"You deserve to be bullied for letting you go to the bar."

Some time ago, the media in Taiwan Province Province broke the news that a male singer was drinking with friends in a nightclub and dragged a woman to the nightclub stairs to commit sexual assault in a drunken state.

This incident caused an uproar, and "corpse picking" once again appeared in the public eye.

The so-called "corpse picking" means waiting in front of bars and other entertainment places to take those drunken girls away to have sex.

"Picking up corpses" is also divided into whole corpses and half corpses. Almost unconscious when drunk, that is, a whole body. They're not interested. A half-corpse with seven minutes' drunkenness is just right.

There are not a few such people, and there are also special "corpse picking" posts on the Internet, which are for advice and sharing experiences.

A netizen shared his undercover experience, which is a QQ group with the theme of "picking up corpses", with more than 200 members, sharing and exchanging relevant information every day.

They will not only exchange the experience of "picking up corpses", but also team up and act together.

Most of the girls who were "picked up" were taken away alone, drunk and unconscious. Some girls wake up to find themselves lying in strange hotel beds, and more of them are left in the street like garbage, half naked and messy.

There is a picture of Dada Distribution Bar circulating on the Internet, which witnessed the process of picking up the body near KTV.

There was a sexual assault in Thailand this year. A drunken woman was "picked up" by four men at the entrance of a nightclub and was gang-raped to death. The woman's body was found the next day.

Last year, "Nanning girl was found drunk and died" went viral in the circle of friends. A girl was molested and photographed after she was found dead.

These scum not only sexually assaulted girls, but also filmed them and uploaded them online. They don't even think about what these girls will face in the future.

02

Seeing this, many people's first reaction is that these girls don't love themselves and get drunk in bars, which is too disorderly.

In fact, many girls may just drink a glass of juice. Of course, drinking fruit juice or a small amount will not lead to drunkenness, but there is another trick in the world called drugging.

There are even special exhumation products for sale online. Although you can't search directly, there are still products called wet wine and broken wine for sale.

How violent this wine is, just look at the comments of netizens. How about replacing ordinary wine with this cocktail party? It's scary to think about it.

Then someone jumped out and said, it's time to stop going to the bar Who told you not to pay attention to safety? You deserve to be bullied.

The bar is mixed, and KTV is better. A netizen in Weibo shared his experience in shock.

As a netizen commented:

The girl didn't drink, didn't stay up late, didn't show her clothes at eight o'clock in the evening, didn't act alone, and was still targeted by the corpse gang. Please tell me how to pay attention to safety.

As long as there are bad people in this world, prevention cannot be foolproof.

After all, I am not afraid of thieves stealing, but I am afraid that thieves will miss me. Only be a thief for a thousand days, not a thief for a thousand days.

03

Some people say that girls deserve to be "picked" because flies don't bite seamless eggs. They won't be bullied if they don't go out to play. It's wrong to go to nightclubs to drink.

Similarly, the victim was raped and sexually harassed in the workplace, saying that the victim was exposed.

Some people always have reason to condemn the victims and stab them in the heart.

When the accident happened, some people scolded the victim, but few people scolded the perpetrator. This is the victim's guilt theory.

Being hurt is not the victim's fault. They should not be condemned by public opinion while suffering physical injuries.

It is the perpetrators who should be condemned and attacked. If the evil they do is not punished, the evil will only spread on a wider scale.

If you don't condemn and punish the bad guys, you are conniving at evil.

Girls go to bars and dare to do it; Go to KTV and dare to do it. Anyway, the public opinion is towards them, so the next step can be to directly commit violence on the road.

So what should we do? Women shouldn't go out? Don't go out, express burglary is not new, is it?

Beauvoir said: Only when we get the same situation as them, will we be liberated.

Leaving home is the first step to achieve liberation and independence.

Our ancestors didn't struggle all the way to keep women at home and bind their feet.

Of course, we should warn girls to pay attention to safety, but this does not mean that they should be condemned by public opinion because of the so-called "insufficient attention to safety".

04

There is a story circulating on the Internet about the Queen of England recruiting coachmen.

The three candidates were brought before the Queen, who made the final choice.

The queen asked them a question:

If my carriage is going to pass the cliff, how can you ensure my safety?

The first man said, Your Majesty, the carriage I am driving is only an inch away from the cliff, so nothing will happen.

The second man said, Your Majesty, I am a better driver. The carriage is three inches away from the cliff and won't tip over.

The third said, your majesty, I won't take the cliff. In order to ensure your safety, I will make a detour to the main road.

I believe you can guess which coachman got the job.

The clever queen knows that the best way to ensure safety is not to rely on "customs clearance skills in times of danger", but to avoid putting herself in danger.

The Bible says "Don't leave room for the devil", that is, don't put yourself in danger.

There are really many bad guys in this world, and they should be punished, but don't test human nature with yourself.

A little more care can make you less dangerous.

At the same time, we also appeal to our society, even if we don't sympathize with the victims, please don't attack them personally.

It is always the bad guys who are wrong, not the victims.