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What is the experience of traveling with the opposite sex?

I not only travel with the opposite sex, but also share a bed with the opposite sex. This incident is the same as the plot in the movie. So far, it feels like a trap at the front desk of the hotel.

It was a hot summer day, thinking that there was no class and nothing to do at the weekend, and thinking that staying in the dormitory was a waste of time, I posted in the post bar to find a friend who was going to Yangshuo for the weekend, regardless of gender.

After the post was sent, but soon someone added me, still from the same school, and after a while, I was sure it was her. I didn't know she was a girl at that time. Even if I knew she was a girl, I didn't know. I just want to find someone to go out and play.

On Saturday morning, at the appointed place, I realized that she was a girl, beautiful and cheerful. We had a good chat in the car and found that two people still have a lot in common. After playing all day, everyone was very happy. She is not that kind of weak girl. She also said that she has a good personality and is good at taking care of people.

Because I didn't book a hotel on my mobile phone before, I went directly to the hotel front desk to book it at night. Arrived at the front desk and said he wanted to book two rooms. Little brother told me that there was no room, only one big bed room was left. When he said this, I seemed to see in his eyes that a trick had succeeded. I really want to say to him, "Brother, we are not lovers. I only met her on the first day. "

As soon as I heard that there was only one big bed room, I took the girl to leave. The girl said it was too late, and she was tired and didn't want to find a hotel. Let's take this one. Now that the girls have said so, I can't say anything more. If I continue to have ulterior motives, I'll stay.

When I got to my room, I was still embarrassed. I never thought that I would live in the same room with a girl I only knew for one day. After entering the room, I immediately said that she would sleep on the bed and I would sleep on the sofa. The girl said nothing. After washing, I lay on the sofa. After chatting for a while, the girl asked me to go to bed. To tell the truth, I want to sleep in the bed, too, because the sofa is too small to even put my feet. When I turn over, I will fall.

After being inspired, I immediately climbed into bed happily. Don't get me wrong, I really want to sleep in bed, and I definitely didn't mean it. In the end, everyone had clothes to sleep and lived in peace. When I returned to school two days later, I never contacted again, because I felt too embarrassed that night to contact again.

The experience of traveling with the opposite sex is that you won't travel with the opposite sex again when you die next time! ! !

Last summer vacation, Ma Lao, who was well-known in the local outdoor circle, was invited by a friend to go to go on road trip, Tibet, because he could not save face, and if Ma Lao was the team leader, he would not have to share the expenses. The conditions for free travel in go on road trip and Tibet are very attractive, so Ma Lao arranged the next trip and promised to be their leader.

One * * two SUVs, seven people and seven people, three of whom are women, took part in this road trip. These three ladies have basically zero experience in outdoor free travel.

The first morning, the car was connected to the old horse. The old horse looked at the trunk and back seat, bought all kinds of food as soon as he had time, and then said, "This business is very mature, and all kinds of supplies are very convenient. There is no need to bring so many instant noodles, it takes up too much space. " As the old horse said, the food prepared in advance was not finished when I came back.

Old horses are always outdoors, especially enjoying camping trips. At that time, other players, especially female players, could not understand it at all.

It was still early that day when the bus arrived in Litang. The old horse suggested, "I brought a stove. We can cook a street meal outside the hotel and digest the food in the car." Several lesbians disagreed: "It's not like there is no restaurant, how comfortable it is to be in the restaurant next to it!" " "The old horse asked them to go to a restaurant and cook a meal with the stove they brought.

I left the hotel the next morning and drove for about an hour. A female player suddenly found her ID card missing and suspected that she had left it in the hotel. It is impossible to have an ID card in Tibetan areas. Then she decided through discussion that the car where the female player was located would return to the hotel to find an ID card, and the other would slow down to the next accommodation point. In this way, today's trip was delayed by the return trip to find an ID card, and it was almost midnight when we arrived at the hotel. This situation is understandable.

What aggravates the old horse's vomit is Aden's milk sea. There is a certain distance at the entrance of Milk Sea Scenic Area. Everyone walked for a long time, but when they saw the sea of milk, the female players said they couldn't get on. Back in the car, the old horse suddenly felt very annoyed: "We have come a long way, and the Milk Sea is a famous scenic spot. Hang in there, we'll be there soon. Are you willing to go back like this? " ! "In the end, the old horse went to the milk sea alone, and others went back to the car to rest and wait.

When the team arrived in Medog, the old horse proposed to enter Medog on the grounds that the race was not easy. Now the road conditions in Medog are much better, and the SUV can completely go. Other teammates did not agree to go to Medog and went straight to Lhasa. Finally, it was decided that the old horse and the person who invited the old horse drove into Medog, and the others used another car to go straight to Lhasa.

The front and rear legs of the two cars arrived in Lhasa. After the meeting, Ma Lao proposed: I have safely taken you to Lhasa. Because our travel ideas are different, I won't join in next. You share the cost, I pay, I leave the team! Finally, the person who invited Ma Lao as the team leader was invited to share the expenses to offset the expenses previously agreed by the team leader, and Ma Lao left the team alone.

After wandering around Lhasa for a few days, Lao Ma called the inviter and asked, "Where are you now?"

The other party said, "At home."

The old horse was surprised: "You came back so soon? ! "

It turned out that the next day, six people from these two cars went home and ran all the way home from Lhasa.

After the old horse came back, he kept complaining for several days: I worked hard to make a road book and wanted them to see the most beautiful scenery in Sichuan and Tibet, but they didn't care at all. I will never travel with women again, especially those who have never left home and are melodramatic. I would never travel with them if I were killed. I am not angry enough!

There was, many years ago!

Once I went out to play with a sister for half a month!

At that time, it was delayed for half a month because of the active efforts of a leader!

When I was upset, I made a state in my circle of friends and wanted to go out to play!

As a result, a girl saw it and replied that she wanted to go out to play together!

I thought it was a joke, but I didn't reply. I didn't expect my sister to call directly to confirm that it was true!

So we made an appointment to go to a tourist city in our middle line!

Because it's the off-season, I said I'd leave, without a reservation!

When I arrived, I found that my sister had booked a room, or a room!

Don't get me wrong, suite, two rooms and one living room, she lives inside and I live outside!

It's raining in Jiangnan city!

The two of us often go out to play and get wet!

Although I hold an umbrella, I am shy by nature. As soon as she came near me, I thought she was caught in the rain, so I moved my umbrella to her side. ...

We don't know each other very well, but it feels a bit like first love!

We lived together for half a month and visited every corner and bar in that city!

No one sent anyone when I left on the last day!

Afraid of sadness!

Very strange feeling

Not a lover

But there is a little mind!

Despite living together, nothing happened!

Then I got drunk and told my friends about it.

My friend said she should be waiting for my confession!

I am a typical science and engineering man.

Always put yourself down when it's critical!

It was also in college, and it was also her.

After the freshman military training, I will go out to visit the school at night.

She said she was cold, but I said I wouldn't be cold when I ran!

She went to the new campus in her sophomore year.

Call me and tell me that there are many people chasing me.

I said that in the institute of technology of our school, there are more women than men, and each woman will have at least 20 men to chase.

We all went to the new campus in our junior year.

We go to the scenic spot by bike and are allowed to bring our families.

She said she would follow, and she could pretend to be family.

I said we all share a dormitory. What are you doing with it?

We graduated from our senior year.

She said she was going to work in the north and asked me to go with her.

Said it was convenient to take care of in a city

I went to Guangzhou!

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I always let myself go at critical moments!

So, am I still single?

No, I have a dog!

I'm glad to answer this question. On my previous trips by car or bike, I was lucky enough to travel with three people of the opposite sex. These three experiences are different, but each trip is so happy, enjoyable and unforgettable!

The three members of the opposite sex who travel together have different relationships with me. The first one is a good girlfriend of the opposite sex, the second one is met in an outdoor activity, and the third one is a female cyclist riding together on National Highway 3 18!

I once met a Shanghai girl who loved and admired each other for a long time, and finally could not bear the fire of love lit by each other, so we went out together and walked hand in hand through many places, that is, in this trip, we became real lovers. This feeling is sweet and unforgettable! Wherever we go, it seems that there are only two of us in the whole world, and the days of traveling with her will eventually become unforgettable memories in this life. But there is no dividing line between fate and reason, and it will not be tolerated by the secular. Let's fly separately from old Yan Xi!

The second time was in an outdoor activity organized by a friend. We went camping in Dishui Lake on the outskirts of Shanghai. There are four people, two men and two women. I haven't seen two girls before, and I know my friends very well. Everyone rides more than 60 kilometers from the urban area to Dishui Lake, barbecues, drinks and chats at night, and naturally they are familiar. On that day, two girls didn't bring tents. My friend joked that either of them had to make a decision, and they agreed again and again. Finally, I shared a tent with the girl named Zoe. My tent itself is single, and now I sleep for two people. It's a little crowded. They lay in their clothes, listening to the sound of water droplets lapping on the shore, chatting together until late, and finally fell asleep in a daze. When she woke up in the morning,

The third time happened on the journey of riding 3 18. Shortly after I arrived in Kangding, when I was climbing a mountain and collapsed, I saw a girl who was resting on the side of the road give me a thumbs-up from a distance and cheer me up loudly. When I rode beside her, I just stopped. We chatted together for a long time and became more and more congenial, so we walked together for a few days on the next trip and opened a standard room when we lived alone. She rode her bike from Kangding to Daocheng Aden alone. After arriving in Litang, we had a farewell dinner and went our separate ways. Later, we occasionally contacted on WeChat. Maybe we will remember these experiences in a few years!

In this life, people will meet many people and experience many things. Some people pass by, and some people will never forget. Thank you for these three different trips, and thank you for these three heterosexual friends who appeared in the difficult journey of my life. It is you who make my trip more stereoscopic and my life more colorful!

Although I have traveled abroad, I may have only traveled alone with the opposite sex once. That was the year I studied in Shanghai. Once I traveled to Suzhou with a classmate in my class. Of course, I didn't spend the night there during the day, but I went back to Shanghai that night. After all, the convenient transportation gives me a good feeling of being with the opposite sex. Women have their own meticulous and thoughtful considerations, and they are not as dirty as some people think. Later, I wrote a travel book.

-[Travel Notes]

1At the end of 993, I went abroad to study in Shanghai on business. When I arrived, I heard that "there is heaven above and Suzhou and Hangzhou below". I don't know how many literati have dumped its beauty. Suzhou and Hangzhou are close at hand at present. How can I not want to see for myself? However, my study task was very tight, and I couldn't come back on the same day when I went to Hangzhou, so I never made it. It has become a pity for me now, but I was lucky enough to go to Suzhou to witness it with my own eyes.

It was a Sunday morning, and I made an appointment with several international students studying together to go to Suzhou by train. Suzhou is not like a modern city full of high-rise buildings and buzzing people, but it is small and exquisite everywhere, and it is a typical model of small towns in the south of the Yangtze River. Buildings in cities are generally not high, and many of them are ancient buildings. Although it is winter, the trees on the roadside can still see green, and the numerous rivers and unique bridges on the rivers in Canada are even more antique. What's more interesting is that the words used on various signboards here are generally traditional Chinese characters, and I can't recognize many words. This is the only thing I have seen in all the cities I have been to. Even Suzhou Station is written as "Suzhou Station". When I was walking in the street, I really felt that I had entered the ancient times. Because there are few high-rise buildings, I feel that the sky here is particularly open and there is no sense of oppression in ordinary cities. My mood is also very comfortable, and even my breathing feels particularly fresh.

In Suzhou, garden art is world-famous, and Suzhou garden is the best in the world. In Suzhou, I went to the Lion Garden, Lingering Garden and other scenic spots. In fact, their area is not large. According to the tour guide, this is a private garden left by a large family. The garden is graceful, surrounded by clear water and green hills [rockery], with towering trees and several fake walls with moon doors. The combination is so ingenious and seamless. Although it is the off-season of tourism, there are not many tourists, which makes the park seem a little deserted, but my interest is still very strong. It's really comfortable and happy to sit by the pavilion and look at the mountains and water.

Another unique place in Suzhou is the way vendors sell goods. After we came out of the scenic spot, several vendors showed their handicrafts in front of us, without asking whether we bought them or not, and without talking. So we followed them all the time, which made us curious and finally bought it. I think maybe this is also a characteristic of Suzhou people doing business.

I usually have a hobby of writing poems. On my way back to Shanghai, I had a whim and wrote the following travel notes. Although I am not a poet and can't write decent poems, I would like to leave these words as a little harvest or souvenir from my trip to Suzhou.

Suzhou hang

-Travel notes

Wensuhang

Shengtiantang

Travel around Suzhou

More beautiful scenery in Jiangnan

Garden beauty

Hughes town

Monument pavilion decoration department

Improvised note line

I am a man. A few years ago, the company organized a trip. There are only a few people in our department. I went to Hainan. Actually, it's my first time. It's quite fun.

I booked a big bed room with sea view. It was the peak tourist season. A sister said she wanted to fight with me because she didn't book a room. Of course I don't mind, so I moved in together. Because there is no fixed schedule, so freedom of movement, basically everyone does not want to run far. So, this sister and I basically acted at the same time and went downstairs to swim in the pool together. She didn't know what to do, so I held her.

They have breakfast together, go back for a nap at noon, take a walk on the surrounding beach in the afternoon, buy some seafood at the nearby seafood market in the evening, and then go to the restaurant for processing. Although it is more troublesome, it is much cheaper than eating directly.

In the evening, colleagues drank wine together, then blew the sea breeze, played cards, and then went back to their rooms to sleep.

Of course, I share a bed with my sister. The bed is very big and wide, facing the sea view ... of course, I am still a little afraid to see it outside at night, so I can only close the curtains when I sleep. She likes to sleep on my arm and often wakes up in the middle of the night with numbness in her arm.

Then there is a big bathtub, which can't be wasted. The two of them just got together and rubbed their backs and shoulders. It tastes good.

I don't know what it's like to go abroad now. Hainan is really good, and it has been quite safe in recent years. You can also play when you have time.

I almost forgot to mention that this girl is my girlfriend.

Ha ha ha ha.

17 years, just started a business. I often go out to study with my partners, mostly women. I am the only man, and I basically eat/sleep/travel together. Once I went to Sanya for training with my friends. There are three women and a man. In order to save money, we booked a big room with two beds. Two women share a bed, and I share a bed with another woman. Because we are all a team, we are familiar with each other at ordinary times, and we have no special taboos. We all have families, and we have no wild desires. I slept until midnight, and my partner who slept next to me gently let out a cry. I woke up and realized that my hand was on her. I swear I really didn't mean to. I put my hands away in a daze and went back to sleep. The next morning, my plane was earlier than theirs. I got up early to catch the plane. Up to now, our whole team relationship is also very good, and we have always kept in touch.

I met her for the first time on the train from Beijing to Xi. I was afraid of missing the scenery outside the window, so I sat by the window and she sat next to me.

She poked around and asked me how long it would take. I told her it would take about two hours.

Then she went to sleep, reminded her of her destination and woke her up.

The second time, I met Hukou Waterfall, a tourist attraction. It was raining in Mao Mao and the waterfall was spectacular. I went up to say hello and said, what a coincidence, I met you looking at her in a thin dress again. I gave her a coat that I put in my bag.

Next, we visited this scenic spot together, and then got on the bus and went to the city. We broke up. She wants to have dinner with her classmates. I want to see the night view of the ancient capital. I have an appointment to go to the Qin Shihuang Mausoleum Museum tomorrow, and then return my coat.

The third day, I met her outside the museum. At this time, she is no longer alone, but someone is with her. Her classmates know a lot and took us all the way to visit and explain, and learned a lot of knowledge. Her classmates have something to do at night and can't accompany her. We all feel that fate has made us meet so many times, and I don't know if we will have a chance to meet again in this life after we leave.

Having dinner together in the evening, I learned that she had encountered difficulties at work and wanted to temporarily forget the uneasy state by distracting herself. I said, do everything hard and don't put too much pressure on yourself. As the scenery she saw became more and more beautiful, she gradually figured it out.

I booked a plane ticket for that night. She will go to Huashan tomorrow, so don't say goodbye. Thank you for your company.

And then what?

What is the experience of traveling with the opposite sex? 》

I remember it was the National Day holiday, and I signed up for a go on road trip team through the Internet.

In the early morning, when I arrived at the designated place in a BMW 330, there were already four cars waiting there, plus ten people, half male and half female. The team leader made a division of labor and divided it into five groups, each with men and women.

In the evening, the team held its first group dinner in a hotel. A few hours later, men and women who had never met before, and were very stiff when they arrived, met like brothers and sisters like old friends. The team leader announced: "Give the man a task and take good care of the ladies around him. We are not forced to match, we are a voluntary combination. "

The downward arrangement is quite emotional: eating is divided into two parts, having dinner at noon and eating in groups for breakfast and dinner; There are also points and combinations of activities. Go on road trip focuses on outdoor experience, mostly for traveling, camping in the wild, and temporarily building a tent for two people in the habitat. While the ladies in my group were still hesitating about how to sleep this night, one group took the lead in entering the tent with everyone's laughter.

I saw her still standing there in a daze. He said to her, "Isn't it relaxing to come out? Don't think too much. " Say that finish, began to spread bedding into the tent. I lay outside, she lay inside, the door was open, and they all slept with their clothes on.

Every day in running all the way, we camp against the sunrise in the dark, and there are seven or eight scenic spots a day. Although it is a bit of a tour, it can be regarded as satisfying the purpose of viewing the mountains and enjoying the scenery in my heart.

The week-long journey on the road soon ended, and the pleasant journey always made everyone feel inseparable when they broke up, especially the female teammates, who were always taken care of by their male compatriots, and everyone was moved to tears. It is suggested to organize more such activities in the future, which has been unanimously agreed by all teammates. Because it is the first time for everyone to have this kind of personal experience of the opposite sex accompanying road trip, everyone feels very happy and misses it.

Last year, the company organized a trip to Yunnan, and the air tickets were all booked. As a result, I changed my plane ticket and flew to Dali. At first, I played alone in Dali. Later, I rented a car and drove to Lugu Lake. I came out at 4 am to watch the sunrise. There was no one outside, and then I met a girl. My sister took the initiative to chat with me. She learned that I was driving alone and asked to play with me! Shit! What can I say no to when others are talking? It was dark and cold, and everyone was wrapped tightly. I didn't get a good look at the girl, but she is not tall. At dawn, I found that I had found a big baby, a small jasper sister. So I played happily with her for a day, during which I took a lot of photos and sent them to my circle of friends, and my colleagues in the company all blew up! My male colleagues worship me. But I didn't stay with my sister at night. Although my sister said she would invite me to dinner, I still want to fly back to Dali. Now think about what would happen if I really didn't leave that day. I'm almost 40 years old, but I look young. My sister thought I was in my early thirties. The photos below are real. People who have been to Lugu Lake should know the scenery here. I hope that girl doesn't mind seeing it.