A woman with incompatible gas fields

When friends come back from traveling, they have dinner and chat together. The gathering time of several girlfriends is particularly relaxed. Just chatting, I feel that the gas field of several people together fits well. Thank God for giving us the chance to meet. Of course, I have also talked about some people who seem to be born incompatible, can meet, but can never know each other, and can't sit together like this.

I know very well that there are two types of women with whom I have never had a chance to become close friends. I have met many excellent and capable women in the workplace, but when I meet these two types, my heart will suddenly pull away. It's not that they are bad, but that they are naturally resistant to unsociable women, right? Some of them will sit together, but they can't get closer. Many of them work together, but just can't understand their world.

One is a woman among women, because I have worked in radio and television. I have met many of them, exquisite and beautiful, and well dressed. Don't think that women among women are extremely delicate and need too much care. In fact, they are firm-minded, know what they really need, work actively and do whatever it takes to achieve their goals. Practice has proved very effective. In life, seize every opportunity, because of the convenience of work, there are more opportunities to meet all kinds of successful people. These people are candidates for their husbands whether they are married or not. Once the goal is determined, the success rate is high.

In fact, I admire this kind of woman. No matter how weak she looks, the woman I like is actually very manly, generous and talkative. Men and women, once they know each other, will meet as friends. Even if the firm mind is frustrated, at this time, they will cry and get drunk, but they will not borrow a man's shoulder to rely on. And women among women, their tenacity is integrated into their bones, but their external performance is weak and fragile, which is easy to be concerned and protected by the strong. I admire their persistence in bone marrow.

The other, to be honest, I still don't understand. But I'm afraid to deal with them. I don't know when and why I'm being set up. They never seem to make mistakes. When they were students, they were good students in the eyes of teachers and parents. Even if their qualifications are average and they can't win the first place, they will reach the upper-middle level because of their unremitting efforts. At work, you work hard, know how to look at all directions, listen to all directions, and always know a lot of news that needs to be known to everyone.

They never talk too much nonsense to you and don't participate in office gossip. They talk little and do little, but they always get the attention of the leaders. There are many such women among the government workers I interviewed, as if they know what they need and how to get it. In a few years, you will take the leadership position. Supposedly, such women know how to advance and retreat, so it should not be difficult to get along with them. However, they rarely make mistakes, and they always speak frankly, which often makes you confused about the meaning behind the words. You will find yourself transparent in front of them, they are inscrutable in your eyes, and you will involuntarily respect them.

Sometimes, they will talk to you about some women's safety topics, such as you look good today and put on light makeup. How did you do it? It's your turn to wear this suit. It looks like it's made for you. It is very elegant ... at this time, there will be an alarm bell flashing in your mind. What has she been doing recently? Is there anything I can do for you ... and in a few days, or even longer, after you forget that you were relaxed and that you have talked about many topics that women care about, you will welcome to cooperate with her. Of course, more needs your efforts.

I met all kinds of people in the workplace, but these two kinds of women left a deep impression on me, because even if I worked with them for a long time, I couldn't be as close as my best friend and couldn't speak freely. This is the so-called gas field disagreement!