The young stewardess coaxed the baby into a hot search: after becoming a mother, there is a kind of going out, which is called flustered.

The Spring Festival is a day when all children are happy and all old mothers are worried. For mothers who need to go to their hometown for the New Year, the first nightmare they have to face is to take their children out of town.

However, a particularly warm news recently brought some comfort to our anxious mood.

The mother took her two daughters home by train alone. The eldest daughter has a cold and fever, and the youngest daughter is crying. Just when she was at a loss, she was found by the flight attendant and helped her to put her crying little daughter to sleep with a less skilled posture, which solved the urgent need.

Meeting such a warm-hearted person is the luck of every mother who takes her children out. After all, for most people, going out is just a trivial matter, and going out for a long time is just an easy trip that only needs to pack up in advance. But when I became a mother, I found that there was a kind of collapse and helplessness called: taking the children out.

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When you are going to take a 6-month-old child out: "rice noodles, bowls and spoons, bibs, diapers, cups, clothes, toys …", you have to take food, play and watch, and you have to be on guard against losing your temper at any time. Pack up the necessities for the baby to go out. You may not even want to open the door.

But the point is, even if you are fully prepared, you still can't get the extra needs of your child accurately.

Often encounter collapse, often endure helplessness, is the only way for every mother who takes her children out.

Some time ago, I took my child to the hospital and held him upstairs and downstairs for triage. I thought it would be good to wait quietly for the call to see a doctor, but just one number away, the sudden extra demand of my child broke my good wish: he ... pooped.

I had to hold back my anxiety and take him to the bathroom to clean up. While cleaning up, I watched helplessly that the last number I got was bye-bye, which means I have to queue up from the beginning again. Helpless, I had to explain and apologize to other people and doctors and strive for a chance not to start all over again.

When I became a mother, I never dared to think about the word travel, let alone a short trip, let alone a long trip. You have to race against time to go shopping, because there is a baby bear in your arms who asks you all kinds of requirements anytime and anywhere.

After becoming a mother, I will never watch those stars take their babies out of the fashion street again! Exquisite makeup? Beautiful clothes? Perfect baby hug? Hum, fairy tales are all deceptive, because there have never been more than N nannies behind us, and of course there have never been more than N RMB to support us. We can only see the huge mommy bag behind us.

After becoming a mother, I dare not daydream about quiet days anymore. The children I took out are no different from the wild horses scattered on the grassland. Eating with girlfriends always ends in a chicken flying a dog jumping, and spoons drop bowls and cups. ...

After becoming a mother, taking the baby out has become an unspeakable pain for us. We are helpless because of endless demands, devastated by all kinds of sudden accidents, and exhausted by crying for no reason. After becoming a mother, taking the baby out is a dilemma we have to face.

She said that a baby that collapses makes the old mother feel ashamed.

Research shows that infancy is the fastest stage of brain development, and it is also the key period of children's character formation. Vision, hearing, touch and inner apperception are all formed at this stage, which is also a critical period for the formation of language logic, imagination and emotion. Therefore, in order to keep the children from losing at the starting line, the old mother always wants to take her baby out for a walk. The world is so big, and she always wants to take her children to see it.

But the child's mood is not as good as the weather changes. Besides being changeable and unpredictable, one second she may be laughing, and the next she may be going to rain. As for why she is crying, the old mother will certainly feel puzzled!

Maybe it's because I'm not used to flying for the first time; It is possible to see a stranger collapse; Maybe it's just because someone said, "This child is so noisy!" The old mother's answer to this question is often unsolvable.

So when the baby cries in public, as mothers, we always feel too humiliated. Because the children are noisy, the mother often feels sorry and guilty for the people around her:

"Passers-by looked at the knife reproachfully."

"Take the baby out for a day, I'm sorry for a lifetime." ...

I was very touched when Ivy Chu and his friend Zhou Yijun talked about their feelings when they took their children to Hongkong in the program "Foreign Childhood".

Zhou Yijun said, "Every time I take my children out, I feel very nervous. When I go to the restaurant, I want to say, don't make noise, don't break things. " Ivy Chu also said that she felt the same way and felt that her mother was very guilty, as if they had brought something disturbing.

But children's self-control and emotional management ability are very limited, especially children under 2 years old. They even change their faces for a second and cry when they cry.

Old mothers feel ashamed and helpless from time to time. Shame disturbs the people around you, but it can't coax his own Xiong Haizi. Every mother who walks out of the house with her children is a frightened, more embarrassed and badly coaxed baby, with endless apologies, inner guilt and powerlessness, which strongly supports her unbreakable feelings.

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Raising children is a very great thing and a difficult and long journey. Mothers also spare no effort to find solutions to the difficulties: bring some snacks and toys to their children to divert their attention when they cry; Ask people around you for help. Of course, there are some better ways:

Once on the MU2357 flight from Ningbo to Xi 'an, a mother gave a gift to everyone else for fear that her child would disturb the guests who were resting around her. Small gifts from my mother include earplugs and two pieces of candy. Although the gift is very light, what impressed me most was the sentence printed on the back of the gift bag: "Hello! I am Wendy from Ningbo. I am only one and a half years old. This is not my first trip, but I am still worried that my crying will disturb you when I take my mother alone. After all, the change of plane pressure will make me very upset. It is not a good boy to disturb others in public. I will try my best to keep quiet. Here are earplugs and small sweets, hoping to ease your troubles. Wendy, have a nice trip. "

This mother's practice is worth learning, which not only sets a good example for her children, but also makes people around her feel kindness and love.

Teacher Li Yueer, director of Ba Xue Garden, once said: "Raising children requires such determination: the intention to help children grow into a very lovely person and be accepted by society, coupled with correct actions, is called making love."

It's not just parents who can bring this love to their children. The growth of a child needs everyone's understanding, tolerance and even help. Just like the warm-hearted stewardess in the news, I think not only the mothers will be moved and warm, but even the children around her can feel the goodwill of the world!

The road to motherhood is full of difficulties. Mom is a superman with countless superpowers, but she is also an ordinary superman with weaknesses. On the way of raising children, we take love as the cornerstone and hope to cast a solid and beautiful life building for our children. When we try our best to help our children grow into a lovely person, we really hope that this society will show more care and kindness to mothers and less blame and sarcasm, so that mothers can take their children out without fear, no matter how far or near.