His ex-girlfriend quit singing for him, and his ex-wife almost jumped into the sea. Is Sun Nan a real love rat or a fake romance?

In 2000, Sun Nan, who struggled for nearly 10 years, finally won the award of "The Most Popular Male Singer in the Mainland" in "The Faithful Wife".

He couldn't help calling his ex-girlfriend. "xinxin, I won the biggest prize on channel [v]. I didn't mean anything by it. I just want to tell you the news first ... "

At that time, Sun Nan choked on the other end of the phone and cried like a fragile child.

Yan Yan's tears also flowed down her cheeks, dripping very, very big.

Later, in public, Sun Nan sincerely thanked three women: "Teacher Gu Jianfen, beloved wife Hongmei Mai, and beneficial friend Na Ying."

There is no name of Xin Xin who accompanied him for nearly 10 years when he was down and out.

1990, Xinxin and Sun Nan performed in the same karaoke bar.

Two teenagers struggling for their musical dreams are warm and close to each other.

Two years later, in the early spring, the grass grows and the warbler flies, and everything recovers, but it faces differences.

Xinxin's father spent a lot of money to send her to Japan to study vocal music.

Although it is far away from the ocean, it can't stop two fiery hearts.

At that time, Sun Nan made a long-distance call to Xinxin every day, and his monthly salary was only 1000 yuan, almost all of which was spent on the phone.

Two months later, Sun Nan and some friends were having dinner at Tianjin Baishiqiao Hotel when Xinxin suddenly appeared behind him. He turned to have a look, turned around, suddenly turned around and found that the person in front of him was Xinxin and missed him so much.

He threw down his chopsticks, ignored the surprised eyes of others, and even held Xinxin all the way home.

It turns out that Xinxin gave up the opportunity to study in Japan for Sun Nan.

When Sun Nan ran towards her desperately, Xinxin felt, "For him, everything is worth giving up."

The little couple are together again.

During his performance in Hongkong, Sun Nan was discovered by Li Xiaolin and became a colleague of Andy Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai.

Sun Nan, a bit male chauvinist, often said to Xinxin, "We are a family. What is mine is yours. Stop singing. "

Xin Xin, who is madly in love, gradually gives up her dream of singing and becomes the woman behind Sun Nan, dedicating music and life affairs to him.

Despite Li Xiaolin's support, Andy Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai were even invited to cover Sun Nan's songs, but Sun Nan's popularity is still tepid.

1996, Art Music was acquired by BMG, and Sun Nan and Xinxin also became members of the North drift army. They bought a small villa in Wang Fu Garden by mortgage.

Life is not rich, but the days of working together are full of fighting spirit and hope.

1998, they finally ushered in a turning point. At a KTV party, Xiaogang Feng was moved by Sun Nan's singing: "I have a movie theme song, you can sing it."

Sun Nan and Yan Yan are secretly excited, thinking that this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

After the choral work was completed, they borrowed 65,438+00,000 yuan from their friends to make music videos in the studio day and night.

1999 On the New Year's Eve, the New Year's film "Be there or be square" was a box office hit. The theme song of the same name made countless people cry, and the singer Sun Nan became popular overnight.

Their dream for many years has finally come true, but Xinxin is not the woman who can enjoy the glory with him.

The two soon had an emotional crisis and broke up at the end of the year.

Sun Nan left her house and car to Yan Yan, but Yan Yan couldn't get out of the shadows for a while, so she had to start from scratch and go back to the "Boys and Girls" bar to sing.

Things didn't get better until a lovelorn love song "Put 120 Hearts" made countless people feel sad.

She sang sadly in the song:

You asked me to give 120 my heart before giving myself to you. What's the point of waiting for you when there is only one person's back in the world of two people? You told me to relax 120, and I followed you impulsively. When the happy world gets dark, I can't go out and you don't come near.

This song is full of frustration. Apart from songs, Sun Nan and Xinxin, who have been fettered for ten years, have finally become strangers.

In an interview with Xinxin, the host played a video live. Sun Nan said, "If I am famous, will my girlfriend from kindergarten come to me?"

Holding a stick in his speech implies that his ex-girlfriend is speculating.

Xinxin shed tears on the spot. "In this case, it completely stung me."

From then on, she deliberately avoided Sun Nan and never mentioned the past again.

These two people have crossed paths again. It has been four years since they broke up. In the past, Love Nest caused an uproar because it owed tens of thousands of property fees.

Sun Nan said, "The house has long been given to Xinxin. I always wanted her to live well, but Xinxin was stubborn and refused to accept my help. "

Xinxin didn't respond. She turned and married a Hong Kong businessman, and retired from the music scene.

In Sun Nan's life, another woman has appeared.

Shortly after breaking up with Xinxin, he married Hongmei Mai.

The beginning of love is legendary.

The two met in a program and starred in a sketch together.

Love at first sight, Sun Nan can't hide love.

It is said that less than 24 hours after they met, Sun Nan proposed to Hongmei Mai:

"buy buy buys it and marries me!"

At that time, Hongmei Mai was outstanding in appearance, and he was also a cross talk actor.

1995, she and Guo performed the sketch "Talk to me if you have something" in the Spring Festival Evening, which became an instant hit.

In that sketch, many people are surrounded by the innocent and lovely Hongmei Mai, and Sun Nan is one of them.

At that time, Sun Nan had just emerged, and its position in the Jianghu was far inferior to that of Hongmei Mai.

But in Hongmei Mai's eyes, "Love is love. He can have no money, but he must be talented. "

She appreciates Sun Nan's talent and is more willing to help him climb higher mountains.

Sun Nan said to Hongmei Mai: "buy buy buys it, you give me two years to make money and marry you."

Hongmei Mai said, "No, I have money!"

In 2000, the two married in a flash. Halfway through the wedding, Sun Nan went to CCTV to "save the scene", leaving Hongmei Mai alone in charge of the overall situation.

Afterwards, Sun Nan, who was sorry, said that she wanted to reissue the wedding, but Hongmei Mai said, "I don't want it, I want him to regret it for the rest of his life."

Words are full of affection.

Shortly after her marriage, Hongmei Mai, who had made a name for herself in the sketch world, gave up her celebrity career and went home to teach her husband and children.

Hongmei Mai kept the family in good order, and Sun Nan didn't live up to her efforts, and her career went smoothly. To outsiders, they are made for each other.

But contradictions loom.

Sun Nan is obsessed with golf and often goes out to play against the rising sun. In the evening, he had friends gathering and socializing, so he was too busy to go home.

For this matter, two people had many contradictions. Sun Nan's front foot promised, and the back foot of the phone came. He looked at Hongmei Mai piteously: "Look, everyone is waiting?"

Referring to this scene, Hongmei Mai said, "Very cute."

Although Sun Nan never admits his mistake and always keeps his head down, Hongmei Mai thinks this is another flavor.

"He knows who is wrong in this matter, but why does he want his wife to apologize? This is coquetry. "

Speaking of Sun Nan, there is an indelible sweetness in Hongmei Mai's eyes. In her eyes, all the singers' behaviors are as lovely as children.

In 2007, Hongmei Mai gave birth to a son for Sun Nan. Since then, both children have been married, and the word "good" has been put together.

She feels that life is extremely smooth, and never thought that her marriage, which she devoted her life to, would soon be in crisis.

The right and wrong in their married life have never been told to outsiders, but many years later, Sun Nan said in an interview: "I was too young at that time to ignore the communication between them."

In March 2009, Sun Nan and Hongmei Mai agreed to divorce.

A few months later, he and another woman held a low-key wedding.

This person is the host of the golf program on the travel channel. Pan Wei, who has been divorced twice, said that a woman's sixth sense is wonderful, and Sun Nan and Pan Wei became attached to each other because of golf.

Sun Nan chose to lead a totally clean life. He left a pair of children, five properties and 30 million cash.

This plot seems to be a movie replay of the last love affair.

Falling in love with each other vigorously, women give up their careers like moths to a flame.

The man gave up his money, broke up, broke up after ten years of love, and quickly married another woman a few months later, which made people sigh infinitely.

At that time, some media reported that Sun Nan had moved into an apartment in Pan Wei alone.

On the other side of Hongmei Mai, it took four years to get out of the shadows completely.

"For four years, I haven't seen a friend, I haven't received a phone call, and when I see a friend like * * *, I will definitely nag about it, and I will definitely say the other person's fault. I don't want to say a word about him. "

She buried herself in her work and immersed herself in the shooting scene. The happiest word she heard was "start" and the most fearful word was "stop".

The actors in the same crew said that after she got off the stage, she was bored in the room and didn't associate with others.

Four years later, in a talk show, I talked about this tragic marriage.

Hongmei Mai said, "Why do you feel sorry for me? I hate it when people feel sorry for me. Children need your smile, not your cry. I don't want to be Xianglinsao. "

The host asked, "Really, are there times when you can't help crying?"

Hongmei Mai said: "Once, in Sanya, I held it for too long, and then I wanted to cry."

At eleven o'clock in the middle of the night, she walked out of the hotel gate and walked to the vast beach. She grew darker and darker. Looking back, there was no one around, and she began to cry at the sea.

She jumped into the sea for fear of excitement. She drew a horizontal line and wrote down the names of her daughter and son.

This experience was crowned by the media as "Hongmei Mai attempted suicide by jumping into the sea because of divorce". Four years later, the spectators are still dissatisfied and accuse Sun Nan in succession.

Sun Nan directly sent Weibo a response, "Tears and lies are the best hallucinogens. She can break glass and reverse black and white, which is addictive! So some people try again and again. "

Between the lines, he accused his ex-wife of lying, hype and sympathy.

Looking back on every relationship of Sun Nan, the "first brother" in the music world, he is desperate when he loves, and he is affectionate and can be an enemy of the whole world; After breaking up, tit for tat, pointing to each other's conspiracy, infinite embarrassment.

Now, more than ten years have passed, and times have changed.

The protagonists in the story all quit, stayed away from right and wrong, and finally reconciled with the pain of the past.

Yan Yan got married and had children, and she let go of the past; Hongmei Mai never returned to the top of her career, but she finally made friends with her ex-husband for the sake of children's education.

Sun Nan, who once dominated the music scene, gradually faded out of public view after several word-of-mouth failures.

This well-deserved superstar in the mainland music scene. For ex-girlfriends and ex-wives, they used to be "giant babies" who didn't grow up.

After breaking up, Xinxin once said: "He is very good, but sometimes he has a child's personality. Now that others are also red, it is not surprising that there has been any change in fame. "

When falling in love, Hongmei Mai said, "Sun Nan is actually a big boy. He is particularly innocent, just like falling in love. "

Sun Nan himself said that I was born with a child's personality, so when I become a father, even if I have two or three children in the future, I will be the same as before.

Children are synonymous with innocence, purity and romance, but on the other hand, they also mean being self-centered, ignoring the needs of others and avoiding responsibilities on their shoulders.

Now, Sun Nan is over 500 years old, and his predecessors can't overcome the "ten-year itch" and finally spent it with Pan Wei.

He said, "Pan Wei is my harbor".

He plays the piano, drinks tea and practices calligraphy, and his life is getting worse and worse.

The ancients said, "I know my destiny at fifty", hoping that he would eventually grow up after all kinds of grievances and entanglements.

Learn to cherish a love with your heart, run a home with your heart, and never live up to your love or owe your lover.