Research on Marriage in Mianxian County, Hanzhong City, Shaanxi Province

There is this custom. But I haven't heard of going to the woman's house to pay homage. I'm just hosting a banquet for my relatives and friends. If the distance is too far and the work is too busy, it is ok for the woman's house to entertain guests alone. Considering that your mother-in-law is too harsh, you'd better go back. There is no such strict statement. It's up to you to get a marriage certificate at the woman's house. There is no such custom. Banquets are usually held on the first day of your wedding, but with the increase of couples in different places, it is impossible to guarantee that they will be held the day before, so there is no such requirement, and you can do it a few days in advance. Communicate more with your father-in-law, and there are not so many rules for good things.