"Mother-in-law, can I rent a house for my eldest sister?" "No, it's more convenient for you." What do you think?

It is definitely best for a family to live together, but at least one condition is that they must live in harmony. It will definitely not work if they are inconsiderate of each other. I will marry After giving it to my husband, we worked hard to buy a house of our own. This was hard-won. My husband and I are usually very frugal. It was a great thing to be able to buy a house within seven years even though we were scrimping on food and clothing.

My husband and I are more relaxed now that we have a house, just for our children’s life and our own expenses. However, this matter is not my decision. My husband also has a sister at home, who is my eldest aunt. She is already in her thirties and is not married yet. She insists on her non-marriage policy and says she wants to find love of her own. I don’t know what her views on love are. I only know that she has had many boyfriends but none of them are willing. Marry her.

My eldest aunt has never been stingy with herself, but one characteristic is that she likes to follow the trend. She also likes to buy what others agree to buy. After buying it, she will not use it. When you return to your hometown, you can see that the house is a mess. There are so many things that I don’t even know what they are. Every time my mother-in-law tells me not to touch my eldest sister’s things, and I say I won’t move, she won’t even enter my room, let alone touch her things. Not looking for scolding?

I am no longer in my thirties. I have never had any money left. I work and don’t want to work. I will ask us to borrow money when I have no money. But needless to say, I will find a rich man in the future. I paid it back in one go. I still remember a small account that has amounted to tens of thousands over the years. Fortunately, my husband and I have a decent salary, but after buying a house, we can only live on. No, for the sake of my eldest sister. It’s not that I don’t agree with my job and I have to live in our new house for a while, it’s just that our new house is not suitable for habitation even after a few days of decoration.

The house we rent can only accommodate the children and us, but my mother-in-law insists that my eldest sister live in my new house. I thought that as long as my eldest sister is not worried about formaldehyde, I can live there! I'm usually busy with work and my children are in school, so I don't have time to see what's going on inside the new house. It happened to be a weekend off, so I took my children to see the new house. After all, my eldest sister had been staying there for a few days and wanted to see the new house. Is the smell still that strong? Let’s see how my eldest sister is doing lately.

When I took the key and opened the door of the new house, I was hit by a pungent smell. In the weather of September and October, a pungent rancid smell hit my face. When I saw the new house I insisted and couldn’t imagine what it looked like. It was all garbage. My new sofa had coffee stains on it, which made me very annoyed. My aunt was not at home, and I didn’t even call to borrow it. I was so angry that I gave it to my husband who was working out of town. When I called, my husband said he would call first to talk to my eldest aunt and ask me not to be angry.

I thought my eldest sister would be able to clean up the house the next day, so I took half a day off to go see the new house. It was still in the same condition as before. I couldn’t help it anymore and told my mother-in-law about it. I said to my mother-in-law: "Mother-in-law, can I rent a house for my eldest sister?" I thought my mother-in-law said we should leave this matter alone, but she said: "No, it's more convenient for you." When I heard this, I was completely conquered by my mother-in-law. I can't even pay for it. What do you think? Could it be that my eldest aunt just Are you ruining my new house like this?

Conclusion: Anyone who encounters this kind of thing will be upset. At this time, you should take the initiative to communicate with your aunt. If she doesn’t know how to deal with it, you have the right to drive her away, but the language must be appropriate. , explain the seriousness of the matter clearly, and don't act excessively. After all, they are relatives, and the eldest aunt is an adult and should be responsible for her own affairs.