How to adapt yourself to the environment?

Young Liu, after going through all kinds of hardships, finally entered a relatively good enterprise, but after working for less than a year, he decided to resign because he didn't like the job and thought it had no place for him to play. He doesn't like this company, saying it has no vitality.

When he decided to resign, he found his friend Xiao Li: "Are you going to resign with me? I don't think you are very happy. " Xiao Li said "good" and the two agreed to resign together. But Xiao Li thought for a moment and said, "It's not good to go directly like this. We got together and left well. When we leave, we should also give a good influence to all our colleagues and customers. We should perform well on the last day and do the last thing well. " Xiao Liu said, "Well, let's give ourselves and each other one last chance."

The next morning, they came to the company at 8 o'clock on time, made coffee and tea, and cleaned the company up. They are very warm to all customers who come to their homes and treat them in the most caring way. Then, they said to all their colleagues who came into the office, "Hi! Hello! Good morning! " Let everyone feel their sincere attitude. At the end of a day's work, Xiao Liu said to his friend, "Do you want to hand in your resignation?" Xiao Li said, "Are you kidding? With such a good job and such a good service unit, can I bear to resign? " Finally, Xiao Li advised Xiao Liu to stay and said, "Don't you find that everyone is very enthusiastic about you today? Didn't you show your value today? Xiao Liu listened to his friend and lost in thought. ...

Changing oneself is a way to adapt to society. When the living environment cannot be changed, we should learn to change ourselves. Many people feel that their interpersonal relationship is not good, their colleagues are tense and their families are not harmonious. They always think others are bad, they are all good, and they always want to change each other. In fact, this possibility is not great, because the other party also wants you to change, and in the end neither side has changed. The best way is to change yourself first, and then change each other. When we are extremely worried about life or situation, we should learn to open a window of the soul and look at life and things from another angle. We shouldn't give up and stop just because the environment is bad for a while. You know, the environment is not made for you and me. We should learn to adapt to it. Instead of complaining about the bad social environment, we should change our mentality. Every crisis is a turning point, and every change means opportunity. In the pursuit of success, the goddess of luck will not give all her luck to one person.

If we can't change the weather, but we can change the mood; If birds can't fly, let me fly over Qian Shan; If you can't change your appearance, you can purify your heart; If the mountain doesn't come, then "I" will let myself pass, I will walk over, I will run over, I will jump over, in short, I must go over. In fact, there are many things that we can't change, but we can learn to change ourselves and adapt slowly.

Changing yourself is not giving up principles, but giving yourself more platforms and more opportunities to realize your ideals. Changing yourself is not a compromise, but a wise choice to retreat. It's like reaching a goal. In most cases, going directly is not acceptable. You must make a detour.