My mother-in-law and my happy life

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I knew from an early age that my mother and grandmother were not on good terms. I grew up in my grandmother's house, and we lived apart from her when I was 7 years old. On holidays, my father went home to accompany my grandmother, while my mother stubbornly never went to her grandmother's house once.

I have been making "lubricating oil" between my mother and my grandmother. I caught a chicken and went to my grandmother's house to say that my mother asked me to bring it. My father bought a dress for my grandmother and said it was bought by my mother. In front of my mother, she said that grandma cooked me egg porridge, which was delicious; Grandma bought me a new skirt ... but my mother and grandma still didn't talk, and I finally lost!

My mother's sister, my aunt and her mother-in-law are not on good terms. Every time I go to menstruation's house, my legs tremble when I see my mother-in-law.

When I first got married, my husband and I said, "What if your mother and I don't get along?"

I remember he replied, "If you can't get along with my mother, then you don't have to get along with others!" " "I don't think what he said is so good. Who wouldn't say that his mother is good?

Fortunately, we don't live with our mother-in-law after marriage, so the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no problem. In the first year of marriage, I gave birth to a son and came back to my mother-in-law's house for confinement.

I'm not used to living with my parents-in-law for the first time. Just like the shy kannika nimtragol in ancient times, she dared not ask for anything.

More than 20 years ago, my husband lived in an old tile house without a toilet. To go to the toilet, he has to go to the public toilet about 500 meters away from home.

Next to my room is the woodshed, and I can hear the sound of mice running around at night. My son slept soundly during the day, but his eyes were wide open at night and he needed a hug. Sometimes it's really sleepy. He began to cry when I put him on the bed. My mother-in-law came to my room when she heard her grandson crying. She said, "Go to sleep, I'll give you a hug!" " "After a few nights, my mother-in-law couldn't hold on any longer. She felt dizzy from lack of sleep.

I lived in my mother-in-law's house for a month. Although my mother-in-law is very kind to me and sends every meal to my bed on time, I stay alone in that small room every day. I don't have a TV phone or even a newspaper. I am trapped in this room every day, except when I go out with shit. I feel like I'm in prison.

My son just turned full moon, so I asked my husband to take us back to the dormitory. My mother-in-law tried her best to keep us, but I made up my mind to leave. I can't stay another day.

At that time, I was still young and didn't understand my mother-in-law's feelings. She is eager to love her grandson and is afraid that I will become a new mother. It's too difficult to take care of my son alone.

After leaving home, my parents-in-law will visit us at our workplace every month, see their grandchildren, bring us some agricultural and sideline products, and hire a nanny for us in our hometown. My mother-in-law cares about us wholeheartedly. I hope she can solve all the troubles in life for us!

When my son was two and a half years old, we went to work in a remote mountainous area because of work needs, so we left our son at his grandparents' house. By this time, beautiful buildings have been built at home, and my son can have a good living environment.

When I was a child, my son often caught a cold and had a fever, and he went to the hospital to "report" every month. My parents-in-law often take their grandchildren to the hospital for emergency treatment in the middle of the night, and I don't know how many hearts are hurt. So my son has a good relationship with his grandmother. When he was a child, he said that he would sleep with his grandmother until he grew up and married his wife.

When my son was in the second grade, we transferred back to our hometown to work, and this time we really lived with our mother-in-law. I have been a daughter-in-law for so many years and have never cooked for my family once.

I get up at 7 o'clock in the morning, and after washing, I can eat breakfast cooked by my mother-in-law. Occasionally, one day when I didn't make breakfast, she would always say apologetically, "I got up late today. I warmed up my dinner last night. Please eat!" I said, "Mom, it's okay, anything will do!" "

Every winter, I say to my mother-in-law, "Mom, it's too cold. You don't have to get up so early to make breakfast for us. Let's eat a steamed stuffed bun! " "I slept in a warm bed and got up the next day. My mother-in-law cooked a steaming breakfast.

"How can I eat steamed stuffed bun every day? It's cold. Eating porridge is still warm and comfortable! " what can I say? I just silently went to the supermarket to buy some gloves, so that my mother-in-law's hands immersed in biting cold water could get a little warm protection.

I have to be on duty at night. At first, my mother-in-law will cook dinner and send it to my unit. Later, I was really sorry to let my husband take on this task.

I like to go shopping to buy clothes. On the rest day, I will go shopping with my friends until seven or eight in the evening. My mother-in-law is chatting with a bunch of aunts at the door. When she saw me coming back, she said, "The food is cold, I'll heat it for you!" " I said apologetically, "Mom, you don't have to be busy. I'll do it myself! " "When I don't have to go to work, I sleep until midnight every day. When she wanted to wash the dishes after dinner, her mother-in-law said, "Keep it, and I'll wash it together later! " "

I often think that if my daughter-in-law is as lazy as me in the future, I can't help but scold her, just like some young nurses in the unit are not active at work now, and I can't help complaining. How can my mother-in-law stand my laziness for decades?

My mother-in-law only attended the second grade of primary school. Her family was poor when she was a child. She is the eldest sister and has raised five brothers and sisters. After getting married, she raised four children, so she did all the hard work and dirty work, and worked hard to raise the children. Now that life is good, she feels that everything she has done for her children is nothing compared with the previous hard work. Everything she has done now makes her feel very happy and satisfied.

Father-in-law is an explosive temper. Mother-in-law's food is a little off her stomach or she is furious because of a small matter. Mother-in-law is always silent and never quarrels with him. My mother-in-law said, "I know his character. The more you argue with him, the more excited he becomes. If you ignore him, he will be annoyed, and naturally he will not say anything. "

Yes, although my mother-in-law hasn't read any books, she also knows that when husband and wife live together, one side has to make concessions and accommodate the other. If you quarrel frequently, it will not only hurt the feelings of both sides, but also affect the healthy growth of children. When my husband first met me, he said, "When I was a child, I saw my father often beat and scold my mother, and I felt that my father should not. I thought to myself, I must treat my daughter-in-law well! "

I am thinking that such a man who knows how to love his daughter-in-law should be entrusted for life, right? My husband is also very gentle and considerate to me after marriage. He used to buy food, cook and wash clothes when he was working in other places, and he was reluctant to let me suffer a little. Thanks to her mother-in-law, she is gentle and kind, persevering, taking care of the overall situation, and has cultivated a man with a soft heart, a sense of responsibility and a passion for life.

Once, I was furious with my husband because of one thing. In a rage, I dropped the teacup on the table, and the splashed porcelain smashed the screen of the TV set, and the picture being played turned into colorful stripes.

It was so loud that my mother-in-law came to look for it and saw my face flushed. Her son stood at a loss. "What are you two doing?" Neither of us spoke, and my mother-in-law stood here for about two minutes and left. She never interferes in the affairs between husband and wife.

At this moment, I regret. Why can't I handle things between husband and wife with a peaceful mind like my mother-in-law? What's the difference between what I just did and what I did as a bitch?

There is a farmer's market in front of our house. Every market day, rural people will pull their own rice to sell, and my mother-in-law and rice dealers will rush to buy rice. The difference is that my mother-in-law buys rice for relatives and friends and doesn't earn anyone a penny. My mother-in-law helps her classmates buy rice in the countryside every month. The students are very grateful. She buys two sets of clothes for my mother-in-law every year. My mother-in-law said, "No, I have plenty of clothes!" " "

A friend said she wanted to find a herbal medicine, so I told her mother-in-law, and she kept it in mind. In two days, she helped my friend dig back many herbs.

The friend was surprised and happy: "I just said it casually." I didn't expect my aunt to help me dig herbs so soon. I really appreciate it． I don't know how much effort I spent looking for these herbs! " "My mother-in-law said," nothing. I happen to know a place where this herb grows. "

Only I know that those herbs have long and hard thorns. When my mother-in-law was digging herbs, she was pricked by those thorns. Her hands ached and itched, and her whole body was numb.

Grandma, I asked you to do all this. You always keep them in mind and help me do them well the first time. Thank you, grandma, for your hard work!

My father-in-law draws water from a few kilometers away, and my door is often filled with buckets to catch mountain spring water. My mother-in-law always welcomes them with a smile. The neighbors who come to pick up the mountain spring water are grateful and will bring us some vegetables, radishes, corn and peanuts from time to time.

My mother-in-law keeps some chickens every year. Her chickens are always more delicious than others'.

At home, you don't have to go to the market to buy chickens on holidays, just catch one in the chicken shed and kill it. My mother-in-law is not very good at making zongzi or making seasonal bazan, but she is very popular. When she called, her neighbors were happy to help. When everyone is talking and laughing together, they rub and pinch each other. Soon the food was ready, everyone took three or two home, and everyone laughed.

The family is warm and the neighborhood is harmonious. This is the day I want. I have to thank my mother-in-law for giving me all this.

I like planting flowers, but cleaning the mud on the third floor is a huge project.

I can't help myself. I can only carry half a bucket of mud to the roof at a time. I will slowly complete the arduous task like a fool moving mountains. My mother-in-law can't stand it anymore. Three times five divided by two helped me carry a few loads of mud to the roof, so I planted whatever I wanted.

She also told her mother-in-law that she wanted to get some honeycomb coal to go back to planting flowers. My mother-in-law went to the restaurant without saying anything and brought some back for me. The classmate said, "Your mother-in-law is very kind. My mother-in-law is very picky about my planting flowers and plants on the roof! " "Yes, my mother-in-law is very kind. Not only did she not interfere with my little hobby, but she also gave me support. Thank you, grandma!

Colleagues say you are so happy to have such a good mother-in-law. "Unlike my mother-in-law, she cooks badly and makes the kitchen a mess. She likes to nag at ordinary times ... "

In fact, I want to tell her that my mother-in-law also has many minor problems, such as putting a lot of oil in cooking, buying a lot of pork for us to eat, cooking without washing the pot, not cleaning the stove, and leaving the lid of the oil and salt jar uncovered ... Every time I finish eating, I silently clean the kitchen and never say a word.

My mother-in-law sometimes asks, "How is this dish today?" Even if the food is not delicious, I will say, "Well, it's good, it's delicious." That's what families do. It is not easy to get married in this life. What fate is this!

I never forget to buy one or two clothes for my mother-in-law when I go shopping. My mother-in-law was very happy and said in front of her neighbors, "My daughter-in-law bought this for me." Mother-in-law is old and suffers from constant illness. I often buy health products for her. When she had a dizzy attack, I came back from the hospital to give her an injection. My mother-in-law sometimes relies on me and likes to chat with me. She is a lesbian and always tells me what's wrong first.

Three years ago, my mother suddenly left because of a myocardial infarction, and I was very sad. During that time, my mother-in-law saw me haggard and often cooked chicken soup for me to drink.

She won't comfort me with perfect words and grand philosophy of life. She will only care and take care of me more in life. She is comforting me with her warmth, which is more powerful than any pale language! After my mother left, every day, my mother-in-law helped me prepare sacrificial supplies and explain the matters needing attention before my husband and I set off.

Dear mother-in-law, thank you for your efforts and everything you have done for me!

One day, my mother-in-law cooked me some boiled eggs and ate delicious earth eggs. It suddenly occurred to me that my mother would cook me two eggs every birthday when I was a child, and I couldn't help crying. At this moment, I really feel that after so many years of life, my mother-in-law cares about me like a mother. She is my mother! Because there is love in my heart, my mother-in-law tolerates my laziness, my willfulness and my insolence. ...

In a blink of an eye, my mother-in-law is 69 years old, and I have been her wife for 23 years. None of us knows what the road ahead will be like. I only know that I will cherish everything in front of me and be filial to her. Please treat her gently with years. I'll never have a chance to say this to my mother. At this moment, in the years before it is too late, I want to say to my mother-in-law: "Mom, I love you!" " "