorgeous women, so decadent and nervous, so delicate and fragile. Like a heavy crystal chandelier, she sparkles and illuminates the simple life elsewhere. The same life, in other places, a simple meal has passed, but here it is an endless feast. Manjuan west wind

14. The city where I live and grow up forms a complete equilateral triangle with new york and Liverpool on the world map. It was born to be a prosperous city. My travel philosophy

15. I like to be as silent as an egg in a busy world, but the fragile shell contains a complete small world and a complete cell structure. This is what I think is perfect. My travel philosophy

16. I looked up at the bright starry sky and felt like floating dust, and then fell on the starlight all over the ground. Where to go tonight?

17. Sometimes I have to bite my teeth when I hold my daughter. This kind of love makes me gnash my teeth. Shanghai salad

18. My heart turned out to be an uncontrollable disappointment, that is, the gap between imagination and reality. the wood is already made into a boat—what is done cannot be undone

19. Swimming, hiking, diving, reading, staring blankly, fishing and drinking beer. He recalled what he had done one by one and basked in the sun. They are all ordinary. I want to swim across the sea.

20. Only then did I know that there was a warm feeling in my heart. It turns out that I love this world very much, and I love an open and pluralistic world. Because this feeling is always calling and always tempting, you should travel frequently. My travel philosophy

2 1. It is here that I believe that a long time ago, if there was no religion in Europe, there would be no art, not counting the cows painted by savages in caves. the wood is already made into a boat—what is done cannot be undone

The attitude of this family is a little cautious. They refuse to be regarded as ordinary people and show that they care. In fact, they haggle over every ounce in their hearts, but their faces are as quiet as possible. A street that never widens.

Excerpts from Chen's classic quotations

Chen (1958 18 ~) was born in Peking Union Medical College Hospital, and his ancestral home was Pingle, Guangxi. Member of Chinese Writers Association. Director of Shanghai Writers Association. 1982 graduated from Chinese Department of East China Normal University and worked as a novel editor in china welfare institute Childhood Magazine. 1992 concurrently serves as the youth program host of Shanghai Oriental TV Station. Since 1980s, children's literature has been created. His main works are Girl (won the second prize of children's literature in the new decade of the Ministry of Culture) and Trilogy for Female Middle School Students (won the National Prize for Women and Children's Works). In the late 1980s, she was engaged in adult literature creation. His major works include quiet inside, Gossip, A Girl, A Slow Boat to China, Shanghai Trilogy, Romantic Love in Shanghai, Gold Branches and Jade Leaves in Shanghai, Beautiful Heritage in Shanghai, Prose, The Girl's Private Past, and Dance of Aestheticism. At the same time, he created and published books for young people, such as The One-Child Declaration and Six Afternoons in the Trapezoidal Classroom, which were widely praised. Many works have won many awards at home and abroad.

Chen's classic quotations

1, a person has many taboos when he is young, because he doesn't want to look stupid. When you are not young, it is easy to understand your mistakes and gradually begin to accept your imperfections. But there are still some fundamental taboos, because I don't want to spend half my life without getting enough wisdom.

2. Hometown is a gentle and beautiful word. Speaking of hometown, just like calling your first lover, there is a sense of belonging that will never fade. Perhaps it is because the word is too gentle, too close, too classical, too fragile, too simple and too unique, so it has become so difficult to place now.

3. For me, love is not a dish or a meal, not a close relative of the skin, but an eternal desire and a heroic dream of a tired life.

Everyone will fall in love or fall in love with someone, but the word love will gradually eliminate material love, desire for possession and impulse to lust, and it will become a spiritual dedication. With the need for spiritual triumph in trivial life, this kind of love is rare, not necessarily for everyone's life, but it is even more dazzling. It is an inspirational climax of the soul, so it is a heroic dream in a tired life.

5. Find a boy worth growing up with and treat him gently. Being able to grow up together and become partners in life is the most precious thing. There must be setbacks, but you have to go through them to get what you can't easily get. Giving and getting are always equal. If it doesn't look equal, wait patiently. It is a virtue for a girl to wait quietly.

6. When a person walks, he is free to enter himself. What I hear is my inner voice. Finally, I walked into my heart, where I rummaged, washed and brushed, like a rich and long confession. After traveling for twenty-two years, I gradually got to know myself. That inner self likes his inner world like a whiteboard washed with alkaline water. You look so silent, but your heart is rough and the scenery is infinite.

7. It was never perfect, and later it was not even complete. But when we watch more broken, we can find the poetry inside. With its foil, the broken world has become full of feelings and significance, which is more touching than the perfect world we outlined for ourselves when we were superficial. Experience has taught us compassion, so our feelings have deepened and our hearts have softened.

8. Everyone has repressed desires, but not everyone is so stubborn and pursues repressed desires.

Up to now, I still feel that those of us who have passed puberty only survived by accident. Yes, I have written youth stories for a long time, but I never feel that I have to educate my readers. I will never forget how fake education and fake beauty killed the heart of youth. It was a hypocritical and fatuous smile.

10, well, I hope I can go to Carrick Vegas, I hope I can swim across the deepest sea and reach you. But the sea is too deep for me to fly. Today's world is full of dust. I never dared to expect that I could follow JFK's death and fly to an independent place in this world.

1 1. This strange place seems to have nothing to do with you. It is inevitable that you will go the wrong way with the map. You can't sleep well in a strange bed, but there will always be a moment when you suddenly find that this strange and separated place reveals incredible familiarity, just like a dream reappearing. You think you are exploring a new place, but in fact you are exploring an unknown corner of your heart.

12, the young days turned out to be sad days, days of love, days of yearning and days of believing in miracles. I can sing such songs and wander around.

13, sometimes I want to fly to Wan Li, sometimes I want to belong to my heart, sometimes I want to erase all traces of my identity, I long to be a transparent person, and sometimes I return to my heart thousands of miles away.

14, I like reading since I was a child, especially when the weather is bad, such as rainy winter, by the warm and dry window. For example, in the summer afternoon of typhoon and thunderstorm, I lay on a bamboo mat to study. For example, on a cloudy afternoon, reading with the light on. In this contrast environment, reading has become a barrier in the private sphere, which is the most thorough.

15. When we were young, we were so vicious and pure. When we grow up, we gradually become kind, because we know that doing evil will make us feel bad for a long time and make us suffer. At this time, it is necessary to be a kind person.

16. Sometimes life is so beautiful, but it is never as beautiful as you think. It has its own temper and never does what you want. You know at this time, don't force life to be the way it should be. You also know a little truth: when life is good, live it to the fullest, and when it must be far away, let it go without complaint.

17, you and your life are sometimes like a hand and a pool of water. You want to hold water, you hold it, and it's gone. Your hands are wet and covered with water, but you just can't say that you really hold water.

18, I see, love is a flower that will bloom and be grateful. A woman's attitude is not to let go, but to be unwilling. Her life from now on is to struggle and struggle in unwilling, in thousands of ways.

19, life is real, but not so real, life is beautiful, but not so beautiful, life is beautiful, but not so beautiful. There is such a subtle, fatal and sentimental distance between fantasy and reality.

20. I may wish I could live such a new cotton life all my life, which is soft, simple and comfortable. Stay away from the erosion of women by life in a fresh way. There are two kinds of erosion, one is greed and excess, and I like to go out to parties every night. The other is fatigue and wear, like a hand soaked in cold water every day, red and swollen.

2 1, I believe that a woman's life depends on the encouragement of some kind of dream, which sometimes hurts her and sometimes makes her life out of control. But it is still the pillar of her heart. The process of growth itself is not perfect, which includes the initial creation when expressing and experiencing pure feelings. Wait for the life you have experienced and help you wash away its lead.

22. Just like every stage of life, when it comes, you don't really understand what it means at first. You need time to experience it. Before this moment comes, you will always stay in the last stage of your relationship without knowing it. Life will make you understand when it thinks fit.

23, women's minds probably have some self-pity, starting from self-pity, some people are narcissistic, some people are sad, some people are fierce, in order not to let others see weakness and disappointment, some people are mean, in order not to let others feel cherished peace of mind. A woman's mind is always full of twists and turns, because it is too much, too fine and too difficult to take care of, which makes people inevitably bored. In order not to annoy people, and sometimes not to bore them, most women choose silence.

24, they all know to give up each other, their lives are as dead as a deep well, but they still have to give up in order not to hurt each other. It's like two people hanging on a cliff, clinging to each other and finally having to let go, falling straight and screaming, with long screams, but no legendary tears.

25. People sometimes protect their reasons for starting a trip as they do their privacy, because it is really a road to their spiritual world.

Yu Dan's Classic Quotations

Classic quotations from Yu Dan: 1. Our eyes always look too much at the outside world and too little at our own hearts.

The secret of happiness that Confucius can teach us is how to find your inner peace.

Everyone wants to live a happy life, and happiness is just a feeling, which has nothing to do with the rich and the poor, but is connected with the heart.

4, with an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the discretion of interacting with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others, warm others, and let family, friends and even the wider society get some reasons for comfort from yourself.

5. Caring for others is kind; It is wisdom to know people and be good at their duties. Positive energy quotations

6. Courage without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.

7. Actually, what is a teacher? I have a student. She gave me a small gift, which made me understand what a teacher is.

A little girl made me a gift hidden under the covers with a flashlight during military training because she wanted to give it to me on my birthday. She embroidered a small cross stitch herself and gave it to me in a plexiglass cover. I didn't understand it when I read it. I saw an elegant woman embroidered inside, bending down with a needle. Then there was a little dirty child with a runny nose below, and then she raised her arm. She grabbed the child by the arm. I also asked this girl, and I said, Oh, what is she doing, giving him a vaccination? Then the little girl smiled and said, see for yourself, and she left.

Later, I dug out a letter from the glass cover and folded it very small. In that letter, she told me that every child is actually an angel who fell to the ground. They came to the ground because their wings were broken, so before he forgot the sky, he always wanted to find someone to repair his wings.

This requires that in the world of adults, no one laughs at these children's childishness, recklessness and rudeness, and can tolerate them, love them, encourage them to sew their wings and remember the sky again. She said that when I met you, I actually met a man who sewed wings for angels.

In fact, I think this is the best explanation for the role of teacher so far.

8. The so-called experience is to test with body and blood, which is a very profound infiltration.

9. Enlightenment is a long process. Constant enlightenment and experience means that there is a ceremony in your heart.

10 in my opinion, whether it is Zhuangzi or Confucius, all the theories of ancient sages acting on individuals have only one purpose, and that is to maximize human happiness. As long as you feel awake, full and happy in your heart, then I think this is a meaning of sages.

1 1, the real cultural classics are things that can be extremely profound but also extremely simple. Its profundity is its spiritual connotation, and simplicity is its superficial form. Simplicity and profundity are sometimes not contradictory.

12, there is a principle in communication, that is, you should always keep it simple or even stupid and easy to spread. If you make it particularly profound, it won't spread. The premise of retransmission is simplicity and stupidity.

13, my father taught me that everything starts from the source.

14, I like to divide my life into two levels: life level and survival level. The bigger I am, the clearer I can be. The so-called realm of life is what a person's heart must hold; The so-called survival level is what contribution you have made in reality.

15, a person has the responsibility to turn his knowledge into productivity when he is young. You can't say that a person is happy when you are young. In fact, this kind of non-accession to the WTO will make people feel that there is no sense of value realization, and you are quite irresponsible.

16, life is actually a barrel effect. You should never ask where your tallest board is better, but your lowest board should be considered.

17, a passage I like very much in Zhuangzi is: The world is famous without remonstration, the world is not discouraged, and it is enough to distinguish between the inside and the outside, and to debate the realm of honor and disgrace.

Selected quotations from Yu Dan

When misfortune comes, the best way is to let it go as soon as possible, so that you can spare more time to do more valuable things, and you can live more efficiently and feel better.

This short story tells us that there will be many unsatisfactory and even unreasonable places in life, which may not be changed by our own strength, but we can change our mood and attitude. In a sense, what a person sees is what he has in his heart.

This story applies to all of us. Think about it, why do we live in this world, some people live happily and warmly, while others complain all day? Are their lives really that far away?

Actually, it's like we have half a bottle of wine in front of us. Pessimists say there is only half a bottle of such a good wine left! Optimists say there is still half a bottle of such a good wine! Different expressions are due to different mentality.

Joy Chen's classic quotations

1. Listen deeply, observe actively, interpret nonverbal information and perceive its meaning.

2. As a woman, if you are married and still participate in the election, they will think that you have not taken good care of your husband; If you get divorced, they will say that you can't keep a man; If you are single, they will immediately say that you can't find a man at all.

Single time is the only time in your life when you can meet men, flirt with men and date many different men. As a modern woman, a very important part of your growth and experience is love and lovelorn.

Some lovers always look at each other affectionately, but they don't realize that it is more important to look in the same direction when facing the future.

5. If you want to have everything, you can have everything; But on the way to your goal, at every intersection, you should see clearly the choice in front of you and make plans early.

6. A successful marriage does not require complete equality between men and women, but requires that you and your future husband must agree on the arrangement of life.

7. Nowadays, we are faced with countless choices: Who to marry? When are you getting married? What do you do? How to arrange the time? What should I believe? No matter which of these choices, its future visibility is zero for us, but we have to spend the rest of our lives in the consequences of these choices.

8. In order to gain the greatest social recognition, we constantly reposition our goals to keep them consistent with the ever-changing social norms; The speed of adjustment is really extraordinary.

9. Proper manners are related to respect for others and yourself. It costs nothing, but it can help you get everything.

10, living your life according to others' expectations is really a kind of autocracy. Dare to abandon the rules of society and let yourself reappear, just like a butterfly emerging from a cocoon. Be true to yourself, simple and happy, without apology or explanation.

1 1, anything that makes you really happy. Security and pride are not good enough for you.

12, writing is a very powerful way to find your own ideas, because ideas are generated in the activity of writing.

13, you won't call everyone, so don't treat every date as success or failure. On the contrary, after each date, you should consider what you have learned and be grateful for it.

14, you may not be the queen, but life is actually wonderful: if you think and act like a queen, people will treat you like a queen. We must teach others how to treat us.

15, for most of you, in fact, the only serious mistake you may make in your twenties that will change your life from now on is the decision of marriage. So, stop obsessing about career choice and think about that more serious problem.

16, don't just feel or think about a situation, give yourself enough time to feel and think. Feel and think before you speak or act.

17, when you fall in love with someone, the adjustment you need to make will not be too difficult for you, because you will sincerely want to support every pursuit of the person you love.

18, there is no acceptable reason to cheat, because a man will not sleep with anyone for accidental reasons. The cheating man has his own problems to solve, but don't let him use your time to solve them. You can only be with men you can trust for life.

19. Marriage only provides people with the illusion of security. For many people, getting married is a pure loss.

20. If you want to get an excellent man, you must first become an excellent woman. What a good man wants is an equal partner with him.

2 1, society has turned the relationship marriage that we really should cherish into the only important relationship in a woman's life. Therefore, people think that married women are normal and single women are abnormal. This attitude belittles and belittles the lives of all women.

22. Know your bottom line and leave when it's time to go. Don't be with a man who makes you suspicious.

23. What kind of people are around you? You are responsible for this, because the people you are attracted to are often people who can strengthen your self-feeling.

Be patient in everything, but the most important thing is to be patient with yourself. Don't always think about your own shortcomings and feel discouraged. You should constantly correct these shortcomings and make yourself look brand-new every day. No matter what your task is, start every day from the first time you face it.

25. We think it's cute to try to change men, but what men feel is being controlled, manipulated and denied. Your man may like his present life, otherwise he would have changed himself long ago. The only thing we can change is ourselves. You know, it's hard enough.

26. A woman may look a little strange, but she can be beautiful because she thinks she is beautiful. She loves herself, and this love shines through the way she shows herself and expresses herself. Others may not be attracted by her appearance first, but they will be fascinated by her self-orientation.

27. A strong woman is a woman who knows how to say no.

28. Why do you want to get married? Is it because all your friends are married? Or are you fooled by this society into thinking that you should get married? Or because they don't want to be the third wheel of their girlfriends and their husbands anymore? These reasons have nothing to do with the man you married, but they portend an unfortunate future. In your relationship, if you don't leave room for your most essential self, you and him will be lonely forever.

29. Don't imagine success, imagine the steps you will take to achieve it.

30. To be outstanding, you need to get flow somewhere in your life.

3 1, celibacy is one of the normal life stages, maybe it is a normal life stage, and marriage is a transitional state.

The real power lies not in controlling what happens to us, but in how to use it.

33. A good marriage needs many shared visions, shared values and many other factors.

34. Sisters, make your own money. You need to let him know that you are in control of your life; As long as you like, coming and going are your own business.

35. Abuse has no reason to be a part of your life. There are many good men and women in this world. They will not be violent and will not tolerate abuse. Don't fall in love or get married with people who abuse you.

36. When you find someone, you really want him or her to be your mentor. I can't directly ask if I can be my mentor, but approach each other with someone who can do something for my mentor.

When we look at and reflect on our life through a highly competitive prism, we are actually belittling ourselves. There are always people who are more successful than us and there are always people who are not as good as us. And all this has nothing to do with our lives. Others are not our standards. Your life is different from mine, and so is ours.

38. Never be satisfied with working only for others. Think about what would happen if you were fired.

39. If a relationship is shady, you shouldn't be immersed in it.

40. If many companies are looking for people by themselves, their basis is often just the amount of water in the first bucket, that is, the resume they see; But the reasons for their promotion and dismissal are the second bucket of water and the third bucket of water, that is, how this person is, his behavior and performance.

4 1, when choosing a job, you must follow your heart, or just focus on those jobs related to what you like.

42. Every successful person benefits from their mentor, and the best way to turn a person into his mentor is to make himself an indispensable assistant to the mentor.

43. We can't choose our origins, but everyone has the ability to control life beyond our imagination.

44. Flow is an ideal state of consciousness. People feel very strong and keen, and everything is under control, such as running water, at the peak of their ability. It is at this moment that you give full play to your ability, you are fully prepared to learn new things, you are more comfortable with what you do, and you will make new creations or discoveries.

45. It's best to mix with people who are better than yourself. Pick out those who do better than you, and you will gradually look up to them.

46. There is no need to explain anything for his satisfaction, and it is not your obligation to heal and relieve pain for him.

47. At any time, when you care too much about getting someone's approval, you will lose that person's respect for you. You have to let him win your love.

48. Everyone needs a sense of security, but a truly lasting sense of security can only come from your heart; Independence is the premise of intimacy. Don't just wait for your good man to appear, don't forget that you are a good woman. Marriage can't make you complete, what makes you complete is yourself. Love is extremely profound, but marriage is not.

49. This is the most important decision in your life, and the people who are most affected by this decision are not your parents, but yourself and the children you may have in the future.

50. Don't let your life simply respond to the needs of others. We can understand their feelings and let them know that although we cherish our relationship with them, we can't meet their every need. But we hope that the help we can provide will be useful to them.

5 1, getting married and staying married have little effect on a person's overall happiness, but it doesn't matter if they divorce after marriage. People are far less happy after divorce than before marriage. Many divorced people live shorter lives than those who are single or stay married.

52. When we look at and reflect on our life through a highly competitive prism, we are actually belittling ourselves. There are always people who are more successful than us and there are always people who are not as good as us. And all this has nothing to do with our lives. Others are not our standards.

53. No matter which one of these choices, its future visibility is zero for us, but we have to spend the rest of our lives in the consequences of these choices.

For our mother and her mother's mother, a man who has a job, doesn't drink too much and doesn't beat his wife can be a husband. But it's not enough for us. We can't just find a man, we hope he is a good man. What we want is not a responsible marriage, but love.