All the love experts come in and help me, thank you very much!

You are responsible for your own happiness, come on, I support you! ! !

I’ll teach you another method! ! ! !

Lesson 1

To chase a girl, of course, you must first know the girl’s mobile phone number, and secondly, you must have that intention for her

Send a text message: "I had a great time chatting with you last time. Can I invite you out to chat again?"

Note: If the girl agrees, the location to be found You need to put some thought into it, maybe go to a quieter bar and avoid going to restaurants for the time being.

Lesson 2

After going home from a date, don’t forget to send a text message: It was a pleasure chatting with you and I look forward to meeting you again

Good night!

Let her know that you are a caring person. The next day, you can also send her a funny text message. For example:

1. On the giant panda’s birthday, someone asked it what it wished for? The giant panda said: I have only two wishes in my life. One is to find a Chinese medicine practitioner to remove the dark circles under my eyes, and the other is that I want to take a colorful photo.

2. I am from Yuanmou, Yunnan, and you are from Zhoukou, Beijing; I hold your hairy hand and bite it gently,

Love

Love, let us walk upright.

Let her know that you have a sense of humor.

Note: Never post pornographic jokes!

Lesson 3

Girls tend to be more vain. You can usually send text messages like this:

1. I saw you dressed very special today. Very cute.

2. My eyes are about to fall when I see you dressed so beautifully today.

Don’t be stingy with describing your beauty, be as beautiful as you want.

Lesson 4

Once you have become familiar with it after a period of contact, it is time for you to offer your treasure. Use your text messages to please the girl you like

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1. (Suggestion) If there is an afterlife, let us be little mice, fall in love stupidly, and live innocently, pure

Pure

Huddle together, silly together.

2. (Warm reminder) Are you busy? It's okay, I just want to tell you in a way that won't disturb you. I'm thinking of you. I hope you

receive

my text message with a smile on your lips. Friends around you know you are happy.

3. (Ask her to answer the question) Do you know what I am doing? Give you five choices: A. I miss you; B. I miss you very much; C. I miss you very much; D. I can’t miss you; E. All of the above.

4. (Send weather forecast) Tomorrow the minimum temperature will be 1 degree and the maximum temperature will be 10 degrees. XX asked me to tell you: care about the weather,

just

yes Care about you. Don’t forget to add an extra piece of clothing (XX, that’s yourself).

Lesson 5

The advantage of sending text messages is that you can say things you usually dare not say in person, even if it hurts to death, even girls

Yes

I like sweet words and care about others. But you should pay attention to the following things:

1. Quantity is important but not large. Girls probably don’t like their mother-in-law to fuck boys. Do you find it annoying to be around them all day long?

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Yeah.

2. Stop sending text messages copied from the Internet and use your own thinking.

3. Occasionally it rains for three days and the net is exposed for two days, playing hard to get. After a round of text message bombardment, suddenly not a single text message is sent for a day or two. When your text messages become a part of a girl's life, she will wonder why you didn't send it today. Did you send me a text message

? When she takes the initiative to text you, no matter what she says, you are already halfway to success.

4. After giving you enough text messages to care, the first text message a girl sends you is often a complaint, such as "I'm so bored

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, "I'm about to collapse", "I'm depressed" and the like, hey, what are you waiting for, girls need it most and it's easiest to succeed

Hurry up.

Encourage her: "In fact, the sky is very blue, and the clouds will eventually disperse." "In fact, the sea is not wide, and one shore is connected to the other shore." As you wish", "In fact, I want you to be happy every day."

After texting, call her again, this is a must.

What kind of first impression should be left on MM (Time: Just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see your progress. Heart.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people do not work long hours and cannot be considered "successful". At this time, you have to make your girlfriend think that you are a motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you already have long-term plans. In short, you

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The future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don’t be like a child. Girls are lazy and hope they can find someone to rely on. You have to show your confidence and responsibility. Heart comes.

Having a wrong choice is much better than having no choice at all.

Don’t be too confident if you are confident, otherwise you will become narcissistic, which is the most disgusting thing for girls.

3. Don’t be too serious, but don’t be too casual either.

Be serious where you should be serious, and laugh when you should laugh.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don’t appear to care about anything, as that would be too dull. F?

4. Look more mature

Men who are calm and unhurried in situations are fatally attractive to girls.

2. How to have further contact with MM (time: the beginning of chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to rush, don’t make things so clear, let her People can tell at a glance that you are chasing them.

Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not hate you at first glance. They are all ordinary people’s children (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau or Kevin Coster) (Na)

Good feelings need to be realized as understanding continues to increase, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Let’s think about it from a girl’s perspective: If you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately.

2. Start with a low profile

First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". If you want to become a "good friend", it is okay if you have good taste. Ask the other party to become a "confidante" or something like that. In short, never say "chasing you." Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then girls will have less chance to "reject".

This can reduce the psychological pressure of girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not happen out of thin air

3. Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating.

Be relaxed and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get"

(This is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmates).

Of course they won’t think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

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As mentioned before, don't make things immediately turn into "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

Develop a vigorous daily exercise plan.

Exercise can reduce mental stress and depression, and it is absolutely the basis for solving problems. When you're feeling stressed, exercise can double up.

You can collect intelligence,

find a way to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you. .

In short, this is the most technical place. If it really doesn’t work, you can ask your seniors for advice.

5. Don’t do it: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things and give them to others. However, they don’t know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls. ? As the saying goes, "No reward for no merit." If you give people things like this, you are exerting pressure. People will feel that they owe you, so they will find a way to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will I will find a way not to associate with you so as not to always owe you favors.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls will naturally be able to see that you spend money.

It’s a lot of money, but after all, the two of us spent the money together instead of turning it into something to take home.

3. What exactly is a "girlfriend"?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise

When you start dating a girl, you change from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to "good friends". To "a very, very good friend who talks about everything", one sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; to "Moon on the Willow Head", you suddenly attacked and kissed her Got her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks that you are her boyfriend.

I know that the wisest person never asked "Will you be my girlfriend" until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious and said, "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?" "So,

Don't rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As mentioned before, confession is actually just a formality. The correct sequence should be: Only after she has actually become your girlfriend can you confess your love to someone, and it will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this problem. They always think that someone agrees to be their girlfriend first and then does whatever they want. I can only say that it is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid". 琐

3. Is there ever a time when you “have no choice but to express your feelings”?

Yes, for example, a third party appears, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time. The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high.

It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand", and if it wins, it wins. If you lose, you can only say "Unlucky people are born".

4. Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit and commitment.

It even embodies a kind of responsibility.

Men who say "love" casually are irresponsible.