That kid named Xiaodong

I don't know what happened to these children. They are lazy and don't do their homework every day. So my compulsory course every day is to calculate homework and check the list, one by one. No, there are little things on the blacklist almost every day. Xiaodong is a very clever boy-although he is a boy, I can't help but describe him as "clever". Fine-skinned, white and clean, big eyes, always an innocent expression, not too fond of talking, not even after class. Only by playing with friends can children's nature be released, but they are still a little shy, which is different from ordinary children. I don't know how many times I talked with him, criticizing, reasoning, encouraging, praising … and taking time to let him sit next to me and write, but his attitude is: the teacher criticizes, listens and never talks back; The teacher is reasonable, listening and expressionless; The teacher praised, listened, and looked unhappy; When the teacher asked him to write, he kept his head down and wrote honestly, but he didn't see much homework.

At noon, the English teacher told me angrily that he called the small boss, and his grandfather answered the phone and told him that the child had not written his homework and was scolded by his grandfather. Grandpa means it's a big event and worth calling! Alas, no wonder children's study habits are so poor. No matter what parents ask, children's learning inertia naturally appears. Let's look at the Chinese homework again. Still the same. After a few scribbles, I handed it in, full of mistakes. After school in the afternoon, I found him and said bluntly, "I'll call your mother when I get home tomorrow." He still looked innocent and said, "My father and mother divorced, and my mother is long gone." I paused and asked, "What do you mean, mom left?" It turned out that his parents divorced when he was very young, and he never saw his mother again. What's this, mom? Life can't go on, divorce is understandable, but how can you leave your children behind? It's cruel that the child hasn't even seen his mother's face for so many years. I couldn't help but cast a loving look at Xiaodong and said euphemistically, "Well, it's ok to call dad." He said, "My father worked and didn't come back until the Spring Festival." It turned out that his father had a family and children in other places. Usually he doesn't go home, and Xiaodong has been living with his grandparents. I had to say, "Well, my grandparents are old and it's cold, so I won't invite them here for the time being." As long as you make up your homework carefully. "On this day, Xiaodong's homework has improved a little.

? The only thing that improved slightly was the homework I wrote in the office. The homework I handed in the next morning was still sloppy and unsightly. Such a student, I really don't know what to do at the moment, so I have to make a stupid move-let him continue to write in the office. He does his homework and I prepare lessons. Unconsciously, it was already dark. The road is being built outside, and the whole road surface has been dug up, with potholes, dim lights and stones and mounds everywhere. Listen to Xiaodong, go home along the road to a street, and then climb the mountain, I don't trust him to go back by himself. I'd better call my grandparents and ask them to pick them up. But grandpa called and grandma called again and again, but no one answered and no one answered the message. What shall we do? The point is that I'm new to teaching and I'm not familiar with this place. At this point, Xiaodong looked at me silently, helpless and seemingly sympathetic. Although he kept saying yes, I was not practical and decided to send him home.

Just as we walked out of the school gate, my phone suddenly rang. That's Xiaodong's grandfather. I told him that I sent Xiaodong to the street corner and asked him to pick it up at the intersection. He said yes. Along the highway, we must stop. I walked side by side with Xiaodong. I took the time to talk to him all the way. He just promised from time to time and didn't say much. At the crossroads, there was no sign of his grandfather. I asked him to shout, but he didn't want to. He said, "Stop shouting, grandpa certainly didn't come." I had to shout twice, but no one answered. After waiting for a little while, I still couldn't see grandpa, so I had to continue to send him home. According to Xiaodong's instructions, he climbed a big slope, then turned right and came to his house downstairs. It was dark, but the light was not on. Hearing some noise outside, grandma came out, scolded Xiaodong, scolded the old man and said two words of thanks. I said Xiaodong is a lovely child, but his study habits are not very good. I hope grandparents should not only care about their children's lives, but also pay attention to their studies. She readily agreed.

I will leave and come back. It's okay to go uphill in high heels, but it's not easy to go downhill. I feel like I'm rushing down. Plus it's dark, the weather is cold and the place is unfamiliar. I don't even know where the bus stop is, and I really feel bad. However, if Xiaodong can make progress, it will be worthwhile. But I understand how the habits formed over the years can be changed. Education faces people, not people, and the situation will not be so simple. What's more, Xiaodong, a child with special family circumstances, needs our love and understanding, patience, persistence and waiting. I shouldn't be so eager for quick success. How can I ask myself to pay and get a reward immediately? Take your time. I believe he will feel the teacher's love and kindness, his expectation and understanding.

On this day, during the break, I temporarily decided to let my children take off the covers of the counseling books they packed at the beginning of school, because most of them were dirty. The cover of the book was taken off, and a brand-new cover appeared in front of us. Everyone was quite happy. However, it is impossible to write the name because the cover is sallow and slippery. I said, "well, I'll put the supplementary exercise in front of me first." In the evening, I will buy some paper, send it to everyone tomorrow, and then write my name. " At this moment, Xiaodong suddenly said, "Teacher, I have." With that, he bent down and took out two from his bag. I smiled and said, "Great, classmates, Xiao Dong is willing to help everyone. If necessary, go to Xiaodong. " Suddenly, a large group of people surrounded Xiaodong, and in a blink of an eye, they immediately dispersed, all with labels and names happily written. When everyone was almost busy, I asked the children who had just got Xiaodong's help to raise their hands. There are 19 people in the class, and 16 people raise their hands. I said, "Now, please stand up for those students who just got Xiaodong's help and say thank you in time." Everyone looked at each other and no one moved. I went to Xiaodong and bent down: "Xiaodong, thank you for helping everyone." Xiaodong smiled, blushed and said "you're welcome" gently. I smiled, straightened up and said to everyone, "Well, I'm fine. You can also finish class. " I dawdled my things on purpose. Just as I walked out of the classroom, I looked back and saw many students coming towards Xiaodong, thanking Xiaodong in succession.

After work, I walked out of the school gate and suddenly heard a familiar voice in the distance, "goodbye, teacher!" " "looked up, Xiaodong is standing on the side of the road and waved to me. ...