South wind law

South wind effect-a truth that people with high emotional intelligence understand.

French writer La Fontaine has a fable:

The north wind and the south wind compare strength to see who can take off the coat of pedestrians. The north wind tried its best to blow off the clothes of pedestrians. As a result, pedestrians wrapped their coats more tightly to keep out the cold. The south wind is blowing slowly, and the weather is getting warmer. Pedestrians take off their coats because they feel warm. Nanfeng won the game. This is the famous "south wind effect".

It can be seen that, whether in emotional life or at work, we should learn the method of south wind. Face different people and things, deal with them in a proper way, and believe in your own personality charm. As the saying goes, "a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June", warm words such as praise, respect and encouragement will have unexpected power in people's psychology. No matter how hard the ice is, it will always melt, not to mention that people's hearts are fleshy.

Therefore, try to use the "south wind" to influence others, instead of always using the "north wind" to stimulate each other.