There are thousands of straight men. How do we get along with avoidant men?

We can always meet people with different personalities in our daily life and work. We should have different ways to get along, so that our communication will be more natural and friendly. Of course, getting along with the opposite sex is also complicated and requires some skills. After the last game, many girls in life will think that this boy is too straight. Straight means that their expression is too direct, which makes people feel embarrassed or speechless in the process of communication. This kind of boy is called straight by us. There is also a straight man who is caused by his own personality. How do we get along with avoidant men?

First of all, to get along with such boys, we need to know what avoidance boys are. This kind of boy is afraid to communicate with others because he is not confident in life, for fear that he can't communicate with others well. And bring some bad impressions to others, resulting in a psychological reluctance to communicate with others. This escape psychology is often because they are not confident enough, but at the same time they are kind people. Unwilling to cause unnecessary misunderstanding or harm to others. So, how do we communicate with an avoidant man? First of all, we should take the initiative, because this avoidant boy is often afraid to communicate with others because of his inner inferiority. At this time, we need to take the initiative. We should actively guide them to communicate with themselves. Of course, because their inner inferiority is sensitive, we need our own way to be gentle in the process of communication. You can subtly increase your feelings for each other, pay attention to whether his three meals a day are bad, or whether the weather is cold or warm, whether to increase or decrease clothes? Let him know that you are an easy-going person, which helps to increase the chances of communication with each other. When you get to know each other, you can guide them to communicate with you. Say something that interests both of us, and give him some confidence and courage to communicate with others, and he will communicate with you. Of course, because he is an avoidant singer, it may be difficult at first, and he may reply less to your words, but I think as long as you stick to it, the relationship between you will get better and better.