How do people in Heshun Road avoid awkward conversations?

Many times, we will meet with others on the road. These people may happen to walk together, ride together, or be "friends" who carpool directly. A lot of time in life is spent on the road. If the journey is long and you can't get along with the people on the way, there will always be embarrassment. Then, we might as well analyze and solve how to make people along the way find the same topic and alleviate this annoying embarrassment.

First of all, if the journey is not long, you don't need to talk too much with people on the road. On the other hand, it's really not worth trying to find a topic just for such a short journey.

But when the journey is a little longer, such as more than ten hours on the same road, you can put down some numbers and talk about some topics of common interest. For example, I once saw my neighbor reading "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty" on the high-speed train, and reading history books was also one of my interests, so we started a cheerful chat with this book, from Zhu Yuanzhang to Li Zicheng, from Liu Bowen to Wei Zhongxian, and from the East. This is the benefit of the same interests. When you meet a person, what he likes is basically the same as what you like, then you must have a feeling of bosom friend, and our job is to make everyone on our way feel this way, so that your journey will be talked about.

That's it? Of course not. Sometimes you will find that your passers-by are completely different from you. What should you do when you don't have the same hobbies or topics? Besides, if we have to travel together for a few days, it is too dry to support the whole topic by one interest. So at this time, when we are looking for the idea of the topic, we must take the other person as the starting point, that is, find a point that he is interested in, and then let him mark his own ideas. At this time, you need to be an excellent listener, "pretend" to be interested in his topic, and let him find a feeling that he is a teacher. In this way, no matter who you are, you will be very willing to chat with you. You can tell him some hilarious things that happen around you when you talk. Don't brag, stay modest, so others will think you are a humorous and cultured person.

In short, since you are on the road, you should try to leave good memories for yourself and chat with others, which can not only solve your embarrassment, but also make more friends. Why not?