Workplace survival skills: what should I do if I meet a colleague who likes to dress up?

In the workplace, some colleagues are smart and capable, with excellent professional ability and high level. Some colleagues are weak outside and hollow inside. They like fields that they don't know, but they like to ask a few business questions that they are not proficient in, but they are always arrogant. What should you do in the workplace in the face of such colleagues?

A listed company, office 222 of a department in D District, newly recruited a proud employee, Xiao Yao and Xiao Y, who were hired by the manager from a leading company in the industry as supervisors to take charge of the core business of the department.

When he first entered the department, Xiao Yao always talked about business with the words "We A did this", and his tone was full of pride from A.

D every year, employees are required to declare their educational level on their own initiative and check it regularly. When the administrative staff in office 222 asked Xiao Y about his diploma, Xiao Yao shouted "undergraduate, undergraduate" with a hint of pride in his tone. Another manager in office 222 learned through acquaintances that Xiao Y graduated from technical secondary school and worked in Z company for eight years after graduation. Recently, A bought Z Company, which gave her the opportunity to become a member of the leading company in the industry.

As for the undergraduate diploma, with the lowering of the threshold for self-study examination in recent years, many colleges and universities are responsible for outsourcing certification as long as they pay the money, and Xiao Yao also obtained the undergraduate degree. Society is diluting the difference between full-time and part-time jobs. Getting a degree through study is an enterprising performance, but there are many masters in the world's top 50 universities sitting in Office 222 who fill in the degree column in a very low-key way.

Psychoanalysis: Freud once suggested that the more ostentatious, the more lacking.

Phillips is a foreign language expert in the office. It seems that no language in any country can beat her. Ping can pop up words in Korean, Japanese and English at any time when talking with colleagues. She told her colleagues the embarrassing story that China people can't speak a foreign language on the plane, and put forward the view that "people who can't speak a foreign language live well at home, so why it seems meaningless to go out and spend money".

Once the company organized a trip to Vietnam, and the actual snacks provided by the hotel were much less than the list. In order to avoid arbitrary charges, fellow traveler Xiao Hu thought of Phillips, a foreign language expert, and wanted Phillips to go to the hotel on behalf of everyone. Phillips said that if you are sleepy, you should rest first, so you should communicate with the front desk by telephone. After seeing Xiao Hu's communication, Phillips began to play with his mobile phone. Let Xiao Hu make sure that Phillips can't speak English at all. It's time to go out to play in the afternoon. They want to buy fruit, and when they hear the quotation, it is more than twice that of Shanghai (the price in Vietnam itself is much lower than that in China). They looked at each other, and Phillips replied in English, "No, no, it's cheap". Now it's Xiao Hu's turn. Isn't expensive word expensive? This is an English introduction.

Phillips' real English level can be seen in a simple sentence.

Honesty is the best test of whether you can speak English. If you don't believe me, watch Travel Mode. A project of visiting abroad found that many people can't speak English.

Shen Teng's ordering party (see Shen Teng's sincere "backache" in speaking English)

At the hotel, the waiter first gave the French and English menus without pictures. Shen Teng can't order at all, and he honestly admits that he just can't speak English.

It's terrible.

Zhang Xinyi saw something new at the seaside, which means I'm afraid. What she actually said was "no, no, I'm afraid". Bian Xiao is forced to prove that she can speak English in a simple way.

Someone here can speak English.

Scared means scared. The correct expression to express fear is "I'm scared" or "I'm scared to death". There is an English song called "I scare myself". Why can you express it like this? I'm sorry, I don't know. You can look up the grammar if you are curious.

When paying for horseback riding, we can see that Zhang Xinyi actually knows some English, probably because of China's common problem in learning English. He may listen, but he just can't think of what he really wants to say.

You must be careful when you ask these pretentious colleagues. They are likely to act as megaphones to publicize your disapproval. Due to the flow of personnel, Xiao Hu added some statistics, and the leader asked Xiao Hu if Phillips didn't understand. Once Xiao Hu asked Phillips whether the drainage system was included in the service or the asset type. Phillips said loudly like a treasure, "Oh, you can't do this. This is a project under construction." By the way, Xiao Ting sitting next to him said, "Xiao Hu doesn't even know that the project under construction belongs to assets."

Colleagues who love to "pretend" are generally divided into two categories. One is because of their personality. Such people often like to stick gold on their faces in order to gain the appreciation and admiration of others and satisfy their vanity. Another kind of people want to establish their professional and competent image in order to achieve their goals in the workplace.

Sincere and kind reminders or help may prompt the other party to correct and ease the relationship. If the other person is unwilling to accept it, then continue to let him "pretend". "No matter what kind of person, paper can't wrap the fire, as long as it is lying and bragging, it will always give away the clues. In fact, it's good to meet a lover's costume and watch him perform in the workplace, but it's really not good to communicate with you in a friendly way. People who don't have real talent and learning can't succeed forever.

This method is limited to those who like to show their abilities by exposing their weaknesses in front of your boss. After all, we should be friendly even if we don't know whether others hate us or not, and we should follow the principle that if people don't attack me, I won't attack, and if people attack me, I will die.

If this pretentious colleague often exposes your shortcomings in front of the boss, it is not advisable to tear them in person. Be patient. I don't believe how long you can stand it. People who like to pretend to be forced will find that they like to say things they don't understand, which is exactly the gap of counterattack.

Tell something he doesn't understand, it must be that he doesn't understand, it must be wrong, it must be that he must agree, and then it will be reversed immediately. Oh, I remember this thing wrong, so it is like this. Let's see how he behaves when he pretends to understand.