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What's the difference between cold violence and cold treatment?

To distinguish between cold violence and cold treatment, we must first judge from a person's motivation. Many things have similar forms of expression, but the motives are really different.

A person who uses cold violence against you, his motive is to punish you in this way and make you compromise. This mental state is malicious and hostile, but cold treatment is different. Cold treatment is to hope that things will develop in a good direction. He won't dislike your feelings, just want to cool it down and then take more effective ways to ease the relationship between them. From the perspective of motivation, a person belongs to rationality.

Cold violence and cold reception are also manifested in the controllability of the problem. Cold treatment is bound to be accompanied by rational observation. He will judge how far this situation has developed, and then know how to stop when it is good and find a step for the other person to get off. This matter has turned over, but cold violence is different. Cold violence is endless harm. In other words, he wants to vent his anger in this way. The more uncomfortable you feel about his cold violence, the better he will feel. If you are indifferent to his cold violence, he may intensify his cold violence against you and even punish you in other ways. In the final analysis, these are two different ways to deal with the problem. Although there are similarities in expression, they can never be equated.

I also advise those who use cold treatment in the relationship between husband and wife not to turn it into cold violence. Once the cold violence gets out of control, there may be no turning back. This kind of injury will make feelings drop to freezing point. Every time I use cold violence, my feelings will cool down. How deep are your feelings and can withstand repeated cold violence?