Idioms in Shi Shuo Xin Yu

Shi Shuo Xin Yu is a book that has a profound influence on China's ideology and culture, especially the spirit of scholars. With vivid brushwork and beautiful and refined language, it recorded the anecdotes of the characters in the late Han Dynasty, the Three Kingdoms and the Jin Dynasty in different categories, which was a wonderful epitome of that era. There are many idioms in Shi Shuo Xin Yu, which are arranged as follows:

Didn't sit long enough to heat the seat ― very busy.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu De" Chen (Zhong Ju) said: "There is no time for tenderness between military kings and businessmen. Why is it not my courtesy? "

Explanation: I got up before I could sit on the mat. Originally, I just ran around and couldn't live a peaceful life. I was so busy that I didn't have time to sit down for a while.

Synonym: Overwhelmed by work.

Antonym: idle, idle, anxious.

People in the same boat

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Chen Yuanfang's long article is brilliant. He and Ji Fang Zixiao first discussed the merits and demerits of their father, but they couldn't argue. The consulting fee is too high. Qiu Wei said, "Fiona Fang is difficult for my brother, and Ji Fang is difficult for my brother."

Interpretation: The original meaning describes that both brothers are good, but they are equal and inseparable. Today refers to people who have been in trouble, or both are in the same predicament (difficult environment), which is derogatory.

Synonym: birds of a feather, equality.

Antonym: very different, judged as cloud mud

Nothing but the necessities of life.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu De.

Wang Gong came back from the meeting and Wang Da took a look. When he saw himself sitting on a six-foot pole, he respectfully said, "Dong Qing has been here, so you should have this, so you can bring it to me." Gong Gong was speechless. When he got there, he gave it to the people sitting there. As there were no seats left, he sat in the recommended seat. After listening, he was very surprised and said, "

I am a lady, so I ask for my ears. "

He said, "If a husband is disrespectful, he will gain nothing by respecting others."

Interpretation: There is nothing but myself. Describe poverty.

It is often wrongly used to describe a lack of professional knowledge.

Synonym: I got nothing, I was empty, I was shy, and my family was surrounded.

Antonym: personable, well-fed.

It's time for the hour, but it's not necessarily good.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

When Kong Wenju was ten years old, he and his father went to Los Angeles. At that time, Li Yuanli was famous as a captain in Li Si. .........................................................................................................................................

Interpretation: children are smart since childhood and know a lot of things, but although they are smart when they are young, they may not be able to grow up.

How can there be finished eggs under the nest?

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

When Kong Rong was taken over, both China and foreign countries were frightened. At that time, the eldest son was nine years old and the youngest son was eight. The second son cut his nails and lost face. Let's say the messenger said, "Ji's crime stops at his body, but can he get it all?" Son Xu Jin said, "Do you see any finished eggs under the nest?" Find and receive.

Interpretation: When the bird's nest is overturned, its eggs are all broken, which means that the whole thing is destroyed and its individual can't be saved.

with a clear distinction between black and white

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Yan Yu Ji" prose Zhao Jingzhen said: "The pupil is white and black, with the wind of Tian Lei, and the amount of resentment is small and narrow."

Interpretation: The metaphor is clear. It also describes clear handwriting and pictures.

Synonym: clear and clear.

Antonym: Indiscriminate, confuse right and wrong, and reverse black and white.

Wu Buffalo (afraid of summer heat) breathes when he sees the moon (mistaking it for the sun) ―― he is afraid of it because he mistook one thing for another.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Yan" goes forward bravely and sits on Emperor Wu of Jin Dynasty; The north window is a glazed screen, which is dense and difficult to get excited. The emperor smiled and replied, "I am still a black cow, and I am panting at the sight of the moon."

Interpretation: It is a metaphor that people are afraid because of doubt, and it is also a metaphor that people are too afraid of things and lose their judgment ability. It is also described as extremely hot weather.

Synonym: Shu Gou barks at the sun.

Local products with local flavor

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Yu Yan" Lu Jiyi Wang Wuzi, he put a few pieces of sheep fat in front of Lu Yue: "Why does Qingjiangdong oppose this?" Lu said, "There are thousands of miles of thick soup and salt-free black beans."

Interpretation: Make more homesick remarks.

All kinds of feelings come to mind.

appear

Venue: Shi Shuo Xin Yu lecture

Wei Jie was about to cross the river when he was washing his horse. He looked miserable and said, "I don't think there is much overlap when I see this boundless place." If it is affectionate, who can send this? "

Interpretation: All kinds of feelings are intertwined, describing many feelings and complicated moods.

Synonym: surge of emotion and imagination.

Antonym: My heart withered.

(of young women) exquisite and charming.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

When Gao Shiyuan was a neighbor, he said to Sun, "Pine trees are not pitiful, but they will never be pillars!" Sun said, "Maple and willow embrace each other. What can we do?"

Interpretation: It was originally young and weak, but later women were delicate and lovely, and they were also described as pathetic or pitiful.

Synonym: charming and moving

Antonym: frightening and disgusting

(of scenery) radiant.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

Gu Changkang returned after the meeting and people asked about the beauty of mountains and rivers. As the ancient saying goes, "A thousand rocks strive for beauty, while ten thousand valleys strive for flow. If the vegetation is caged on it, if the clouds flourish, Xia Wei will flourish. "

Interpretation: As clouds gather together, it describes the magnificent scenery.

Synonym: Colorful, Yunxing Xia Wei, colorful flowers.

Antonym: dark and dull.

The mountains overlap.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

Gu Changkang returned after the meeting and people asked about the beauty of mountains and rivers. As the ancient saying goes, "A thousand rocks strive for beauty, while ten thousand valleys strive for flow. If the vegetation is caged on it, if the clouds flourish, Xia Wei will flourish. "

Interpretation: Describe the peaks and valleys.

Synonyms: Qianshan is full of water, Qianshan is full of water.

Antonym: Ma Pingchuan.

(of a scene) too many things to see.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

Prince Jing Yun said, "Walking in on the boulevard, the mountains and rivers set each other off, which is overwhelming."

Interpretation: There are too many beautiful scenery to enjoy.

Synonym: too much to see.

Antonym: Fu Ying Yu Ru

take in everything in a glance

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Speech

The land in Jiangzuo is not as fast as that in China. If you smooth the building, you can see it at a glance, so it is unpredictable.

Interpretation: At first glance, all the scenery can be seen, indicating that the structure of the building has no twists and turns, or the content of the poem is unremarkable and has no aftertaste.

Synonyms: a glance, a glance, a glance.

Antonym: a scale and a half claws, too many things to see, a glimpse of a leopard in a tube

A fratricidal battle

Source: Shi Shuo Zheng Xinyu Shi

Zhong Gong said, "Stealing and killing the rich man is like killing each other."

Interpretation: Metaphor means killing each other.

Synonyms: roommate, brother, brother

Antonym: Love is like brothers and sisters, they are dependent on each other and intimate.

Look at the sun from the window

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature

Northerners study as if they were looking at the moon, and as if they were looking at the sun in the mirror.

Interpretation: metaphor is not well informed.

Synonym: peep at the leopard in the tube, sit in the well and watch the sky, and measure the sea according to the evidence.

Antonym: far-sighted, well-informed, far-sighted

Learn phrases from someone and pretend to be your own.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature

Yin said, "Kangbo is not as clever as my teeth."

Interpretation: originally refers to the beautiful words revealed in speech, and later refers to taking one or two words from others for one's own use, or copying other people's language or words.

Synonym: conformity.

Antonym: be unconventional

Make a deep impression by showing novelty and uniqueness

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature

In Baima Temple, Zhi Daolin used Feng Taichang's words, which made him very happy. He stood out from the other two schools and put forward new ideas, which all sages could not consider.

Interpretation: The original meaning is originality and innovation, and the arguments are different. The latter refers to putting forward novel ideas and creating novel styles; Sometimes derogatory, it means to set up another set.

Synonym: unique, unique.

Antonym: standing still, sticking to the rules.

Reach a very high altitude

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature

Jane moire: "I don't know if I can reach the top." However, Taolian's merits and demerits cannot be falsely claimed. "

Interpretation: refers to knowledge, skills, etc. Has reached the highest level. It also means that doing bad things is rampant to the extreme

Synonym: amazing, unprecedented, unparalleled

Antonym: plain and ordinary.

Why are there such ruthless infighting between brothers?

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature

Emperor Wendi tried to order King Dong 'a to write a seven-step poem, but failed to achieve the Dharma, so he replied with the poem: "Boiled beans make soup, fermented beans make juice. When they soak in the kettle, they will cry. Since they are born from the same root, why should they speculate with each other? "

Interpretation: Metaphorically, brothers or friends kill or persecute each other.

Synonym: It's too urgent to be in the same room.

Antonyms: brotherhood and intimacy

Make a loud noise when being thrown to the ground ― (of a speech) powerful and inspiring.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature Sun Xinggong wrote Tiantai Fu to demonstrate the glorious period. As the saying goes, "You try to throw the ground, Shisheng Jin."

Interpretation: Descriptive sentences are clever and colorful, and the language is sonorous.

Synonym: the word Zhuji

Antonym: gnash one's teeth

Ride on a horse and write an article quickly-very quickly

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Literature During Huan Xuan's Northern Expedition, Yuan Hu obeyed from time to time, was dismissed from his official position, and was asked to publish an article, saying that Yuan Yizhi made seven articles without writing, which was very impressive.

Interpretation: Leaning in front of the horse that is about to leave, you can wait until the manuscript is finished.

be filled with righteous indignation

Source: Wei Wendi, the founder of Shi Shuo Xin Yu, is in Zen, and Chen Qun has Qi Rong. The emperor asked, "I am destined by heaven. Why are you unhappy?" The ministers said, "I and Hua Xin are under the command of the records. Although they are now sanctified, they are still just in appearance. "

Interpretation: the expression of justice is revealed on the face, describing indignation.

Synonym: Be resolute, be strict with yourself, and be filled with indignation.

Antonym: poor argument, unreasonable trouble, ulterior motives

Retreat in the face of difficulties

Source: Zhong You, the founder of Shi Shuo Xin Yu, said, "Advance when you see what you can, retreat when you know what it is difficult, and the ancient road is also."

Interpretation: flinch when you see difficulties.

Synonym: retreat

Antonym: Go forward bravely.

You can see leopards from time to time.

Origin: When Wang Zijing, the founder of Shi Shuo Xin Yu, was a few years old, he tasted all his students and saw victory or defeat, because he said, "The south wind does not dispute." His students looked down on his children and said, "This lang is also a peeping leopard, and he can see it from time to time."

Interpretation: Looking at the leopard through the small hole in the bamboo tube, you can only see a stripe on its body. Metaphorically, you can only see part of things. Sometimes you can do a "peek at a leopard in a tube", that is, you can infer the whole picture from the observed part.

Synonym: sit on a well and watch the sky.

Antonym: overview of the overall situation

Wave one's sleeve and leave.

Source: Amethyst, the founder of Shi Shuo Xin Yu, closed her eyes and said, "Shame on Xun and shame on Liu Zhenchang." So he left.

Interpretation: I was angry and left with my sleeves.

Synonym: Go away.

Antonym: accidental meeting

Stone forest is stable, but its behavior is unstable.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Liang Ya" Pei Shu was accepted, with the same attitude and self-sufficiency/

Explanation: Describe calm and normal behavior.

Synonym: as calm as a cucumber

Antonym: panic

A person who approaches or participates in a secret.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Xie said with a smile, "Sheng is a guest in the curtain."

Interpretation: a metaphor for people who are closely related or involved in secrets. Men who laugh at women's private affairs also use it.

Keep absolutely calm and calm.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Liang Ya

At first, I thanked the guests for losing my instrument, but I smiled indifferently.

Interpretation: There is nothing unusual in expression and face. Describe the calm attitude and unchanging spirit under abnormal circumstances.

Synonym: unhurried, unhurried

Antonym: panicked, at a loss.

be at a loss (what to do)

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Liang Ya

Yin felt a sense of loss.

Interpretation: I am in a trance, I have no clue, and I am upset as if I have lost something.

Synonym: things are lost, and there is no owner.

Antonym: poised and indifferent.

have great ambition but little talent

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Jian Boren" is ambitious but short-sighted, and its fame is heavy, so it is good at taking advantage of others' disadvantages. This is not a way of self-sufficiency.

Interpretation: refers to people who are ambitious but lack talent.

Synonym: aim high and have a low heart.

Antonym: brilliant.

Material of pillar

Origin: A world story, enjoying fame, Yu Zi's eyes and ears are as dense as a thousand loose. Although there is a program, it is a building and a pillar.

Interpretation: wood can be the beam of a house, which is a metaphor for talents who can bear the heavy responsibility of the country.

Synonym: outstanding

Antonym: a mediocre person

Dispel the dark clouds and see the sun

Source: Appreciation of Shi Shuo Xin Yu Ming Xiao Er Zuo: "This person is also a water mirror, and he can see the sky when he sees it."

Interpretation: Open the dark clouds to see the blue sky. It means breaking through the darkness and seeing the light. It also means to dispel doubts and be suddenly enlightened.

Synonym: suddenly enlightened, asking questions.

Cover up the true point of view

Source: Appreciation of Shi Shuo Xin Yu Huan Maolun said: "Chu Jiye Lippi Yang Qiu." It means it is right, too.

Interpretation: it means that there are no likes and dislikes or attitudes on the surface, but there are actually praises and criticisms in the heart.

Synonym: refers to cursing and euphemism.

Antonym: call a spade a spade, come straight to the point.

Happy ever after-rich and rich.

Source: Appreciation of Shi Shuo Xin Yu Wang Changshi said Gong Lin: "It is really a long life to be happy."

Interpretation: Being rich in gold and jade means being rich and expensive. It is also used to describe being knowledgeable.

Synonym: accumulation of gold and jade

Antonym: The family is surrounded by four walls.

Be caught in the fog

Origin: Wang Zhongzu, Serina Liu and Yin talked for a long time, and they were all on cloud nine. Liu said that Wang said "clear into the fog".

Interpretation: falling into the confused cloud. Metaphor is puzzled.

Antonym: suddenly enlightened

A budding young man

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Appreciation Fan Zhangyu said Wang Jingzhou: "You are a beauty."

Interpretation: refers to outstanding figures who appeared later or grew up newly.

Synonym: shine on you

Regard transforming the world as your mission.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pin Zao" says: "Those who are elegant and fluent, who can teach the world as their own responsibility, may wish to be concise, make contributions, and live by being fluent."

Interpretation: Take the rise and fall of the country as our responsibility.

Land of hermits

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pin Zao" asked Xie Kun: "What is Jun claiming to be bright?" A: "At the end of the temple, I was guided by a hundred Liao, but I was not as bright as Ming. Birds of a feather, say it yourself. "

Interpretation: Used to describe the feeling of living in seclusion in Shan Ye, indulging in landscapes and being broad-minded.

Ordinary

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Gui Zhen" Yan He, Deng Yang ordered Guan Yu to divine, saying, "I wonder if it is three?" After divination, it is said that it refers to the ancient meaning, and I deeply take it as a warning. Yang said: "This is a cliche."

Interpretation: what old scholars often say. This is a metaphor. People are used to hearing things that have no fresh meaning.

Synonym: the same old story.

Antonym: unconventional and insightful.

Full of deep respect

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu GUI Zhen

Some disciples were lazy, and Yuan Gong said, "The light of Sang Yu is not farsighted, but the light of the original Asahi is bright with the times." Those who sit on the throne with scriptures in their hands satirize Lang Chang's words with bitter colors. The feet are full of awe.

Explain: solemnly produce an attitude or emotion of respect and admiration.

Synonym: After all, it is Bi Gong.

Antonym: ridicule.

Act as if there is no one else nearby-think highly of yourself and ignore others.

Origin: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" Hao (Wang Dun) ordered the drum to be taken. He stood up from his sleeve and struck hard with his mallet. His syllables are harmonious and agile, full of pride, and he sighed at the majesty.

"Shi Shuo Xin Yu Jian Ao" Yang Kang kept hammering, nobody was watching, and he didn't say a word.

Interpretation: There seems to be no one around. Describe arrogance, arrogance and disrespect for others. It also describes a natural and calm attitude.

Synonym: arrogance

Antonym: In full view of the public.

The beauty of men

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Rong Zhi" He Pingshu's beauty instrument, his face is white; Wei Mingdi suspected that it was rich in powder. That's just Xia Yue. Hot soup is sour. When you are wet and sweaty, wipe your body with cinnabar clothes, and the color turns charming.

Interpretation: describe the beauty of men.

Become a giant among dwarfs

Source: Rong Zhi's "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" Wang Rong said, "Ji Yanzu is outstanding as a wild crane in a flock of chickens."

Explanation: If you stand out from the crowd, it means that a person's appearance or talent stands out from the crowd around him.

Synonym: outstanding, incomparable.

Antonym: Dwarf, only make a few words.

Feel unworthy (of interacting with others)

Source: Rong Zhi, Wu Zixu, a title of generals in ancient times, is Wei Jie's uncle. He is handsome and elegant. When he saw Zhu Yu, he sighed, "I feel ugly when I am around."

Interpretation: I am ashamed that my image is not decent or inferior.

Synonym: shame is worse than shame

Antonym: pretentious

Countless beautiful objects

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Rong Zhi Today's trip, I saw many wonderful things.

Interpretation: It is a metaphor that rare articles, excellent articles or outstanding talents can be seen everywhere.

Synonym: beauty

Antonym: collapse

The country was defeated/conquered and the home was lost.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" Xu Wei said: "The country broke down and died, so it was unintentional. If you can see the killing today, it is your heart. "

Interpretation: the collapse of the country and the destruction of the family.

Antonym: peaceful country and peaceful people.

A log can't support a crumbling building-one person alone can't save the situation.

Origin: on your birthday, the world speaks new words, just like the summer gate in the north, and it is impossible to hold up a tree.

Interpretation: It is difficult for a piece of wood to support something that is about to collapse. For example, a thin force cannot maintain the overall situation.

Synonym: a person's strength is insufficient, and his hands are difficult to sing.

Antonym: Turn the tide and unite as one.

attractive

Source: Shi said Ren Xinyu's birthday Wang Weijun said, "Wine attracts tourists from all over the world."

Explanation: Attracting people into a beautiful place is now used to refer to scenery or literary works.

Synonym: charming

Antonym: It tastes like chewing wax.

Enthusiastic devotion

Source: Shi said that every time I smell the Qing song on my birthday, I don't know what to do. Hearing this, Xie Gong said, "Ye Zi has always been affectionate."

Explanation: it means to pour deep feelings into people or things, but you can't restrain your yearning.

Synonym: affectionate, affectionate.

Antonym: chop and change, chop and change.

Come back on a whim.

Source: Shi Shuo Dan People asked him why, and Wang () said, "I left on impulse and came back after I got excited. Why should I see Dai ()? "

Interpretation: Using the interest at that time, the interest will be returned when it is satisfied. It means that interest melts into the scenery and changes the original idea with the destruction of interest.

Please the powerful.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pai Diao

Still rich in literary talent, detailed in meaning, climbing dragons and attaching phoenix, climbing Tianfu.

Explanation: It means to be attached to an emperor in order to achieve great achievements or prestige. It is also used to describe being famous for being attached to a prestigious person.

Synonym: Climb the dragon and the horse, climb Cheng Gui.

Antonym: content with poverty and keep the way, upright and upright.

The whole world or country has joined in the celebration.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pai Diao

The prince of Yuan Di was born. He gave gifts to ministers. Yin Hongqiao thanked him and said, "When the prince was born, the world celebrated, and the ministers did not respect him, but gave him a thick beard." Zhongzong said with a smile, "Can this make Qing help others?"

Interpretation: The whole world celebrates together.

Synonym: national celebration

Antonym: Sadness is everywhere.

foolish

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pai Diao Prime Minister Wang put a pillow on Zhou Boren's knee and pointed to his abdomen and said, "What's in it?" A: "There is nothing in it, but it can accommodate hundreds of Qing people."

Interpretation: Nothing, nothing, mostly extremely vague or unrealistic words and articles.

Synonym: empty, nominal

Antonym: worthy of the name, it has substance in words.

Young people should be respected.

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pai Diao Xi Zhong and Xie Gongshu said: "Wang heard that he was young and won the championship. I wonder if Huan Gong declined. Is rebirth very awesome? "

Interpretation: It means that young people are bound to surpass their predecessors, which is very awesome.

Synonym: juvenile maturity

Antonym: young, unworthy.

(of the situation) get better

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu sent a carving Gu Changkang to spit on sugarcane and eat the tail first. So, the cloud said, "It's getting better."

Interpretation: The lower end of sugarcane is sweeter than the upper end, and the more you eat from top to bottom, the sweeter it becomes. Later, it shows that the situation is getting better or the interest is getting stronger.

Synonym: Good days are coming.

Antonym: turn bad

enterprising

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pai Diao

Huan said, "The spearhead is like rice, and the sword is like cooking." Yin said, "Centenarians climb dead branches." Gu said, "There is a baby lying on the anchor in the well." Yin Youyi sat down in the army and said, "A blind man rides a blind horse and comes to the deep pool in the middle of the night." Yin said, "Aggressive."

Interpretation: Describe an aggressive embarrassing situation. It also means that the situation is developing rapidly and giving people pressure.

Synonym: overbearing

Antonym: a happy face

as the name implies

Source: Shi Shuo Xin Yu School Carved Rings Nan Jun and Dao Yao talk about Laozi, and Wang Shizhong is the main book. Sit down. Huan said, "Wang is the main book, as the name suggests."

Interpretation: You can think of the meaning when you see the name.

Synonym: Seeing Literature Create Meaning

Antonym: the name is not true.

Quench thirst by thinking of plum-masturbating with illusory hope

Origin: Wei Wu lost his way in the battle, and the whole army was thirsty, so he said, "There was a great merlin before, forgiving the son, and sweet and sour can quench his thirst." The soldiers listened, their mouths full of water, and took this opportunity to get to the front source.

Interpretation: Metaphorically, wishes cannot be realized, and you comfort yourself or others with fantasy.

Synonym: painting cakes to satisfy hunger

Antonym: Get what you want.

absurd

Origin: After Yin was abolished, he wrote empty words all day in Xin 'an. Yangzhou officials and people look for justice and ignore it, only writing "strange things."

Interpretation: amazing strange things, describing things that are unreasonable and incomprehensible.

Synonym: inexplicable, incredible.

Antonym: logical and natural.

Immortality, immortality.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu You Regret" Huan Gong said: "If you are silent, you will be laughed at by Wen Hejing." Then he sat down and said, "It can't be passed on to future generations, so it's not enough to restore evil?"

Interpretation: To remain immortal means that a good reputation will last forever in future generations.

A long history means that although a person is dead, his bad reputation is passed down forever and is reviled by people.

Synonym: immortal, immortal, famous

It has been notorious for thousands of years.

Antonym: immortal, notorious

Be remembered for thousands of years and be immortal.

(of lovers) whispering sweet nothings.

Source: "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" confused drowning

An Feng, Wang An-feng's wife, said: "A woman is a husband, and politeness is disrespectful. Don't reply in the future." The woman said, "I love your mother because of your mother." If I don't care about her, who will be your mother? " Listen often.

Interpretation: Describe the love between men and women, which is very intimate and affectionate.

Synonym: two young people have no guess, and their children are affectionate.

Antonym: treat him as a stranger and stay away from him.