Do you want to delete the photos of your ex-boyfriend?

We were classmates in junior high school, and we got good grades at that time, the kind in the front row of the grade. It was not until I went to college that I began to intersect. I am in Beijing and he is in Tianjin. We met because of the hometown association. When I was a freshman, I stayed in the relationship of ordinary friends, and occasionally interacted with Renren.com through Fetion (later I learned that he had a girlfriend). Sophomore began to contact me, meaning that he chased me. Before the second semester of his sophomore year, he followed me to Changsha to play, and then we went to Beijing to express our love and got together.

The beginning of being together is actually very sweet. He will write a little game as a one-month anniversary gift and buy me a small mobile phone to call. But my performance is not very good. I have always been a person who can't express his feelings and emotions, so I won't say that I don't think he will spoil and make him unhappy. He thinks I don't like him. But fortunately, he gradually became patient, and I gradually realized that he was going to let go of himself. More than a year has passed, and although there are some unpleasant times, I am still very happy on the whole, and I basically meet once every two weeks. Oh, I also traveled to Dalian in the summer vacation after my sophomore year, although I didn't play much because of the bad weather.

I was very busy until the summer vacation when my junior year ended. I really lost myself hanging out with a group of foreigners all day. We had a fierce argument. He thinks I've changed. I'm just saying I'm really busy I broke up after the summer vacation. He came to detain me, bought my favorite hand-painted book, sang with me and told me not to leave. But I was really cold at that time, and now I think I should really say sorry to him seriously. According to him later, he sent me a lot of jokes to coax me, and I didn't pay much attention to him. I always forget things, alas!

My senior year is over, because I went to Tianjin as an intern. I miss him very much, so at the end of my internship, I got up the courage to ask him out for dinner. I think he's a little cold. I've been laughing, and then I should go back to Beijing. Take me to the train station, but I really don't want to go back, so we found a place to live near the train station and wanted to talk. I just found out that he has a girlfriend, but he means he doesn't like it very much. He just agreed when someone asked him. Then we decided to get back together. I returned to Beijing the next day. He felt bad because I dumped a girl. Oh, one of the details that I have always felt very hurt about is that we went to a hotel in Tianjin, and he lied that he had no money. I didn't know it until later. He explained that he was afraid that I was just here to play with him (in fact, I'm not the kind of person who would spend his money). Although playing together will not be AA every time, it must be like when you play together. I will pay attention to the fact that the money spent by everyone will not be too different. Of course, it's been a long time.

In this way, when I graduated from my senior year (he was one year younger than me because he wanted to start a business), I found a good job and found a house by myself (I also rented a two-bedroom apartment and subletted the second bedroom for his convenience). Then he came to help me move things and I officially left school. At that time, it was actually full of longing, because thinking about leaving school, we were closer to our choice and even getting married. But living together often quarrels, big and small things. I really have a bad temper, and he is quite stubborn. But I really never thought about breaking up. My parents came to Beijing to see me in August, so I had to let him move out first. Later, it seems that all kinds of quarrels are already in a state of half. Then there was a fierce argument, and then he moved away completely and broke up, as if we had sung a song together (I may really have a selective memory and I can't remember many things).

Later, life was not smooth, and both work and renting a house encountered great changes. It's winter over and over, and he still talks to me occasionally. I'm still a little cold. Then he deleted me. Later, I really don't remember how WeChat was added back, and I didn't say much.

After working for a year, I found myself thinking about him all the time, so I got up the courage to ask him how he graduated. He said nothing, and he has been practicing in Beijing. Then I will take the initiative to chat with him and make an appointment to meet him (to find him at his place of residence), which is far away and chaotic. As soon as we met, it got out of hand, but then we got back together (it seems that he dumped his girlfriend because of me later).

After we got back together, we still often quarreled (alas, I really don't know why), but my mind has changed. I don't feel bored anymore and want to break up, but I always feel that this has delayed his time (I have already worked, he just graduated, and is going to resign to study abroad), and I really think it will affect his future. Then he broke up with me. It was about September -65438+ 10, and he went home by train. I went to see him off and cried like a fool. After he went back, he concentrated on preparing for IELTS and so on. We are basically not in touch (but we both feel that we are still together). We still met when we went home for the New Year. The neighborhood where we live is just across the street. He once invited me to eat rice noodles, came downstairs to see me and kissed me (he said I didn't cooperate with him, but I really only did it on purpose). I'm actually very happy)

But then I went back to Beijing to work. Anyway, we haven't contacted each other since the quarrel. In this way, last June, he contacted me, but I was indifferent and said that I felt there was nothing to say (now that I think about it, it was really harsh, I was just pretending to be reserved). Later, in July, I asked him how he was preparing for going abroad. He said that he just needed a physical examination and left in July and August. I don't know what to say, I just want to wish him the best. He said goodbye to me the day he left.

Last year, it was my birthday on 8.2 1, and he had a happy birthday, and I was in tears (but I still chatted with all kinds of small temper, because I actually found out that he had a girlfriend). We talked a lot that day, and he called me back, but when I answered the phone, both of them were in tears. He said that he likes his current girlfriend and he can't do anything for me. After that, I can't help talking to him occasionally, but I rarely say anything ambiguous. I'm just saying it doesn't matter what you buy. So does he. Call me or WeChat if you need anything.

Then one day, he sent me a WeChat late and asked if he could call me. It turned out that he broke up because the girl's father had cancer and could not go abroad to accompany him. I had a long talk with him. After that, I will contact WeChat intermittently. One day, he said 17 will come back in February and come to me then. I am really, really happy. Later, I couldn't come back in February, but I arrived in June and July. I didn't say anything. Later, I decided to come back in late July and early August. I advised him that in case he came to Beijing too far, we should find a place to play together. I decided to go to Hongcun, Anhui, and I made all the arrangements. Finally, he said he didn't have time to see me. Really depressed, but I can only understand him. Oh, before he came back, he also had a teenage girl as his girlfriend for about a week. My sister thinks she wants to xxoo after graduating from college, and she broke up because she can't wait. At that time, he also came to WeChat to chat with me.

Since then, we have been in contact intermittently, not much but constantly.

He went home and then went abroad. It's my birthday again, and I received a bunch of flowers. The card said, "Don't say I didn't send you flowers. Happy birthday "Yes, I used to complain that he couldn't think of anything to make for me, which makes me wonder why there are always gifts like other girls."

I'm really happy to receive flowers.

I got up the next morning and took a picture of me putting words in a vase. In the evening, he said that we should stop contacting each other and deleted WeChat. I'm devastated. He thinks this will not work out, and then he will always find something new. Long pain is better than short pain. But I really can't accept it. About us, we discussed it before. Actually, I think I can go to him. My English is not bad. It's no problem to run a whv abroad. But he feels that the burden is too heavy, and he is afraid that he can't take care of himself. I'm afraid I'll still have a bad life. Seriously, I can always understand his thoughts. I can't be angry any more, and I can't convince him. I can only be sad.

I showed him my colleague's dog the day before yesterday, and after a brief chat, I felt that I had not been deleted (the day before, he said he was reluctant, but he couldn't make this decision)

Yeah, and then I found out today. ......

Actually, I was preparing for the IELTS test recently, and I didn't tell him because I was afraid he was under pressure. Everything before, but unfortunately there is no if.

This article is taken from: Conch Secret Network.