What kind of experience is it to be in tune with your lover?

You will feel very tacit understanding. He can understand your thoughts on many topics, and he won't be embarrassed about many things. Especially in matters of disagreement, you will find that both sides are tolerant. He can pay attention to your ideas when considering the problem, and even integrate the ideas of two people to solve the problem.

My friend and boyfriend are a couple who are in tune. They are very consistent in many points of view, and they will never infringe on each other's pain points where they should respect each other. Once they invited us to dinner, and we were all poking fun at their acquaintance. He and my friends answered us tacitly and won't get angry because of sharp or private questions. If he doesn't want to answer questions, he said, you can ask her in private. We all think that the relationship between them is quite good. On the way to the playground, because it was a little cold, my friend wore thin clothes when she went out, so I gave her an understanding look, let us play first, and they went back to get clothes. We didn't lose face because we fell behind them first. Many couples I know don't communicate well in this respect. Both of them had a cold war on the road, so when we had a private party with friends, she also said that it would be very easy to be with him. Even if we quarrel, one side will always calm down first, so it won't be a long cold war or anything.

So sometimes couples can get along without quarreling. The two sides reached a certain tacit understanding, especially communication is very important. Sometimes the feeling of getting along will become stronger and stronger, and both sides can gradually understand and get used to certain aspects of their personalities.