Chatting between blind date men and women

Notes on the chat topic of blind date 1: Don't pay too much attention to topics such as "It's going to rain today, take an umbrella" and "It's cold, pay attention to put on more clothes", and try to send less. When chatting with a blind date, don't care too much about her as soon as you start. If your relationship is ambiguous, you can send it once or twice occasionally. Excessive concern will only become a girl's pursuer, and it will also make her feel that you are nagging like your mother, and girls themselves will be under pressure. After paying too much attention, your blind date will definitely say something like "Let's be friends" and "I don't think we are suitable", and finally let your blind date fail. Note 2: Don't talk about worthless topics. What is a worthless topic? For example, "What are you doing?" "Have you eaten?" "Are you there? Are you asleep? " Topics like this are worthless. It is easy for girls not to reply to you because there is nothing to talk about this topic. What are you doing? Eating and sleeping? These are common topics. Why chat with blind date WeChat? After all, I still can't find a topic to talk about myself. It's better to think carefully about whether there are any more interesting topics. For example, sharing your work experience with girls is a valuable topic that girls will definitely be interested in. Of course, many brothers still can't think of interesting topics. It doesn't matter. Now you just need to click on # WeChat # to add the tutor WeChat as a friend, and then contact the tutor via WeChat, and the tutor will recommend some topics for blind date chat according to your situation. Note 3: Don't pester me when chatting. If the blind date doesn't reply to you, don't contact her immediately, just wait for a while and find her again. Don't send a lot of messages continuously, let alone bombard them and keep asking girls. The following is a chat case of a straight man. Everyone should learn a lesson: originally, a girl was interested in you, probably because she didn't have time to play with her mobile phone for a while, or forgot to reply, but if you send her messages one by one, it will make you feel bored and insecure. In this case, the blind date will definitely be disappointed. Chatting with men and women on blind date 2. Chatting skills on blind date for the first time 1. Talking about childhood memories must be interesting, otherwise things that are too sad will make the atmosphere dull and not suitable for blind date chatting. You can tell anecdotes about your childhood, which will enliven the atmosphere. You can learn what kind of person the other person is from some interesting things and make the other person feel real. 2. If you can, you can talk about your brothers and sisters. If you have a naughty brother, you can talk about his daily life at this time, such as what naughty things you have done that make your parents angry and funny. At this time, the atmosphere will be more harmonious and the other party will want to know about your family. What is a good topic to meet and talk about? 1. When chatting, two people can talk about some interesting things, such as things during two trips, and recommend their favorite places. Tourist attractions must have some stories to tell each other. Generally, girls like some ancient legends, and there will be these stories in their travels. 2. You can talk about your preferences. If the other person happens to like it, there will be two people to talk about, such as what activities do you like, badminton, table tennis, basketball or football. These topics are relatively easy, you can talk to each other more, of course, the premise is that the other party is interested. Generally, girls prefer not to eat anything, so let's talk about food, such as what rare things have been eaten recently, talk about its characteristics, recommend it to the other party to give her a chance to taste it, and invite her to go together, which is also a step closer to the relationship. Blind date chat skills blind date skills 1: Pay attention to the first impression The most important thing in blind date is the first impression. Many people don't deal with first impressions, especially boys, so girls won't contact you when they see you for the first time. The first impression includes two aspects. The first is gentlemanliness. A gentleman will make the other person think that you have a good family, or that you have a good education. No gentleman will hate you. The second is to have good manners, that is to say, to have good enough social manners. Etiquette will make your sister feel that you have seen the world. Blind date skill 2: smiling boys like girls who smile often and have small tiger teeth! And women like to see the sunny side of men. Blind date trick 3: reduce gestures and spoken language when speaking. Casual gestures and verbal language will reveal your inner feelings. If the other person is proficient in psychology, your nervousness will be caught instantly, thus losing a series of advantages and initiative. Blind date skill 4: learn to describe+feel that everyone doesn't like to check accounts and chat. Every question needs brain cells to think about the appropriate answer. A series of so many questions is really nerve-racking. If you want to get information, you might as well change the way of cold reading. Everyone has the psychology of correcting mistakes. If you guess wrong, the girl won't feel anything but will give you exact information. Blind date skill 5: avoid selling yourself to each other too much. Too many parents will make the other person feel that you are an emotional dependent, and once you are disappointed in the future, you will ask him to complain! Under this negative psychological defense, few people are willing to have in-depth contacts with you. Chat between men and women on blind date 3 Chat topics between men and women on blind date 1: Most of the MM around you are foodies, so it will never be embarrassing to meet and talk about food for the first time, and you can get familiar with it quickly, from which you can learn about each other's preferences and find the food they are interested in, so that you can have more topics and won't be embarrassed. Blind date mainly has a topic to talk about, and it is necessary to create suitable topics. Chatting topic 2: You can learn about each other's preferences from chatting, and then start the topic, so the more you chat, the more energetic you are. If you have the same hobbies, so much the better, so that you will have the same language. Chat topic 3: If the other person's job is also a white-collar worker working in your company, and he is engaged in different industries, he will be curious about his work, which will satisfy his vanity. If you appreciate him, the other party will be ecstatic, and it is easy to leave a good first impression on the other party and promote the subsequent development. The dating skills of blind date are as follows: how to do it for the first time? Do you want to accompany your relatives and friends? Try to be relaxed and generous when meeting for the first time, and get to know each other from light topics of mutual interest, such as recent social news, popular movies, books read, etc. This will not put pressure on the other party, but also make it easy to understand each other's interests and see if the two sides are suitable. You can pay attention to the topic content in advance. What kind of mentality should you keep when dating and how to show your best side? For example, blind dates introduced by girlfriends or relatives and friends are far from their own preferences. How to deal with it without hurting feelings? Treat it with a normal heart, don't hold too much hope, or the greater the disappointment; If you don't hold a pessimistic view, you will have inner emotions before you leave, and the whole process will make you and the other person feel uncomfortable. Just behave appropriately and be natural and generous. If the blind date recommended by the introducer is very different from his own preferences, he can politely refuse at the first time, but please explain his preferences and requirements to the introducer. The clearer you express, the more the introducer can feel your trust in him/her and your sincerity in blind date, and will pay more attention to your feelings and introduce more suitable people to you in the future.