Parent school ~ Every child is unique.

I just woke up in the morning and saw that Teacher Yu had shared what I learned today ~ "Every child is unique".

summary of listening:

? Every child is unique and has different talents and abilities. In real life, many parents do not find their children unique.

? Why after Xiaoming's case

? One reason: parents don't realize that they are unique.

the uniqueness of children is innate.

? The second reason: parents are used to criticizing their children.

parents don't pay attention to methods.

? How should we guide children in family life and let them discover their uniqueness?

1. Look at children with appreciation.

Only by teaching students in accordance with their aptitude can children have a bright future.

2. Know what children really think.

open your heart and talk with your child.

3. Learn to mold children with language.

every child is eager to be recognized and praised by his parents. Encourage children with positive language and stimulate their self-motivation.

4. Make a list for your children.

Write down your child's advantages, such as sports skills, communication with people, etc. The more, the better. All the advantages are worth recording. Accompany your child to record the advantages every day, so that your specialty can become an advantage.

? Reflection on listening to a book:

As a parent, we should adjust our mentality. Even if my child can't satisfy me now, we should learn to wait, keep enough patience and love, and actively encourage more. Observe the child's words and deeds carefully and see what he likes to do and what he is interested in. Sit down and talk to your child face to face, listen to what kind of ideas your child has, give support to good ideas, and correct bad ideas in time. Summarize what children are interested in doing and encourage them to explore what they are interested in.

? Try to do:

1. Make a progress list for children, compare children's today and yesterday, record their daily efforts, let children see their progress, and give them affirmation and praise in time.

2. Say an encouraging word to your child every day.

for example, you are great, son!

mom saw your efforts!

you have done a good job in this matter, and mom is very happy!

mom believes you can do better!

Baby, the way you work hard is really cute! Come on!

combine theory with practice. I want to learn to encourage children, as long as today is a little better than yesterday, it is success!