Jincheng police jumped into the river to save the suicidal man. What is the reason that makes a big man make such a decision?

In view of this problem, I personally think that the main reason is the pressure of life. At present, the pressure of men has become a common problem in society. How to get men out of the pressure cycle, we must find out the source of life pressure, and the sources of life pressure are various, such as work, family, marriage, business, etc. People say that men don't cry lightly, but I don't talk about it when they are suffering.

First of all, the pressure from work. In this highly competitive society, it has become the trend of the society that those who have the ability go to the top and those who have the inferiority go to the bottom. In the past, the era of eating big pots no longer exists. If you want to work, the "third-class work method": the era of waiting for work, waiting for wages, and waiting for retirement is no longer feasible, and it is no longer possible to muddle along. Now everyone has to work with real skills, and no matter which industry or type of work, performance is being implemented. The post salary also tends to be skill-based and practical, which invisibly puts a yoke on men and makes them breathless. In order to get rid of the status quo, men must work hard to learn skills, business and culture, otherwise they will lose the opportunity to work.

Secondly, it comes from emotional pressure. Because of the investment in work, there is naturally no love affair. Some people say that the feelings of two people can withstand the wind and waves, but they can't endure it. When we are in love, no one has ever thought that the truth of marriage is trivial. In daily trivialities, because of the pressure of work, we forget the initial intention of falling in love at that time. Once the feelings have experienced passionate love, they usually enter a period of exhaustion. At this stage, the passion of both sides does not exist, the feelings gradually become cold, and people's patience no longer exists. At this time, it is easy to have various contradictions, which leads to the conflict between the two. Feelings need to rely on two people * * * to work together and run together. Therefore, no matter how tired the work is, we should always supplement our feelings with nutrients, so that the flowers of feelings will last forever.

once again, it is the pressure from family. Since we have formed a family, as men, we must know the heavy burden on our shoulders, parents have to support, wives and children have to support. As for the current generation, there may be a certain proportion of only children, and one person has to bear the burden of three families, which invisibly increases the pressure on men. However, there is a common strange disease among men, that is, no matter how much pressure they have, they choose to remain silent. When encountering problems, they tend to solve them alone, instead of finding a friend to express their pressure. In the face of his wife and children, we must establish an authoritative image and never show weakness. Long-term depression will lead to emotional problems such as depression and anxiety. When you bear it to a certain extent, you will do extreme things. Therefore, as a man, we should not only be able to take responsibility, but also learn to adjust ourselves in a timely manner and reduce stress from time to time so that we can live a healthy and happy life.