What should a woman do when she meets a "pervert"?

In this hot summer, because the weather is really hot, many female friends will wear very little, and wearing short clothes will make female friends "spring". In summer, "wearing short clothes", "wearing less clothes" and "wearing thin clothes" have always been the embodiment of many female friends' clothes, but it is precisely because of this that some obscene and abnormal people will appear, which we call "abnormal". What should a woman do when she meets a "pervert"? How should women protect themselves when they meet a "pervert"?

First, how to prevent exposure in summer

1, squat down

When a girl bends forward, because the neckline is relatively low or loose, the top will fall off and it is the easiest to "bounce" on her chest. At the same time, if you wear a skirt, you will be naked if you squat inappropriately. If you wear low-rise pants or loose pants, there will often be embarrassing situations where your underwear is exposed.

Tip: When squatting, put your legs together, with one leg flat and the other leg as close as possible. At the same time, smooth the skirt with your hands and cover the gap that may be exposed between your legs. This practice can not only effectively prevent exposure, but also make people show good manners.

Step 2 sit down

Wearing a skirt, especially sitting in a short skirt, will be "sightseeing" if you are not careful. Some ladies often spread their legs for comfort, thinking that there is a desktop to cover them. In fact, it is easy to see the wind in their skirts at a certain distance.

Tip: straighten your skirt before you sit down. Don't get stuck in the chair when you sit down. It is best to have only two-thirds of the hips on the chair, so that the thighs are tilted down to help prevent exposure. You can put your legs together, or you can put one leg on the other like Karen Mok, but be careful not to use the 4-shaped leg, which will definitely reveal the spring scenery and be impolite.

Step 3 wear low-necked clothes

Tip: As long as you add a tight tube top or super tight vest, you can prevent a coat with a deep neckline or a loose one from going out. When wearing a tube top dress or a low-cut dress, properly cover your chest with your hands, which can turn the danger of your chest into nothing, and you don't have to worry about getting naked in any action.

Second, how to protect yourself

1, coldly

Look at the "wolf" with a deterrent eye. Try to squeeze into a place where there are many women, and it is absolutely safe to rely on each other.

2, looking for dependence

On the bus, you can lean on the driver or conductor. Because of his guilty conscience, a pervert generally won't catch up with him again. If you catch up, the driver or conductor will also help you.

3, the sound of illness calls

Call "Stop the thief" when you meet a "wolf", and he will definitely retort that he is not a thief. You can say, "Why don't you steal? Why don't you stick to me all the time?" Make the wolf feel ashamed.

4, stilettos

When you meet a wolf, step on him with high heels and say "I'm sorry". The thin heels of fashionable sandals are the best weapon against those who "steal oil" on the bus.

Step 5 insult

The last trick is to slap or kick the wolf directly, and then call 1 10 to let the pervert get the end he deserves.

Third, the principle of women's "beating wolves"

1, don't suffer silently.

If you are violated, let everyone know, especially when someone is around. This one worked when an immoral officer rubbed me back and forth with his genitals through his clothes (he later claimed it was an accident), and I immediately shouted, "Don't touch me! Your behavior makes me sick. " From then on, as long as he comes within 50 yards of me, every pair of eyes in the office will fall on him.

Don't be afraid to make things public.

Use the meeting to raise "unwelcome behavior" for discussion, without naming names, but there are aggressors present. Briefly explain the nature of harassment, and then ask everyone: Do you have the right to be upset (this is safer, after all, you may misunderstand others or be "nervous"). If the aggressor doesn't stop, at the next meeting, you can say that you want the harasser to stop, otherwise, you will file a formal complaint. This kind of "pre-announcement" can often prevent people with particularly thick skin from continuing to pester or retaliate.

Don't be afraid of offending people.

Accustomed to being "gentle" in social situations, women often involuntarily fall into a fragile situation-for example, entering the male boss's room to "work". Therefore, when a man makes unreasonable demands, he should directly answer "No"! A firm and vacillating attitude will only benefit the harasser. You have to realize that loud rejection may not be enough to scare people with ulterior motives, but it can dispel his misunderstanding that you are "weak and deceivable". To such a person, say "no! "Thank you is polite enough, there is no need to explain, let alone find a euphemism. "

4. Say "No" when appropriate.

You should find all ways to prevent harassment, and realize that you don't always enjoy legal "freedom" in reality. In order to protect your rights, you may lose your job, promotion or friends. If you don't have this psychological preparation, then you have to be prepared to endure sexual harassment. On the other hand, remember: Chili? Lipu and Mike? There is a difference between Tai Sen (the champion who repeatedly commits rape)-you have to say "no" to both of them! But only the latter should be taken to court. Women are inevitably chased by men. Some of these people are bad people and some are abnormal. They should be fired and sent to prison. But some may be "candidates" for your life partner, and it is not appropriate to "kill with one stick".

Step 5 leave a written record

Recently, I have been reluctant to give advice to those who claim to have been harassed a long time ago. I reminded them that if this lawsuit had to be fought, your record of the whole incident at that time would increase the credibility of your words. Therefore, advise female compatriots that if they are seriously harassed, they may wish to ask someone to notarize; If it's not that serious, write it down in a notebook and simply state the time, place and everything related. These details will be of great use in the future. Once, I met a harasser, and polite warning for several weeks didn't work. So, I recorded his behavior in detail in my notebook (including his original swearing) and stuffed it into his briefcase. After that, nothing happened.

6. Obtain evidence and report in time.

Be sure to report the infringement in time. The "traces" left by criminals, even the hair, stains, fingerprints and articles left by criminals, are powerful clues to help solve the case. Don't stop reporting scandals for fear of "spreading the scandal abroad" or "settling it". Because the sperm detection rate is the highest in 12 hours, it can still be detected in 3-5 days, and some can be detected after 5 days, but the longer it lasts, the more the sperm is destroyed, the more difficult it is to detect. After extracting the evidence, the investigators can catch the pervert as soon as possible and keep the victim secret. After doing this, you should go to the hospital immediately to heal the pain and avoid infection.

The above introduction is how to teach female friends how to prevent "sex maniac" in summer. I hope that female friends will keep this in mind in case of accidents!