How to avoid embarrassment when parents meet for the first time?

Parents of both parties

How to avoid embarrassment when meeting for the first time? When will parents meet for the first time? After they decide to get married, they can arrange for their parents to meet, because the main purpose of this meeting is to discuss marriage.

Who should propose the first meeting? Generally speaking, it should be proposed by the man. Of course, it is only after the two decide to meet privately that the man's parents can formally propose to meet.

Where should the meeting be held?

1. If two people are in the same city, you can book in an old restaurant recognized by the local elders.

2. If two people are in a different place: usually, the parents of the man come to visit the parents of the woman in the city where she lives, and they can stay in a hotel that is more famous or has a good reputation there.

Common problems when parents meet.

What should I call you when I see you?

1. Parents usually don't change their words when they meet for the first time.

2. Younger students can call each other's parents: uncles and aunts.

3. Parents can call each other: XX father, XX mother, brother, brother and sister. According to local customs, if the two families are familiar with each other, they can also be directly called in-laws.

Do parents give red envelopes at their first meeting? Do parents give red envelopes at their first meeting?

If this is the first time for a child to meet the other parents, or if he has not given a red envelope before, then parents can prepare a red envelope for the child. If they gave it before, they don't have to give it this time.

Frequently asked questions when parents meet ● Do you want to give gifts?

It is basic etiquette for children to prepare gifts for their parents.

● What did parents talk about when they first met? ① Talk about family and get to know each other; ② Talking about bride price, dowry and related customs; ③ Talk about wedding preparations.

4 Talking about the RV and the young couple's future life ● Who will pay the bill?

1. If it is the same city, it is usually the knot of the man. 2. If the man's parents come to the woman's side, it is usually the woman's marriage.

Of course, in order to avoid conflicts, young couples had better settle accounts first and don't let their parents settle accounts.

How is it not awkward for parents to meet? Young couples should make full preparations before meeting.

1. Tell your parents about each other's parents:

For example, professional nationality, temperament, hobbies and taboos. , to prevent chatting from stepping on thunder, and to find topics for parents.

2. Praise each other and parents in front of their parents;

Let parents have a good impression on each other's families and chat more harmoniously.

3. Visit and greet each other's parents;

Let the other parents recognize you and like you, so that they will be friendly to your parents when they meet, and no matter what they talk about, it will be smoother.

How is it not awkward for parents to meet? Parents can talk about topics (you can show them to parents in advance)

1. weather, you can talk about local attractions, characteristics and food in different places.

2. Recent health, health tips, life tips, etc.

3. Their respective occupations, working conditions and past work experience.

4. Hobbies, planting flowers and raising fish, cooking food, traveling and sharing.

5. Anecdotes about children's childhood, praise each other's children.

How to talk about bride price without embarrassment

Young couples must discuss it in advance and reach an agreement.

1. If you want to be embarrassed, don't really let your parents talk at the dinner table.

Best of all, young couples will communicate with each other about their parents and their thoughts before meeting, and then arrange to meet after the two families agree.

Just confirm the agreed things when we meet.

Remind parents not to say these words.

1. Temporary change of mind, temporary change of mouth: it will be very insincere. X We don't think 65438+ million bride price is enough, at least120,000! 2. Tough attitude, non-negotiable: this is the rhythm of talking about collapse. X my family wants 60 thousand bride price. If there is, it's up to you. 3. Give the horse away and threaten: There are many people who will definitely annoy each other. If you disagree, there are others.

How to talk about bride price without embarrassment

Don't go into details.

The more detailed the discussion, the easier it is to argue, so when parents meet, they only talk about the general direction and can discuss the details of the wedding in private.

What parents can talk about (and what you should communicate in advance):

1. How much is the bride price and dowry, and the marriage customs of the two places.

2. Do you need to get engaged? What is the general process?

3. Wedding date, where to hold the wedding, and how many times.

4. The approximate budget of the wedding, the amount of blood you want to do, and how to pay.

5. Who will buy a car, how to pay, and how to write the name?

6. Where to buy a house and where to live in the future

List of gifts for both parents

Precious fruits: cherry and kiwi.

Wine: Maotai, Wuliangye, Dream Blue, National pits and red wine.

Cigarettes: China, Su Yan, Yuxi, Yellow Crane Tower (from boys)

Health food: American ginseng, bird's nest, calcium tablets, white powder, dietary fiber, ejiao jujube, fish oil,

Mannan honey

Health products: foot bath, massager, latex pillow, health bracelet, sphygmomanometer, health pot, electric toothbrush.

Food gift boxes: breakfast gift boxes such as nuts, cakes, milk powder, bacon, miscellaneous grains and lotus root starch cereal.

List of gifts for both parents

Daily necessities: sweeping robot, window cleaning robot, high-speed blender, soymilk machine, electric shaver, dishwasher, small ones.

Clothing and home textiles: silk scarves, warm clothes, cashmere scarves, down jackets.

Tea: Pu 'er, Tieguanyin, Longjing and Jinjunmei.

Jewelry: jade bracelet, pearl necklace, pearl earrings.

Beauty and skin care: skin care suit, perfume, hand cream.