Family problems broke out! Because your "family account" balance is insufficient!

Everyone has a "family account" to store happiness and happiness, and only when you make progress can you get out.

Sometimes, quarrels are inevitable, but the love between family members can always bring support and strength to each other. If this account is accidentally overdrawn, how can this family go on?

My family account was once overdrawn. Through the study of "home study", I saw the importance of this "family account" again.

This is a story of "saving money", which is related to our family's struggle history of "turning losses into profits".

22 is a gloomy year for our small family.

At the end of p>219, my teammate, my husband, and I had a big conflict, so in the past year, we have either had a cold war, had a small quarrel, and even had the idea of divorce.

This year, our family account was absolutely unable to make ends meet.

In the new year, we set a goal: to save more money for family account.

saving money for Chinese new year

on Chinese new year's day, my mother-in-law and I are responsible for preparing the new year's eve dinner, and my teammates are responsible for posting the Spring Festival couplets of two families (mother-in-law's family and mother's family).

After posting the Spring Festival couplets, the preparations for the New Year's Eve dinner were almost complete. During the New Year's Eve dinner, my teammates took the initiative to peel crabs for my son and me.

My son and I spent the Spring Festival at home this year. My teammates were very happy. Although he finished his meal quickly, he stayed at the table to chat with us.

We talked while drinking, and the New Year's Eve dinner lasted until 8 o'clock in the evening. During this time, our teammates gave us vegetables, cut meat, cured meat, skewers and kebabs, and later made us yogurt jelly.

After my mother-in-law and I finished eating, my teammates took the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks. On this day, my affirmation to my husband continued:

"Husband, thank you!"

"Honey, kebabs look very handsome!"

"Honey, we are so happy that you give us kebabs"

...

There are countless "expressions of love" between us.

saving money during the Spring Festival

In 219 and 22, my son and I were at my mother's house to accompany my mother and grandmother for the Spring Festival, so it was inevitable that my mother-in-law was a little lonely here. Fortunately, my teammates were with brother in law.

But this year, due to the epidemic situation, brother in law can't come back to Shandong, so this year's New Year's Eve dinner is prepared by my mother-in-law and me.

My mother-in-law is very happy, humming a tune while preparing. I know, that's because my son and I are at home for the Spring Festival this year.

Early in the morning, my mother-in-law began to prepare the ingredients, and discussed with me what to cook. She also went to the mobile phone and notebook to review some recipes.

I affirmed my mother-in-law's carefulness and eagerness to learn, and she smiled from ear to ear.

In the process of preparing for the New Year's Eve dinner, my mother-in-law and I completely entered the mutual support mode. I said that my mother-in-law was very hard and my mother-in-law said that I was very thoughtful. We cooked separately and praised each other for their good work.

In such a harmonious and warm atmosphere, the two of us prepared a sumptuous dinner, and we didn't feel tired at all.

Before the New Year's Eve dinner, I asked my mother-in-law to put on the new clothes I bought for her to take a photo. Although her mother-in-law was distressed by money, she was very happy. She kept saying, "Buy me new clothes, and the cupboard is full of new clothes you bought for me ..."

My mother-in-law and I always have a drink on holidays. This year's Spring Festival, my mother-in-law wrapped jiaozi up in advance, just to have a good drink.

during the dinner, I apologized to my mother-in-law.

Because my mother is alone, so is my mother-in-law. For two years in a row, I took my children to spend the New Year at my parents' home, without accompanying my mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law said, "Our family doesn't say that you are far away from your mother's family and you can only go back once a year. You can come back at any time when you are close to our family, and it's just you, your mother and grandma. It's so lonely."

"But you and Hanhan are at home for the New Year this year, and I am so happy. I feel very lively. I don't want my youngest son (brother in law) to come back! "

Special thanks to my mother-in-law for her understanding and tolerance!

I chatted with my mother-in-law from 2 pm to 8 pm, and from day to night.

My mother-in-law is really a "warrior". After drinking, she still washes the dishes calmly. I looked at her adoringly and praised her again and again: "You are amazing!"

At : , we set off firecrackers and fireworks, ate hot jiaozi, stayed up for the New Year, chatted with melon seeds and had a wonderful New Year's Eve.

saving money on valentine's day

today is valentine's day, which we have never celebrated, because, in the words of our teammates, it is a foreigner's festival and a gimmick of business hype.

That's true, but my teammates still cook and cook for us today.

these days, I'm the chef and my mother-in-law is helping me most of the time.

After breakfast today, my teammate said that he would cook in the evening. I said, "Ok, is this for me on Valentine's Day?"

The teammate said with a smile, "That's because your fried food tastes terrible!"

I think: You are full of duplicity ...

Tonight, I praised my teammate's delicious food without reservation, and expressed my gratitude and love to him. My teammate was elated and peeled a candy into my mouth, which was sweeter than honey.

teammates and sons

if it's not cloudy today, I really want to see if the sun rises in the west.

My father and son have just given me two cans of "honey". Oh, my gosh, I almost got drunk ...

The first can of "honey"-my teammate

promised the children to visit Grandma tonight. In order not to delay the rest of the old lady, we want to leave early.

So, before my teammates got off work, I took on the heavy responsibility of burning kang.

Almost every day, my teammates burn kang. I burn kang only a handful of times, and some people are worried about my poor skills.

Unexpectedly, as soon as my teammate stepped into the door, he said in surprise, "Oh, why don't you smoke when you burn the fire? Why do I smell like smoke when I burn it?"

I said, "No? I don't feel anything. "

The teammate replied with a smile: "Without the smell of smoke, I can smell the smell of meat. Your skill of burning kang is good now, better than mine!"

I said happily, "Ouch! You began to praise me! "

The teammate nodded shyly and said, "Well, really, you are good at it now. You can burn the kang in the future, hahahaha ... "

I: ...

I know my teammates are just teasing me, and he won't let me get off the stove as long as there are no special circumstances.

the second jar of "honey"-son

I cooked the braised pork I learned from my mother-in-law for dinner, and the children immediately said to me after tasting it:

"Mom, the braised pork you made today is so soft! Lean meat is also soft, fragrant and delicious! "

I said to myself, "Really? That mother succeeded this time! "

The children put out their small hands and gave me a high five and said, "Well, what you did today was successful. Thanks, mom!"

I was so happy that I replied, "Oh, thank you for your praise!"

Save money for teammates' birthdays

The eleventh day of the first month is teammates' birthdays, which happens to be the first day after the holiday.

Although I had a meeting all morning and was very tired, I thought that today was my teammate's birthday, so I prepared a big table for him.

The preparation process is hard, the kitchen knife is not fast enough, and the kitchen light is broken.

Although the taste of the food is not very good, it is still a wonderful birthday for my mother-in-law and I to have a little wine, have a chat with the family and have fun with my son.

I'm sure I can prepare my teammates' birthdays with happiness and save some money for our family account.

Counting "deposits" and looking forward to the future

Since I took the course "Family Model and Couple Emotion", I have been constantly changing myself and making progress, which has affected the relationship between my teammates and us.

Our family account is really happy from "living beyond its means" to "having a balance".

During the daytime, when I am at work, I will chat with my teammates on WeChat and send expressions to each other.

On weekends or small festivals, we will chat with our mother-in-law by video or have a small family dinner for four.

On weekends, when we have time, we will take our children to play. On February 2nd, our family of four met to watch a fireworks show by the river ...

As a small family of three, we began to laugh constantly and our "savings" gradually increased.

I will continue to study hard, change myself and influence my family, so that our harmonious period will last forever.

editor/Huang Huiwen, Doudou

typesetting/? Zhou Xinrong

Picture/pixabay &; Pexcel

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