How to chat with new friends of the opposite sex?

How to chat with new friends of the opposite sex?

How to chat with new friends of the opposite sex? In our life, we occasionally meet the opposite sex we like very much, but we don't know how to express our thoughts. In this case, we should not worry. How to chat with new friends of the opposite sex?

How to chat with friends of the opposite sex 1 How to chat with the opposite sex?

1. Both sides share the same interests: The opposite sex can become friends not only because they like each other, but also for other reasons, such as appreciating each other's talents, common ideals and hobbies, so as to become friends who appreciate each other.

2. Don't speak ill of others behind their backs: No matter who you associate with, it's always bad to speak ill of others behind their backs. If a friend of the opposite sex fantasizes, he or she will think that you may speak ill of him or her in front of others, thus affecting the relationship between two people.

3. Don't always gossip: Gossip is the least nutritious topic at present. You should talk more about goals that two people have common interests and can work for, or things that two people have common interests, such as history, technology and so on. The two sides can make progress together through discussion.

4. Speak appropriately, don't be too frivolous: because you are friends of the opposite sex, not boyfriend and girlfriend, you must speak appropriately before the relationship between the two people is determined, and don't always say some dirty jokes, which will lead to the other party's impression of you getting worse and affect the development between the two people.

Don't talk nonsense, but also learn to listen: many people like to talk by themselves. They should let each other talk nonsense, regardless of the feelings of their friends. The discussion between two people will make both sides make progress together. Talking blindly regardless of other people's feelings will make the other person's affection for you decline.

6. Talk about topics that are acceptable to both sides: Many boys like to talk about dirty jokes, and sometimes some conservative little girls can't accept them, which leads to the gradual estrangement between the two people, so as far as the current relationship is concerned, we should talk about topics that are acceptable to both sides.

I know the first skill of heterosexual chat.

1, find the same topic, and the minimum requirement for communication with the opposite sex is to have the same topic, so that two people can have something to say. If they don't know what the same topic is, just look at their hobbies, and then we can start a chat topic for this.

2, don't cater to, casually catering to the opposite sex will make you greatly discounted in each other's hearts, men and women are different, you can't pull if you want, if you are not very good friends, you should be reserved and pay attention to your image.

3. Don't show off. The most taboo to communicate with the opposite sex is to show off yourself. Some people not only show off their eloquence, but also show off their other capital. If you do this, you will only make the other person dislike you, and you can't even keep a low profile, let alone your character.

4. Don't be too nervous. Many people will be nervous and incoherent once they communicate with the opposite sex. Don't be too nervous. If you are too nervous, you can relax. You just need to treat the opposite sex in front of you as ordinary friends.

5. To understand each other's receptivity, you need to pay attention to each other's privacy. Generally, you don't ask girls' age and personal matters. If you want to communicate with each other well, you need to know what the other party will do if your's conversation involves other people's privacy. If the other party can't accept it, it can only be a precursor to communication failure.

6, praise each other's advantages, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, you should be good at discovering each other's advantages, so that you can have something to say, if you always hold on to each other's shortcomings, the other party will certainly not be happy, if you want him to continue to communicate with you well, don't even think about it.

Just met the opposite sex chat skills II.

1, pay attention to the topic of chat: when chatting, let the other person have a good impression on you. In the process of chatting, be sure to talk about the topic and what the other person likes, such as what he is interested in, or talk more about his own advantages when talking about his own situation.

2. Humorous opening remarks: Many people don't know how to start chatting. They often ask boring opening remarks, such as are you there? What are you doing? In fact, you can just say what you want to discuss. If he is free, he will definitely reply to you.

3. Appropriate chat frequency: Pay attention to the frequency when chatting. If two people are office workers, you can't talk all the time at work. It is best to choose lunch break or chat after work.

4. Grasp the time of chatting: When chatting, you can talk around a topic for a while, then end it, and wait until the next time period, such as talking about the interesting variety show you saw yesterday at noon and the end of the day at night.

5. Leave early: If you are a busy person and may leave at any time during the chat, you need to tell me what I need to do and when I will talk to you before you leave.

6. Appropriate occasion: If you want to meet and chat with him, you should pay attention to the location of the chat. Noisy places in shopping malls are definitely not suitable, and quiet places in bookstores are not recommended. Suggest neutralization, restaurant or coffee shop.

I know the third skill of heterosexual chat.

1, establish your own image from greetings. When adding a strange friend, the entrance to the chat begins with a greeting. First of all, you must be friendly to people you don't know. The first message can be a smile and greeting, or a handshake. In this way, most people can do it.

2. Look for the same language. You can ask him her hobbies with tentative words. I like running after work every day, so that I can relax and exercise. what do you think? If the other person doesn't show disgust, you can continue to make some humorous sentences to chat! It's easy if you all have the same hobbies and interests. In this way, you can use your imagination, bring him/her into your chat environment, and make sure that he/she likes to focus on the topic.

3. Focus on being intimate friends. With the first good impression, the next step is to simply exchange your ideas. If the other person is a sincere person, you can have heart-to-heart communication with him/her, and pay attention to the topic of becoming intimate friends with him/her. If you think he (she) is pretending to be himself, then you don't have to spend any more energy bragging to him (her), because you will only pay if you find someone you think you can really chat with.

4. Explore each other's confusion and make suggestions. After getting to know him/her to a certain extent, then you should pay attention to his/her confusion in the chat and give you the best solution. As long as you say it, don't force him (her) or let him (her) follow your suggestion! As long as he/she thinks your suggestion is feasible, it doesn't mean that he/she will take action. This mainly shows that you care about him/her. There will be an invisible trust in chatting.

5. Put yourself in others' shoes. When you see the other person talking about his (her) joys and sorrows all the time, you can imagine yourself in that environment, and the client will be yourself. It's like being involved in this matter, so there will be some empathy, and the chat will achieve the effect of * * *. The other party thinks that you are also a kindred spirit, so they naturally open their hearts and chat with you.

6. Ask less, talk more and talk more about yourself. After making sure that he (she) has not refused to chat with you, what you have to do at this time is to talk more about your own experience. Don't ask too much of him (her). I just don't want the other person to feel that he (she) is checking his/her account, but always observe whether he (she) is bored with chatting like this. Avoid a person's embarrassing state in the speech. What you need is to talk to him/her step by step.

How to chat with friends of the opposite sex I just met II. Chat with people you just met.

1, don't say something disgusting at the beginning, lovers in love often say something disgusting to each other. Although many words are true feelings, but in fact, for some newly met couples, this is a relatively taboo issue. Couples who have just met, don't tell each other how much I love you at the beginning. Mountains and rivers are boundless, and the world is harmonious. Although these sweet words sound beautiful, they will make the other party think that you are frivolous and absolutely taboo.

2. Feelings should be cultivated step by step. What girls want is a stable boyfriend who can be entrusted for life. Boys should know how to step by step. Feelings are cultivated bit by bit, and there are still many days to come. Don't rush to the next step, and don't rush to say something too early when chatting. In particular, boys should not be too "impatient", some girls will be shy, and boys can wait until the relationship is closer before bringing up the topic of kissing or even closer. And girls should remember to be reserved, don't show that they hate getting married, and don't let others look down on themselves.

3, don't talk about some sensitive topics when chatting, even if the relationship between couples is too close, but after all, we just met, we still don't know what the other party's taboos are. Therefore, it is best not to mention some overly sensitive topics in the chat first, but to say some topics that the other party is interested in. Learn to listen when others are talking. For example, if the topic you mentioned is familiar to the other half, when they are talking in Kan Kan, don't interrupt each other, let them finish their views and opinions, and then you can express your feelings.

4, show concern for the other half when chatting, don't say drink more hot water! There is no doubt that caring for the other half can best show love for them. But if you want to show concern for your partner, you must know some methods, and you must also know some caring words that you must never say. For example, if the weather is cold, you can remind the other half to wear more warm clothes. However, drinking more hot water is absolutely taboo! Sometimes girls may tell their boyfriends that I have a stomachache, and boys reply to drink more hot water; When girls are sick, boys will say to drink more hot water. Drinking hot water is really helpful, but it is better for boys not to mention it, because your girlfriend will think that you don't care about them, and whatever you say is talking about drinking more hot water.

Chatting with people you just met Method 2

1, chat more, whether you are male or female, try to make the other person talk more, and try to praise the other person, have a pleasant experience or joke or tell jokes. No matter what the other person says, don't criticize and complain, especially men.

If you are a man, try not to expose too many of your shortcomings and problems when you are unfamiliar at first. Some people may say, isn't it good to be honest with each other? This is of course good, but what you need to know is that to really enter the love mode, you must first establish the woman's trust in you and a relatively tall image. In love, a woman relies on imagining that man and falling in love with this imaginary prince charming, and then empathizing with you in reality. Therefore, in the early stage of love, we should give each other a space for fantasy expectation. As for confessing your own shortcomings, as long as it is not a big shortcoming, you can gradually get familiar with each other, and it is no problem for the other party to gradually infiltrate after establishing a certain trust in you.

3. The most suitable place for dating is a place where you can chat and do some leisure activities, such as visiting amusement parks, watching movies, playing ball games and so on. In this way, compared with simply sitting opposite the cafe and chatting, the pressure will be much less, and the topic will become relaxed and happy when talking in a relaxed and pleasant amusement environment.

4. Try not to discuss complicated issues through various online chats such as WeChat and QQ. Typing and chatting can easily lead to misunderstanding between the two sides. Different words and punctuation will make the other side feel different about the same sentence. If one party is in a bad mood, everything you type will be viewed in a negative and malicious way, resulting in various associations. Women are generally more imaginative and sensitive than men, so this situation is easy to happen, and such a conversation will eventually end in discord.

Chatting with people you just met Method 3

1, when I introduced myself, I was natural and graceful. Girls are not tigers and won't eat you. When facing the girl you are interested in, remember to introduce yourself and let her know about you. Don't be coy when you are yourself, be natural and graceful. This will make both sides feel more relaxed.

2. Take the initiative to talk about some light topics, and don't be too serious. It's great to talk about some light topics appropriately. If you are as serious as an old pedant when chatting with a girl, the other party will definitely not relax, and it is estimated that you will not be too interested in your topic.

3, learn to use eye contact correctly, although you are interested in girls and have a good impression, please don't look directly at others, which will make people feel that you are very uneducated and even make girls dislike you. When you want to chat, just stare into each other's eyes for a few seconds to convey your concern and friendliness.

4, make full use of your body movements, body language can actually reveal some of your information, as long as you use it properly, girls can also feel your concern for her. However, this expression is measured. For example, you can get close to girls, but not too close, in case the other person resists you.

How to chat with new friends of the opposite sex? How to chat with girls you just met can increase your goodwill?

First, chat time.

1, just met, don't send messages too often.

The girl you just met is not very familiar, so it's good to be friends, so be interesting, don't chat with each other too often, and try to get to know the girl first through a circle of friends.

2. Choose the chat time according to the other person's circle of friends.

Chatting with girls in each other's free time is only possible to get a reply. After all, girls don't like being disturbed when they are working or doing things, so how do you know when the other person is free? First, from 8: 00 pm to 1 1 pm, it is a relatively free time for women; Second, according to the time when a girl sends a circle of friends, when a girl uploads a picture in a circle of friends, she will definitely retouch it first. You can also talk to a girl at this time.

3. How long does each call take?

(1) When chatting with a girl you just met, you should pay attention to the time of chatting, and don't talk for too long, so that you will have no mystery in front of the girl, and she will have no desire to explore you; (2) Take the initiative to end the chat before the break, which is a careful embodiment; (3) When you don't know what to post, end the topic in time, and don't let you have nothing to say in the chat.

Second, the topic of chat.

Of course, when chatting with girls, we should choose topics that girls are more interested in and understand. Don't let a chat turn into a person talking. We can choose topics according to each other's circle of friends. For example, if a girl keeps a pet, you can talk about how good your pet is. Girls usually talk about their pets.

* * * Friends with you, places you have been, etc. , can be used as a choice to chat with girls.

3. What's wrong with chatting with a girl you just met?

1, feelings

When chatting with a girl you just met, you should be careful not to talk about emotional things, such as your ex's or the other's emotional history, which will make girls dislike you.

2. Too specific questions

For example, a girl's work, salary and family problems can be discussed but not too deeply. After all, you just met, and you're not her boyfriend.

3. Topics full of negative energy

If you chat with a girl you have just known for a long time and always complain about the negative energy of work and life, it will make the girl think that you are a person who only complains about no initiative.