Use female thinking to chase a girl, and she will think you are the only one who can do it.

If you use female thinking to chase a girl, she will think you have to do it

Some people may be curious, what is female thinking? In short, it means understanding girls’ needs and ideas from their perspective. Then take practical action. In this video, I will talk about three key points of women’s thinking: strong and weak. Learning one is enough for you. If you master them all, then you will definitely be able to chase the girl you like. It is recommended to like and bookmark it. Chasing girls can save at least half of the time and energy

The boy graduated from the 985 Master's Program in China, and she is my school girl. We got to know each other when we were together. At that time, we were drawn to play a game of looking at each other. The one who didn't look at each other within 30 seconds lost. Those were the fastest 30 seconds of my life. I won the game but lost my heart. From then on, I often asked him to go out to eat and play, but he didn't reject me. I thought we were already very ambiguous.

At that time, I originally planned to go abroad for further study, but I chose to stay for his sake. On Valentine's Day, I filled the trunk of the car with flowers and confessed my love to him. I could see that she was very happy, but she didn't agree. I just said that I wanted to think about it again. It's been more than a month now, and we The relationship still hasn't made any progress. Instead, it seems a bit awkward. He doesn't seem to want to talk to me. There are my recent chat records at the back, please help me

I could tell it from this boy's private message at that time. She liked this girl very much, and even said that she was willing to give up her original plan to study abroad for this girl. She was blocking her life on this girl, but she did not expect such a result.

So let’s first take a look at the previous chat records between the two of them, and then study where the problem lies? The boy said, the weather will be good tomorrow, do you want to go out for a walk?

The girl said, where to go?

The boys said that I would like to see you, go to the movies, go shopping and drink coffee.

The girls said, I don’t know.

The boys asked you what you usually do. What are you doing?

The girl said, she usually stays with her sisters

The boy said, it’s up to you to decide anyway. I can accompany you wherever you want to go.

The girl said, forget it, I want to lie down at home

The boy replied: Okay, I guess you are quite tired too

Some people You might say, isn’t this respecting girls’ opinions? If I find this place and the girl doesn't like it, won't she like me even more? If you think so, then you have fallen into a misunderstanding. If you want to talk about anything, you have to ask this girl for her opinion. Even if you want to give him a tofu, you have to ask him clearly whether he likes sweet or salty food. This will cause your image in the hearts of girls to be very dark and useless.

The first point of female thinking. That is what we often call the strong mentality. Girls all like strong people, and this is ever-changing. And the strength we are talking about here does not mean how rich you are, how well-connected you are, or how much achievements you have made in a certain field, but it means strength in the relationship between men and women. You must have someone who is independent and responsible. , a man who has his own attitude and can lead this girl.

So don’t always ask girls where they want to go, and don’t always let girls make the choice. I’ll just let the boys say it directly. I bought two movie tickets. Just get ready and I will pick you up. The girl will come back. Now? We said yes, if a girl asks what movie it is, we will tell you when you come. This time the girl's response was to wait for me for half an hour.

Look. It's that simple. There are many girls who are very hesitant, and even say they are born with difficulty making choices. So what we have to do is to directly help them make the best choice, and then turn some things that originally require girls to use their own brains into It's very simple. After you do this, can a girl not have a crush on you?

What does the second key point of women’s thinking mean? Think back to when you were young and were getting along with a girl you liked, did you always like to pat her hair or pat her back when nothing happened? Even saying something mean is actually just teasing and making trouble for each other. You all used these techniques when you were young, but why did you forget them when you grew up?

In the chat history. All the messages sent by boys are full of dullness and rigidity, and there is absolutely nothing interesting that can attract this girl. She even said that the girl has already shown it before. I was angry, unhappy, and wanted to sleep at home instead of going out. The boy's reply was still very bland, just saying that you are indeed very tired. Then will the goddess be happy after reading it?

What about after watching the movie? As for the boys, she told me that the girls had no energy throughout the whole process. I keep yawning. If I encounter such a problem, I may not say anything, but I always feel that it is my problem. You may even blame yourself for not choosing a good movie, but in fact there is absolutely no need. I asked the boys to tell the girls directly. I just counted it. You yawned six times and checked your phone four times. How can you watch a movie with me? It's so boring.

We first use a humorous attitude to tease the girls, and the girls will laugh, "I just didn't sleep well last night." You see, it's not our fault at all. Let's continue talking, if I didn't want to affect others, I almost set up a doctor to scare you.

Girl, what should I do if she just said get out and scared me?

Our replies are very relaxed, so girls’ replies are also very relaxed. You can actually feel it. The best way to chat is like this, so here comes the key point. Let’s continue to reply to the girl and say she’s scared, I’ll support you. We suddenly became serious. If a girl says she has no feelings for this boy, she will treat it as a joke, but if she says she has feelings for this boy, then she will not be able to resist her greed.

Some people may say that when they get here, we are all adults now, and doing these behaviors is very childish and may be disgusted by girls. I tell you, you are wrong again. There will be a little girl living in every girl's heart, who is innocent, kind, brave and like-minded. However, some girls hide it very well. Therefore, we can mention it in front of girls, but we must pay attention to it. Our core point is to grasp the importance and then play a counter-instrument card.

What is reverse card insertion? It's the same as in our chat above. We are jealous first, and then we have to show our care and seriousness in front of the girls. After we do this, the girl will have more and more emotions towards you in her heart, and the girl will feel that this boy is her. He is just like this to me. Although he usually laughs and laughs and is not serious, he is still quite charming when he is serious. Once a girl has this kind of emotion more often, he will develop a more advanced psychological protection.

Girls will feel that we can only show our most childish and serious side in front of him, and the longer this mentality lasts. Girls will have more and more feelings for us

Some people may be surprised that the last keyword is weak. Didn’t I just say that it needs to be stronger? Why is it so weak now? Let me explain to you what I mean by "weakness". It doesn't mean that you look weak if you don't eat or exercise, but that we need to know how to show weakness appropriately. For example, just tell a girl, oh, I've been very busy and tired at work recently, can you comfort me? Or I'm so hungry now and want to eat the bento you made. After studying many cases, I found that there are many boys who do not have the characteristics I am talking about now. They will feel that it is embarrassing for me, a grown man, to show weakness to girls, and it is very shameless. I guess everyone does too. Many boys will put themselves in a relatively high position to communicate with girls, and are never willing to be in a lower position. But if they want to have a serious and long-term relationship, they must have a slightly more balanced communication, not Saying that you have always been cold and aloof

This actually does not conflict with what we talked about in the first point. Weakness is the most irresistible thing for girls. I continued to ask the boy to send a message to the girl, saying that the air conditioner in the cinema was turned down a bit yesterday and I seemed to have a cold.

The girl said, is it serious?

The girl shows that she cares about us boys very much, and the girl’s response is not bad, so we can continue to talk about seriousness. Actually it's not bad. I usually don't take any medicine, I just take it on my own for a few days and it's fine. I don't think it's serious. Without your care, I always feel uncomfortable.

The girl replied, "Hahaha, you are so mean-spirited. How do you want me to take care of you?"

You can see that the girl’s reaction and emotion are very good, so now we can make some appropriate requests to the girl. We said that if we can have a light dinner with the beautiful girl, then let If a beautiful girl gives me a massage, I will definitely feel better

Girl. Don't push yourself too far.

At this point, I will test you girls. Does her sentence really mean rejection? Of course not, we will continue to make fun of the girls. You can't just press a man's head casually, but it's okay to have a meal. I have already booked a restaurant

We once again used the first point to try to make a date and make all arrangements, and the girl said it was no problem. Anyway, just have a meal as you said, so the beauty reluctantly dressed up to attend. Please help me.

The chat atmosphere between two people is quite good. This is our charm of showing weakness appropriately. I let the boy continue chatting with the girl for a few more days, making full use of our strong skin and weak skin. Finally, on the second date, the two of us officially established a relationship.

It’s over here. If we want to pursue a girl, we need to know what the girl is thinking and what she needs. We have mastered these three key points of a girl’s thinking. Girls will definitely fall in love with you. Of course, there is nothing unreasonable in this world. People who are better than you are still working hard. Believe in yourself, you can do it too.