Just in time, just in the weather.

Yesterday, in the article on WeChat official account, I saw someone sharing a resignation letter, which was quite interesting:

The owner of this resignation letter is a staff member of a scenic spot in Sanya. Studying and working in Sanya 13 years. At present, his superiors have approved his resignation.

She said, I love Sanya, but I also want to see life in big cities. I am not afraid in the first half of my life, and I have no regrets in the second half.

This reminds me of the first half of my life, an annual drama that was very popular last year. The original work of this book is Yi Shu, a writer I have been fond of for several years. This drama undoubtedly pushed the literary master to the public again. She told so many stories, but in the end she told only one person. This man is always wearing a white shirt and khaki pants, generous and not frivolous, independent and self-reliant, with many excellent suitors, but he will never make do with it.

Life is beautiful for women. Some people want to rush back down the mountain when they have seen enough scenery all the way up the mountain. Some people have just found the pleasure of climbing and are trying to climb up. Some people are still at the foot of the mountain, waiting for the weather, mood and time to be just right. When everything is just right, I'm afraid that mountain is not the original one.

At the moment, the music ringing in my ear is Liang Yongqi's yearning. We always say that accidental disappearance is a mistake. If accidental yearning can make our hearts yearn for it, why not this simple fault?

Today is the first day after beginning of winter. The warm coast of the South China Sea can't feel the chill, but the flowers are still in full bloom and the sunshine is warm all the way. It is said that there is no road to life in vain, and every step counts. However, on the way, I am always blinded by the surrounding scenery. Work, study and so on.

Many times, we think that our choice and direction, our vision are right. It is in this "thought" that we seize the opportunity and go forward bravely. Then after working hard for a while, I began to encounter a bottleneck period. At this moment, I fell into deep doubt, doubt the original choice, doubt whether the direction is correct, doubt my natural mission, and finally doubt myself and life. Slowly entering the burnout period, I feel that I can have a rest and set sail again, and maybe I can find new discoveries and new inspirations. then what No, and then.

I read a passage today and found it particularly interesting: at the age of 20, will dominates everything, at the age of 30, wit dominates everything, and at the age of 40, judgment dominates everything. Why do you say that? Because at the age of twenty, life is full of infinite possibilities, and free will is very precious. At this time, whatever you choose to do, as long as you stick to your willpower, you will achieve something. At the age of 30, the possibility of life is greatly reduced, and various binding forces will appear. At this age, it is necessary to rely on wit to intersperse in various factors and find room for development. By the age of forty, the energy of life has declined, and all the things that should be tried have been tried, so that no matter what achievements are made, there is a feeling of reaching the peak. Then why is judgment important? After all, it is the top of the mountain. If you want to keep going up, you have to go downhill and eat a little loss before you have a chance to climb the peak again. Therefore, the choice of which direction to go downhill reflects the value of judgment.

Everyone wants to get the value of life, to get applause, and to meet their excellent self. But how can there be plum blossoms without experiencing the cold? In the past month, I have read, written and recorded 60-second speech videos after work every day, with the ultimate output. Only after seven days of "Xin" road did I realize the change from the inside out. Recording 60 seconds of video every day, at first glance, sounds relaxed, time is not long, and there are not many words. Take it for granted that this is a piece of cake.

But after the experience, I found that wanting and doing are really separated. You'll never understand unless you've experienced it. Including, when you read this passage at this moment, you may not realize the difficulty. Because 60 seconds of video, 340 words, need not a word wrong, not more than a second, not less than a second, facing the camera, look calm, look firm, and speak calmly.

A normal minute is 245 words, 340 words need the brain to run at high speed, and the speech speed should be fast and accurate. Each recording takes one hour. However, after 7 days, your cerebral cortex has memory, which will automatically improve your memory, expression and output. Moreover, after habitually reciting the manuscript, I can blurt out golden sentences now. This is the power of accumulation. Thank you for not giving up, "extreme, altruistic, value, mindfulness", and will continue to practice to the extreme in the future. All this is thanks to my speech masters-Jackie Chan and Brother Long.

Master is only one year older than me, but he has all the patterns and connotations beyond this age. Strong internal drive, strong knowledge reserve, strong endorsement, strong tolerance, strong integration and strong personality charm. Master described it in one sentence: it starts with face value, is limited to talent, and is loyal to character. At the age of 30, it is important to follow others. In the future, I will follow in the footsteps of Master and be hard on myself on my way to school. After 365 days, I will meet a better self.

We have to abuse ourselves again in limited energy and time, and let ourselves be kidnapped by behavior and placed in an irreversible situation. At the same time, we can truly achieve "extreme". Luo Zhenyu said that while recording 60 seconds of audio, she let herself be kidnapped. Because the first recording may be a whim, but in the face of a large number of fans and expectations in the later period, my behavior is also embarrassed to be intermittent, and I can't slack off. I can only get better and better.

In fact, this is also the reason why many well-known brands advertise crazily, pushing themselves to the public and the forefront. In such an era when public opinion is king, they have been kidnapped by morality, and they can only keep breaking through because they can't let your customers and fans down.

I read a book "Pattern" last week, in which I said that you must let others get whatever you want. If you expect to be cared about, you should first care about others; If you want to be forgiven, forgive others first; If you want praise, praise others first; If you want to be happy, bring happiness to others first; If you want to succeed, you should bring success to others first. Do what you want to do to others. When you help others get what they want, you will definitely get what you want.

People always think that others are others, I am me, and I am separated from others. This is why it is difficult for people to succeed and be happy.

Think about it, if you push others down, is it possible for you to improve yourself? When you kick down the ladder and leave no one a way out, don't you have a way out yourself?

So Confucius said, "If you want to stand up and be a man, you must realize it and become a man." I am happy, so I hope you are happy; I succeeded, so I will help you succeed. You can only see a single color when you own it, but when you share it, you can see different colors in others' eyes.

When you become bigger and no longer confined to yourself, you will find that your world suddenly becomes bigger and everything is vast.

In my opinion, no matter what stage one is in life, one should take one thing with him, and that is courage.

Because only if you are not afraid can you not regret.

So I'm not afraid in the first half of my life, and I don't regret in the second half.