Is the higher the emotional intelligence, the stronger the ability to adapt to the environment?

High EQ sometimes comes from good family upbringing and sometimes from acquired experience. The latter is often understood by you as smooth. However, you don't understand why these people should be tactful. You just stand on God's side and trample them under your feet with imaginary moral standards. I am the so-called high emotional intelligence girl. I won't do it. I take care of everyone's feelings. I won't disturb my partner when he is busy. I try not to disturb others. Before I speak, I will wonder if I will accidentally hurt each other's minefield. I know how to thank others for their timely help. I will not easily show obvious likes and dislikes. So all you see is me smiling and ready to listen. However, what you can't see is that I once liked someone, and I devoted myself wholeheartedly. My love is 10, but I act like 100. Of course, I got a much smaller response from the other side. Then I worked harder, because I was afraid of losing, and finally I watched a relationship drift away. I made many mistakes, but I still want to love someone wholeheartedly, but I learned to control myself, although only I know the taste of this change.