It's never life that gets better, but yourself.

Life is like a person's mood, there are good and bad, life is like the weather, there are cloudy days and sunny days, life is like love, there are gains and losses, and life is more like the shadow on our way forward, never giving up and never getting better. On the contrary, we are constantly improving and getting better.

When we live in good times, we may mistakenly think that life is getting better. In fact, we have been working hard to get the present prosperity. What we have to do is to work harder and make ourselves better in order to maintain this prosperity.

When life is in adversity, we will complain about the unhappiness and hardship of life. In fact, life has been going on, but we didn't stop in time to learn from adversity. We blindly believe that life hinders our progress and becomes self-indulgent. Adversity only exercises our courage and determination in life. This is just a test on our way forward. Crossing it is hope.

The same is true of love, because when you fall in love, you think you will have it for a lifetime, but you ignore that your lover should love himself first. Ignoring love also needs careful protection and management, because love can't be owned by you through hard pursuit and hard struggle. You can talk about fate, but you can't deal with gender relations. Lovelorn is inevitable. Dealing with sexual relations is the beginning of love. There are still many businesses that need to be managed together in the future to get better. Before you say you love others, make sure you love yourself. Loving oneself is not narcissism, but responsibility to others.

If you are lovelorn, don't lock yourself up and let the sadness flow backwards. Instead, you should sum up the past. It seems that you have lost love, but you have not lost the ability to love. Love is only a small part of life. Since this part of love makes you black and blue, why not think about it and ask yourself what love is? Do you love yourself? How to love someone? When you find the answer, you will understand that all you have lost is love, and you have gained the ability to love others and become better than yourself before.

No matter in life or emotionally, we always waste ourselves in injury and loss, and always feel that life is unfair. It's just self-consolation. The key factor is still in ourselves, depending on how we decide and choose. As long as we constantly temper ourselves, it is never life that changes, but life, and we make life better, not life that makes us better.