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The question you are considering is still correct. After all, you are a boss and a subordinate, and feelings and work can't be confused. Public to public, private to private. Otherwise, others will look down upon it.

Don't make a hasty confession about your present situation, because you don't know her yet, and you are her boss. If not, everyone will be embarrassed, haste makes waste.

You can start with friends and colleagues around her and find out her tone through others, such as whether there is a favorite object, what kind of man she likes, her hobbies, and her views on engineers and you. In short, make good use of the resources of people around her and try to get to know her, and you will always get a lot of information by beating around the bush. It won't worry her.

Emotional things can be cultivated slowly. You should pay more attention to her at ordinary times, but you must grasp the degree. Don't be too hasty First, you show that the boss cares about his subordinates. You seem to have done this. Then you should make the relationship a "mentor" and make her less wary of you in so many positions. Finally, when you don't care about her, she is a little uncomfortable and you succeed. This is ... At this time, you are not far from success.

Finally, I think it takes a lot of effort to chase girls. You can't just succeed. Girls will feel your careful concern for her, such as what to eat and what to reimburse. I don't think it will help much. You should start from the small things around you, such as working overtime in the dark to send her home, giving her an umbrella in rainy days, and giving her help and guidance when she is unhappy. In short, there are many, many things worth pondering. And her hobby, I said that you are a bit old-fashioned as a leader. Now which post-80s girl still listens to Tu Honggang's old songs, she has no right to speak without investigation. Find out.

Fate is predestined, sharing is artificial, just work hard, and finally I wish you success!