How to start a pleasant chat mode with strangers?

It is actually easiest to chat with strangers. Why do you say that?

Although you don’t know a stranger well, no matter whether they are an old man or a child, a man or a woman, an intellectual or a farmer, or whether their three views are consistent with yours, you can always find the same feelings. topics of interest.

Just pay attention to these three points when chatting with strangers:

1. When chatting with strangers, forget to be yourself for a while.

Isn’t chatting just a process of communication? The purpose of our chatting is to jump out of our own world and see the world of others.

How interesting it is to be able to understand other people’s thoughts and experience other people’s worldviews through chatting with them.

If you just express your thoughts blindly and only accept your own opinions, there is no need for such a chat, and the process may not be pleasant.

So we have to temporarily forget about being ourselves and try to see the world from someone else’s perspective. Maybe it will bring you new discoveries and surprises.

2. Using some fixed chat modes can create a good chat atmosphere.

If you really don’t know how to answer a call, then write down these chat patterns: "Hmm~," "That's it." "Really?"

Sometimes you may not be quite sure what the other person means, or you may not fully understand it, so you might as well respond with some neutral words, which will neither appear awkward nor appear that you didn't understand.

This is a chat model based on the conversation with foreigners. When we don’t understand what the foreigners say, we will say: Oh~, yes~, really? Wouldn’t this also allow the conversation to continue happily?

3. Treat chatting as a social survey or a test of chatting skills.

Sometimes the other person may have different views from yours, and there really is nothing in common between you. Then you treat it as a social survey with a neutral attitude and see how different others are from you.

Also think of it as a time to test your chat skills. To what extent can your communication skills reach? How many different opinions and ideas can your tolerance allow you to absorb? Do it as a very meaningful thing.

From the above three perspectives, chatting with strangers is actually a very easy and beneficial thing.

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