Oral communication skills

Oral communication is a new and ancient training content, and it is the comprehensive application and embodiment of knowledge and ability. In the usual training, we should use many senses such as mouth, ears, eyes and hands in language practice to improve our oral communication ability. The following are my oral communication skills, I hope to help you!

1.？ Have a say? And then what? Self-righteous? Be different, don't take rudeness as your nature.

When you get along with others, you should follow a basic principle: don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. You can honestly describe your feelings, provided that you are not aggressive. As for judging and judging others, you need to be cautious and respectful. Many young people mistake caution and respect for hypocrisy and rudeness and narrowness for true nature, but they don't know that sharp words have hurt each other unintentionally. So before you speak, please put yourself in the other person's shoes. What a mature person says will make people feel very comfortable.

2. Use your body language well

On different occasions, body language has completely different meanings. Be able to change your nonverbal communication skills in time. Eye contact is one of the most important ways. Sometimes in extremely sensitive situations, you can also choose to sit side by side, which can avoid the pressure brought by eye contact and make the other person feel very comfortable.

Try not to use negative words.

Constant use of negative words often gives people a sense of command or criticism. Although your point of view is clearly stated, it is more difficult to accept. Many problems can be expressed in positive words. Using more positive words can not only make others like you, but also adjust their outlook on life. Next time, try it? I hope you will reconsider this idea? Instead? I don't agree with you? All right.

4. Listen and give appropriate feedback.

When talking with others, pay attention to and actively listen to each other's conversation, and give appropriate feedback and questions from time to time. Listening is respect, understanding and acceptance, and it is a bridge of spiritual communication. Listening is also reflected in not interrupting others' conversation at will, and politely changing the topic or ending the topic when others speak aimlessly. Don't rush to refute even if you have different opinions. Give the other person a chance to think calmly and make his thoughts clear.

Step 5 get rid of unpleasant spells

Everyone will inevitably have a habitual mantra when he speaks, but some involuntary mantras can easily arouse others' disgust. Swearing must be put an end to, some catch phrases? Get out of here! /Really? 、? Impossible? 、? You got it? 、? Whatever. Wait, don't keep saying this. It is said that chatting online, huh? And try to avoid it?

6. Don't be stingy with your praise

Carnegie once said. If you want to change people without offending or causing disgust, please praise their smallest progress and every progress. ? This is the power of praise. Praise comes from the heart, not from the heart. Only sincerity can impress people. Saying more words of praise and approval is not hypocrisy and netting, and flattering approval may be the best gift for the other party. In addition, praise with specific content seems to win the favor of women more easily than empty and abstract praise.

7. Time-sharing theory of humorous discourse

Humor can bring joy to people around, and humor can also enliven the atmosphere and ease contradictions. Sometimes using humorous words to politely refuse a request of the other party not only shows his wisdom and generosity, but also avoids embarrassing the other party. However, humor should be used in a time-sharing manner, and we must not ignore the reality and be silent at will. Beyond the limit, it will break up in discord.

8. Reason will not be louder.

In the process of communication, there will inevitably be collisions and conflicts. How to convince others is not something that can be done with a loud voice. The key is to figure out how to make people listen. It is the purpose of behavior to make people listen. Even the most profound and insightful remarks, if expressed rudely, arrogantly and noisily, can hardly leave a good impression in the eyes of onlookers, let alone those participants? So, the ancients said? The reason is not high? 、? Is rudeness right? 、? Do you still have to forgive others? Worth appreciating.

9. avoid being self-centered in conversation

It is undeniable that people always show great interest in their work, family, hometown and ideals. In fact, even like it? Where are you from? Such a simple question also shows that you are interested in others, and others will be interested in you as a result. But you mustn't talk to his girlfriend about your script for two hours like a young playwright and say:? I've said enough. Now let's talk about you. What do you think of my script?

10. Improper disseminators of gossip

It is an eternal truth that when a group of people talk about someone's gossip or rumors, don't casually echo them, don't slander others behind their backs, and don't comment on things they don't know. Uncontrolled curiosity may make you lose the trust of your friends.

1 1. Never mention any taboos.

People are usually very sensitive to their taboos. Because of psychological mischief, people often regard the unintentional of others as intentional and unconsciously associate irrelevant things with themselves. So-called? The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart? . Therefore, we should not only avoid talking about other people's taboos, but also try not to mention things related to our own taboos, so as to avoid misunderstanding and hurting others' self-esteem. As the saying goes:? Don't talk short in front of short people? . We must also pay special attention to different national customs.

;