How high is the cheating rate of military wives (American military wives cheat)

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After five years of overseas deployment, a soldier named Brian came home from the army with honor, only to find a strange car parked in front of his house.

He felt something was wrong. When he entered the room, he found his 3-year-old daughter playing downstairs alone.

At this time, he had a bad feeling in his heart and rushed to the bedroom at once. As a result, he saw the scene of spicy eyes. His wife is sitting naked on the toilet, and a man is leaning over and kissing her!

I can't make up my mind. What was my brother's expression at that time?

This is 15' s rape of an old soldier's brother, which was popular for some time. There are many similar incidents.

The divorce rate in the United States is well known, but the divorce rate of American soldiers is higher! 43% higher than civilians.

What is this concept? Do all marriages of soldiers end in failure?

It seems so.

1. Which soldiers have you experienced/heard of cheating?

It seems that cheating really happens frequently in the US military. Let's listen to the statements of soldiers and their families:

1. Military groups

Veteran Kenyon072:

When I was in Kuwait, my wife slept with my best friend. When I came back, I was faced with a pregnant daughter-in-law. I found that the child I loved for so long was not mine. It feels like someone punched me hard in the stomach. I have been single ever since.

Servicemen drunk _ bastard:

One of my comrades accidentally knocked up a girl while deploying overseas, and then the fool gave all his money to the girl to manage.

This woman led him by the nose for nine months, and then ran away with another man with his money. Now this comrade-in-arms has gone home with nothing, and there is a child thousands of miles away. This is not the worst I have ever heard.

Active serviceman cchiu23:

Some people live in denial. One of my soldiers came home to find that his wife had been pregnant for 8 months, and we had been sent abroad 1 year. But he chose to escape and let himself believe that the child is his own.

I have never been involved in other people's family affairs before, but this time I must have a good talk with that child, otherwise he will live in the shadow for the rest of his life, and I don't know what will happen.

Old dtbn:

After my overseas assignment, my daughter-in-law was about 1 week pregnant and gave birth to a healthy baby nine months later. Fast forward to the child's high school graduation. My daughter-in-law got his diploma and said, "Your father will be proud of you. 」

I was surprised at the time. I'm clearly here. Why did she say that? Later, my mother forced me to have a paternity test, but I didn't expect the baby to be mine. After I got my grades, I moved to another city alone.

2. Military spouse team

Anonymous military wife:

I am a military wife. I betrayed him many times when he was transferred to other places. I felt so lonely when he was abroad that I threw myself into the arms of others. My husband is an air force captain. I'm sure he cheated many times when he was abroad, just like other men in their team.

Military wife Tracy:

I have seen too much since I arrived at my husband's base. Some soldiers have been fooling around with female soldiers. It is said that many wives or husbands who stay at home have cheated. But there are also people who are loyal to their husbands or wives and don't go anywhere, just stay at home and wait for the other party to call back.

Now my husband is sent to Korea. I don't know what he is doing there, but I will take good care of our daughter at home.

Military spouse and female soldier Silvana:

I'm a woman, a military wife and a veteran! I just want to tell you that this is right! There are too many affairs in the army, really more than you think.

I am a 100% loyal daughter-in-law, but this does not mean that our marriage is also 100% loyal. My opinion is that the other half of the soldiers will be crazy, and the soldiers in the barracks will be crazy.

Because it has been in a state of separation, many people use this as an excuse to mess around. Although there are regulations in the military camp that married people will be punished for cheating, basically all leaders will turn a blind eye.

Long-term separation is a test for anyone's marriage, but what is even more frightening is that in the military camp, everyone regards cheating as normal.

3. The Second Generation Army Team

Second generation anonymous army:

I grew up in a military camp, and my mother, including all the military wives she knew, finally couldn't resist the temptation to cheat. I still remember that they would sit together and talk about the different men they met.

At that time, I was still young, and I didn't know anything until I was 19. My father found out that my mother was dating another man.

I suddenly woke up and realized what the conversations I heard when I was a child meant. Later, I went to ask my mother if she had been cheating all these years. She admitted that she was lonely.

Second, why cheat?

Although cheating is reviled by everyone, because of the special occupation of soldiers, military wives have also become a special group. The loneliness of soldiers can be amplified in film and television dramas. Who can understand the loneliness of military wives?

The current military wife confided in her heart why she cheated on her husband when he was sent abroad.

Like everyone else, we got married very early. No grand wedding, no gorgeous decoration, no champagne in the hotel.

Only a cheap wedding dress and the witness of more than 30 relatives and friends are nothing like what I imagined when I was a child.

But it's nothing. After marriage, he was sent away. Since then, I have become the pillar of my family, and the content of people chatting with me is limited to how brave my husband is and how to contribute to the country.

I feel that my personality is gradually disappearing in this marriage. He married me, but he slowly turned me into his wife, just his wife, which completely lost me.

I swear I really tried my best to maintain our relationship. I wrote him an e-mail, a long one, telling him the interesting things in my life, trying to connect us, and only reporting good news without reporting bad news.

But it's totally useless. He didn't notice me. Although I am married, I have never felt so lonely.

Later, I met that man. He saw the real me, not the daughter-in-law of some hero. He made me feel alive again and found myself again.

I believe that one day I will divorce my husband for him, and then we will move to a small town where no one knows us and be an ordinary couple.

You can call me shameless and scold me in any language, but please remember: if you have not experienced that kind of loneliness and loss, you will not understand my feelings.

3. What's the difference between American soldiers' divorce?

There is no relevant law on military marriage in the United States. According to the military information on the military information network. Com, if a military family wants a divorce, they will go through normal procedures like ordinary couples.

Unless the divorced person is far away from overseas and can't be contacted temporarily, the process needs to be extended.

On the contrary, in the army, if you are married and still fooling around in the army, you will be punished, but as the military wife said above: leaders usually turn a blind eye.

It seems that although being a soldier in the United States has various advantages, it still has disadvantages in the face of marriage.

It's really embarrassing to read these true stories. It turns out that the US military has become a commonplace, and the words in the soldiers' pants can't be controlled, and the soldiers' families can't stand loneliness. I wonder how many people regret marrying an American soldier.

However, as the saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework. Soldiers leave for a few years and can only come back a few times briefly, ready to be called away at any time. Their difficulties are only known to themselves.

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