Taking the children to a buffet, my son pushed the endless dishes to the next table, and my mother's actions were full of praise.

In many families, children are the center of the family, so family members revolve around them, because these families feel that they will always give their children the greatest love as long as they are allowed to do everything. In fact, parents should correct their wrong behavior when they do something wrong and praise them when they behave well.

Xiaoyu did well in the monthly exam, and Xiaoyu's mother wanted to reward Xiaoyu with a buffet. In the canteen, Xiaoyu was so excited that he frantically put food on the plate. When his mother asked him if he could finish eating, he said confidently, "When you finish eating, you must finish eating."

As a result, the child kept saying "I can't eat any more" after eating two thirds. The mother on the side has been asking the children not to waste after eating. Because Xiaoyu can't eat any more, she just wants to push the dishes on the table to the next table after paying the bill.

Xiaoyu's mother immediately stopped him loudly after seeing it, and then educated him: "I ask you, can you finish your meal when you take it?" You said yes, but now you can't finish it. It is wrong for you to put food in other people's places. Since I got it back, I will be responsible. "

After listening to her mother's words, Xiaoyu took the food back. Many people at the scene praised her behavior. In fact, many mothers may choose to "help" their children push the dishes to the next table, but if they do, they are actually hurting their children.

1, which will make children not know whether things are right or wrong.

Children will always distinguish right from wrong when they grow up, but only if parents can teach them what is right and wrong when they do something wrong or correct their mistakes in time so that they can understand the right and wrong things. If parents don't teach them to distinguish right from wrong, they will often make mistakes because they don't know what they are doing is wrong.

2, it will make children unreasonable.

When parents often indulge their children's wrong behavior, children often use wrong ideas to guide their own behavior. When parents want to educate their children, they will find many excuses to prevent their children's behavior from being correct, which will make them more and more unreasonable.

3. It will make children rebel.

When children are young, if parents always take a laissez-faire attitude towards their children's education, children will become more and more casual. When the child is a little older, parents realize that if they want to educate their children, they will become rebellious and will not listen to their parents.

1, take what they did wrong as an example and set rules for children.

As the saying goes, "Fiona Fang can't be made without rules". If parents don't make certain rules to restrain them when they grow up, they are likely to do whatever they want. When their children grow up, they are likely to be called uneducated by others.

In addition, when a child makes a mistake, what parents should do is to correct the child's wrong behavior, and take what they did wrong as an example to set some rules for the child to prevent the child from making the same mistake again.

2. Observe children's behaviors and correct children's behaviors and concepts in time.

Therefore, if parents want their children to be excellent when they grow up, they should pay more attention to their daily behavior and observe whether it is reasonable for them to do something. When they do something unreasonable and immoral, parents should correct their children's behavior in time and educate them with correct concepts.

Children will inevitably make mistakes in the process of growing up, but parents should learn to guide them in the right way, neither conniving nor abusing them casually. As long as they do this, they will form a correct concept and will not alienate their parents.

I am the nurse of Nemo's mother and the mother of a 4-year-old baby. In the process of raising and educating children, you can ask me any questions. I hope my advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your baby and let our children grow up better!