A woman in Ningxia gave her family 5000 yuan. After her husband asked for nothing, she killed her father-in-law family of seven. What happened afterwards?

After the tragedy, after more than 80 hours of escape, the suspect still fell into the French Open. In fact, it is conceivable that the criminal suspect's behavior has seriously violated the law, and finally the criminal suspect was sentenced to death, and the happy life of the three families ended.

This incident also tells us that we must not break the law at any time, otherwise we will bear corresponding responsibilities.

Why did childhood friends finally become enemies?

The suspect and his wife, originally childhood friends, naturally got married and had children. Originally, their lives would get better and better, but I didn't expect the wife to spend so much money that the suspect couldn't stand it.

Because of the low salary and the house loan, the suspect's life has been frugal, but his wife doesn't think so. Instead, it dislikes the suspect's poverty and stimulates the suspect with verbal violence.

In this way, the suspect sold the house and returned to the village to start a business. The money in his hand was spent, and the suspect asked his wife for it, but it was "no money." Obviously, the suspect gave his wife 10 thousand yuan before.

Only in the quarrel did I know that my wife gave her husband's family 5000 yuan and took the children back to her mother's house.

Although his wife later returned home with the suspect, this 5,000 yuan became the suspect's heart disease. He kept urging his wife to go to her husband's house to get money. The wife's parents said that they would not give money and asked for a divorce, which completely angered the suspect.

On the day of the incident, the suspect came to his father-in-law's house and killed seven people, including his wife and son, which caused an irreparable tragedy.

Who caused the tragedy?

In fact, considering the whole case, I think the suspect, wife and father-in-law are all wrong.

First of all, it must be wrong for a criminal suspect to break the law, because a momentary impulse not only hurts others, but also hurts himself.

Part of the reason for the impulse is that the wife and her consumption concept are inconsistent. Most of the quarrels between the two are because of money, and one party is struggling, but the wife doesn't seem to understand the difficulties of the suspect. In the eyes of the criminal suspect, the wife is just spending money indiscriminately.

In this case, both parties may not want to change themselves. From this perspective, I think if both sides can tolerate and understand each other, the contradiction may be smaller. For example, if a criminal suspect changes jobs to make money, his wife can spend the money on the cutting edge, and if two people work together, life will get better and better.

Apart from her father-in-law's family, it is understandable for her daughter to honor herself, but knowing that her daughter is in financial difficulties and needs money to start a business, shouldn't she be helped? When the son-in-law's life improves, he may give more than 5000 yuan.

It seems that everyone thinks from their own point of view without making any changes, which eventually leads to tragedy. The most pitiful thing in this is the child, and it is over before we know the world well.

Write to the end

I have always believed that to maintain a relationship, both husband and wife and their families need to understand and tolerate, think from each other's point of view, understand the difficulty of life, and work together towards a unified goal, so that life will be better.

Of course, if two people really can't go on, they can choose to divorce, and there is no need to do anything illegal. This is very wrong.

Say, who do you think is the most responsible in this situation, and how can we alleviate the contradiction between husband and wife?