The weather in Dalian in December

Recently, in fengjie county, Chongqing, a villager held a golden wedding banquet to commemorate their 50th wedding, and many people gathered at the same time. After the village cadres knew it, they went to the banquet site to hard-core to disperse the gathering crowd.

In Chongqing's words, this is "no wine to drink", so I will not publicize the policy to those who come to drink, and those who come to drink will go back by themselves. No one is allowed to take part in this wine except his first sisters, uncles and relatives. If everyone must eat this wine in this place, then according to the documents issued by us, we will cancel your qualification as a poor household. If you have endowment insurance, we will stop with you immediately. What kind of food have you enjoyed, and a series of preferential policies, you will stop taking the exam for two days as a civil servant and two days as a teacher. Because no matter what the exam is now, there are political commissars who sign with our government. As long as we are not afraid of violating national policies, I believe that although everyone in this society earns money for their own use, we still can't leave the * * * production party. I hope everyone knows the truth.

It is really dangerous for so many people to gather during the epidemic. If one of them is infected, the consequences are unimaginable. Dalian just appeared because of a family reunion, which caused 1 1 people to be infected. At this time, gathering people is nothing more than making trouble for yourself and increasing the burden on the country. It is everyone's responsibility to prevent and control the epidemic, and actively cooperate with the prevention and control requirements for themselves and the public.

I think this village cadre did the right thing, except for the epidemic. In addition, in previous years, there were really too many such drinks. It's okay for his family to celebrate a golden wedding like this. Inviting so many people is nothing more than accepting gifts and putting money in his pocket in this way.

If there is no epidemic, the golden wedding banquet for 50 years is a bit too much. The first time I heard that the general trend held a golden wedding banquet, I was stopped and lost another sum.

There are too many wines, such as full ten wines, full moon wines, hundred-day wines, touching wines and so on. Some people treat wine for the sake of treating wine, but I always buy a house and have a touching wine. Actually, no one knows whether I bought it or not. A few years ago, I went back to my hometown for the New Year. I ate banquets every day, and even had a few drinks on good days. The family had to go to several places, which was very rampant.

In fact, in recent years, the government has been advocating that "nothing to drink" is not allowed except weddings. If the local government performs well, it will be well controlled. When we get back to our hometown, we can enjoy the Spring Festival with peace of mind.

These banquets still have a large sum of money every year, especially young people outside, who are unwilling to make wine, while those elders at home have to give gifts to make wine, which is very helpless.

Therefore, we strongly support that except for weddings, funerals and weddings, "no wine and no joy" is not allowed, and only a few people with happy events can celebrate.

I have always disapproved of any banquet except weddings and funerals. Over the years, especially in rural areas, there are really too many banquets! I can list the full moon (in some places 12 days), one year old, ten years old, twenty years old and school banquets related to children; There are golden wedding banquets related to adults and the elderly, some are 30 years old (even 40 or 50 years old), 60 or 80 years old, not to mention 90 years old, 100 years old; More houses to be built, cars to be bought and banquets to be held. It's really overwhelming!

To put it bluntly, the main purpose of holding these banquets is to receive gifts and show off, and the resulting extravagance and waste and environmental sanitation problems are really amazing! It's wrong to say it's a stereotype, because I clearly remember that when I was young, there were no banquets in the countryside forty or fifty years ago except for weddings, funerals and children's full moons (or the Twelfth Dynasties), and the banquets and gifts at that time were in line with the living standards at that time, so no one would have much burden.

Nowadays, not only the names of banquets are increasing, but also the scale and grade of banquets and the gift money are constantly improving each other, which makes most people overwhelmed. Almost half of the hard-earned money of a considerable number of rural people should be used to deal with human relations! And human feelings always have to be returned, so that most people are happy when they receive them, and then they will be miserable when they return them, but everyone is trapped in such a strange circle and cannot escape!

Since the beginning of this year, because of the epidemic, some people have been constrained and some people have been forced to cancel. I think this is a good thing. If governments at all levels formulate some measures and standards, they can take the opportunity to correct this trend. There may be a few people who can't accept it for a while (mainly the confiscated part of the gift money). After a long time, everyone will definitely agree.

In normal times, such a banquet is understandable, but there are no special circumstances this year!

Recently, in fengjie county, Chongqing, a villager held a golden wedding banquet to commemorate their 50th wedding, and many people gathered at the same time. After the village cadres knew it, they went to the banquet site to hard-core to disperse the gathering crowd.

This is what Chongqing calls "no drinking". The implication is that you can do it or not.

Personally, I find it a bit difficult to understand the inhumanity of the staff. But since the epidemic, banquet infection is not without precedent, so be careful!

Nothing happened, and of course I can't remember what this family did. Once I was unlucky and infected three or five people. Can the host family bear the pressure from all sides?

Of course, the epidemic situation in Chongqing is basically zero now. Let's look around and see which one is not brought by carelessness. We should all be careful, which is good for ourselves and others.

The weather is getting colder and colder, COVID-19 is crazy, and we all have to tighten this string; It will be fine in two or three months.

Advocate, even if it is a wedding, you can move back, even if you can't, you can keep it as simple as possible, and the good days are yet to come!

So much for support. It's winter, and it's the high incidence of all kinds of influenza. In addition, the epidemic situation in COVID-19 has not been completely eliminated, the temperature is very low, the room is closed and ventilated, and dozens of people get together, which will inevitably lead to cross-infection. What kind of golden wedding banquet should be held at this time? Isn't this asking for trouble?

Besides, it is not easy for old people to enjoy life quietly all their lives. Why make so much noise? Maybe they will get sick. Children who want to be filial can cook something delicious at home and send some gifts to their parents. In this way, the family will be happy, will not disturb neighbors, and will not add chaos to society. Why not?

Now there are many banquets in many places, such as full moon wine. One-year-old wine, graduation banquet, teacher banquet, housewarming banquet, enlistment banquet, birthday banquet, etc. Now there is a golden wedding banquet. Will there be a silver wedding banquet and a platinum banquet? I think it's possible.

The world is going from bad to worse. Many people are a few dollars, and those who burn their paws don't know who they are. It seems that God is the oldest, and he became the second child. Ignoring people's laws and regulations is the seedling of the underworld, which will gradually become a underworld and should be dictatorship.

It's better to keep things simple, and nothing else is allowed. I believe that most people recognize and support them, so adopt and promote them.

There is no need to gather dozens of tables and hundreds of people for the 50th anniversary of the golden wedding of that villager in Chongqing. Epidemic prevention and control is one aspect, and putting an end to big ticket activities is the key.

You can invite your immediate family to celebrate together. Just open three or two tables at home or in a restaurant. Why so many people?

In our actual experience and life, we find that there are more and more trends of not eating and drinking. When you open a shop, move to a new home, have a grandson, go to college, join the army, etc., you have to have a big banquet, and even buy a new car, which has become the reason for the banquet.

Everyone knows the theme in his heart and gets some gifts. If you don't allow him to accept gifts, do you think they will still hold a banquet?

To control these bad eating habits, persuasion and education alone are sometimes ineffective, and government departments must intervene in time to stop them. Only in this way can we stop this unhealthy trend.

Someone told me that the amount of gift money with gifts is gradually increasing, at least 100 yuan. 200 yuan, who has a better relationship, or more, spending thousands or even tens of thousands of yuan a year as a gift, unbearable!

As usual, let's get to the point first: I strongly support banning catering activities other than weddings and funerals!

Recently, in fengjie county, Chongqing, a villager held a golden wedding banquet to commemorate his 50th wedding, but was stopped by village cadres. This news has aroused widespread concern and discussion.

To tell the truth, in this special period of this year, if you don't hold a banquet, you really won't hold a banquet, so as to minimize the crowd gathering, so as not to bring the risk of gathering and spreading to COVID-19. Of course, as far as the news event itself is concerned, even if it is not a special period, there is no banquet. This is a typical "nothing to drink".

From the end of last century to the beginning of this century, with the all-round development of social economy, people's pockets are gradually bulging and all kinds of prices are rising. In the north and south of the motherland, whether in towns or villages, people's "money" with gifts is also rising. For the sake of so-called "face" and "worldly wisdom", no matter whether you have money or not, you should give gifts, otherwise it is "shameful". However, there are no young people of school age who get married at home, and there are no other things related to alcohol. Then the "gift money" that is constantly sent out every year will not be collected, and the loss is great. Faced with this situation, people began to display their wisdom and set up various banquets except weddings and funerals: children's full moon wine, children's one-year-old wine, children's 10-year-old wine, children's 20-year-old wine, children's school banquet, 30-year-old wine, housewarming wine, and even "abortion wine" for pregnancy and "washing wine" in prison. There are more and more banquets and more gifts. Drinking and giving gifts has become the biggest burden for people. Especially in rural areas, during the Spring Festival in the twelfth lunar month, many families have to go several times a day, and if they can't go, they can only be taken to hang gifts.

This ethos of competing with each other and throwing banquets at random has brought great economic burden to the broad masses of the people and caused great waste, because many banquets were not eaten by many people and poured a lot.

Therefore, it is necessary to stop this unhealthy trend of running wine so as to reduce the economic burden of the broad masses of the people. Fortunately, the state attaches great importance to this matter, and government departments at all levels have also introduced some rectification measures, with good results. In some places, banquets have indeed decreased a lot.

Be reasonable. I think it's best not to have weddings, funerals, weddings. I've been to several other people's weddings and I'm tired of watching them. A recent incident in Guizhou where a bride didn't get married because her clothes didn't fit, shows that the wedding is a burden.

There is no need to hold a funeral. Everyone is dead. What is there to do? Just take a last look at the crematorium with deep feelings.

I absolutely support it. This is just a golden wedding. At most, I will invite my immediate family members to get together.

Nowadays, many rural people often run here and there, which makes many relatives who don't run alcohol suffer a lot. Now, unlike before, gifts can cost tens of dollars, but now they cost at least a few hundred dollars.

I heard that there was a single man in the countryside who gave gifts all the year round, but I really didn't find a reason to make wine. Finally, the sow gave birth to a wine.

Now what children in rural areas make wine after graduation, wine on birthdays, wine at golden weddings and wine at schools. This really shouldn't be.

Nowadays, many people are looking for some reasons to hold banquets in order to receive gifts, especially in rural areas, where families hold banquets two or three times a year. Anyway, even if I receive an invitation, I won't go, I won't hold a banquet, and I won't accept gifts from others.