What is the art of smiling?

Humans have a very touching expression, that is, smile. Smile is a passport to interpersonal communication. Smiling conveys this message to colleagues: I envy you very much; I trust you very much; I want to be your friend; We will cooperate happily.

A smile is a sign of confidence, courtesy and frankness. A sincere smile reflects a person's simplicity, frankness, tolerance and trust, can reflect a person's high self-cultivation and sincere treatment, is very easy to be accepted, and will win you word of mouth, goodwill and potential opportunities. Hold out your finger and calculate. This is really an excellent "investment project" with no risk and return. Think about it. If you really think it's a good deal, learn to smile from now on, remember it and use it well all the time.

Smiling is a natural expression that can make others feel happy. A company in our country once wrote in an advertisement: it costs nothing, but it produces a lot; It benefits the giver, but does not harm the giver; It happened in an instant, but it was unforgettable; No rich people don't need it, and no poor people don't; It brings happiness to family, prosperity to career and happiness to friends. It allows the tired to rest, the disappointed to see the light and the sad to see the hope. It is a natural medicine to relieve pain. It can't be bought, begged, borrowed or stolen, because it's worthless until people own it.

It can be seen that smile plays an important role in interpersonal relationship, and it is polite to smile at others at the right time. Mr. Hilton, the founder of the world-famous American Hilton Hotel, was very upset when his career was not completed. His mother once said to him, "son, if you want to succeed, you must find a way that meets the following conditions: first, simplicity;" Second, it is easy to do; Third, don't spend money; Fourth, it can be used for a long time. " What the hell is this method? Mother just smiled and didn't answer. Hilton observed and thought repeatedly, and finally realized that it was a smile. Only a smile can fully satisfy these four conditions. "People don't laugh or open stores." Later, he really opened the door to success with a smiling golden key and created a world-famous hotel. Here, a smile is a visualized philosophy, a secret wisdom, and a ray of sunshine that illuminates a confused mind.

A company recruited employees from the society, and many young people applied, many of whom were highly educated, but they were unexpectedly defeated by a girl. The girl is plain, with a simple experience and only a secondary school diploma. She is a rather ordinary person. Someone was not convinced and asked the personnel manager in charge of the interview. The manager said calmly that a girl can always show a friendly smile, so I am willing to hire her even if her education level is lower. But a master student or doctoral student always keeps a straight face. Even if he comes to work for me for free, I don't want it.

China people believe in harmony. Amiable expressions and words will bring good luck to people. Whether a person is happy or not does not depend on what you have, who you are, where you are and what you are doing. As long as you smile often and treat others well, you can gain the trust and love of others.

Hugo once said: "Smile is sunshine, which can eliminate the winter color on people's faces." "All prejudices, estrangements, resentments and suspicions are expected to vanish in a smile."

A friend of mine was always sad a few years ago. Asked why, she said the family was not harmonious. After marriage, she has no house and lives with her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with, and she has not been spared. After more than ten years of rough life, she and her husband finally bought a house and moved out. She thought the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would improve, but she was as nervous as before. She was advised to consult a marriage expert, but she hesitated and went anyway. When I met her again recently, she smiled and told me that she got along well with her mother-in-law. Let her talk about her feelings. She said that she had learned to smile. Yeah, tight face. Who wants to see it? Smiling itself is tolerance.

Our daily life is trivial and busy, and we have to bear great pressure and deal with all kinds of people every day. When I walked into the office in the morning, my colleague greeted me with a smile: Hello. We will work easily and happily all day. When I got home at night, my lover greeted me with a smile: I'm back! No matter how cold it is at night, we will feel warm as spring. When neighbors meet and smile, they can enhance their feelings and draw closer, so they can get along well with their neighbors. Lonely journey, walking with strangers, smiling and nodding, each other's sense of vigilance suddenly disappeared. A person drinking outside, smiling and toasting the person next to you, may give you another friend to chat with. ...

Smile is tolerance, understanding, confidence and strength. It can shorten the distance between people, is a "catalyst" for career success and a driving force to overcome difficulties. Smile is gold, and its most precious connotation is sincerity. Always keep a sincere smile, which will give people an impression of affinity, clearness, agility, health and tenacity, and also highlight their own temperament charm. Smiling symbolizes tolerance, optimism, generosity and adaptability, and is not easily destroyed by setbacks.

Everyone will encounter unpleasant things. At this time, whistling, singing, giving others a smile and keeping yourself relaxed will make a mediocre life full of interest. If we greet life with a smiling face every day, it is equivalent to prolonging our life.

A foreign friend who has lived in China for more than 20 years was interviewed by a reporter. When asked what you think is the biggest change of China people in recent years, he hesitated for a moment and replied: He has a smile on his face. China people's smiles left such a deep impression on him. It seems that this smile really has a special charm. If you want to be successful, respected and understood, you might as well start with a smile. It is simple, cheap and can be used for a long time. As we all know, flowers are the most delicate and beautiful when they are not fully open. Then I remembered Zhu Ziqing's words: A smile is a half-blooming flower. I seem to hear poetic music flowing in it, as if I can see you smiling, full of vitality and charm.

Learn to smile and you will get closer to strangers in social activities, make friends with them and make you popular in social activities.