How to choose a wedding date The traditional method of choosing a wedding date.

1. How to choose a good wedding day? China people attach great importance to the selection of auspicious wedding days, and pay great attention to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day for marriage, preferably in a year with a full moon.

in recent years, the situation in beginning of spring during the lunar year is as follows:

211 (Year of the Rabbit): Single Spring

212 (the Year of the Loong): Double Spring

213 (year of the snake): No Spring, Widowed Year

214 (Year of the Horse): Double Spring

. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, which is full at the beginning of the month, that is, August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for weddings.

3. Avoid SanNianSha

According to legend, YueLao doesn't lead the red line for SanNian, so that she can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to fight against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the new couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third day, seventh day, thirteenth day, eighteenth day, twenty-second day and twenty-seventh day of each month.

4. The method of choosing the date of marriage

The principle of choosing the date of marriage is based on the date of birth of the bride, with reference to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "When a child is born, a woman is married by the date of marriage". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it's good luck.

5. Don't choose parents' birthdays

In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact day of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married in this month.

6. Real wedding day

If you decide to separate the date of registration from the date of the wedding ceremony, it's best to do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real auspicious wedding day.

7, auspicious day calculation method

Some people think that there should be a stricter calculation method of auspicious day, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the birth date and time of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather go to see the dates chosen by the Huang calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.

8. Consider the reality of both parties' work and study

If one party is studying in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in the major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day for marriage" when the good news comes.

9. We should consider the reality of both families.

When choosing "auspicious day", we should take into account that both elderly people, relatives and friends have time to attend and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.

1. Consider the physical condition of both parties

If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time and make a consultation after recovering. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate the physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing "auspicious day", the man should pay special attention to the opinions of the woman.

11. unify the wedding date and holidays

if the wedding date and holidays are unified, it may be wise. The advantages of doing so are: memorable; Newly married people put on festive costumes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm, and it is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends and celebrate the holidays at home. However, there are many newcomers who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.

12. Definition of a good day

In any case, the definition of a "good day" is always different. No matter what day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.

choose the right auspicious day

1. The year of marriage for women

(please refer to the last line, for example, noon is the year of the horse)

The year of the rabbit, the year of the tiger and the year of the ugly

The year of the ox, the year of the mouse, the year of the pig, the year of the dog, the year of the monkey

Not yet.

2. The year when men are forbidden to marry

Those who are taboo for men to marry are also the first five phases of the year. Namely:

the year when the snake phase is forbidden, the year when the horse phase is forbidden, the ugly year when the sheep phase is forbidden, the year when the monkey phase is forbidden, the year when the chicken phase is forbidden, the dog phase is forbidden, the year when the pig phase is forbidden, the mouse phase is forbidden, the year when the cow phase is forbidden, the year when the tiger phase is forbidden, the unitary year when the rabbit phase is forbidden, the year when the tiger phase is forbidden, the year when the sea phase is forbidden, and the female life is forbidden.

relative photos: mouse, ugly cow, yinhu, maotu, chenlong, sishe, wuma, weiyang, shenhou, youyou chicken, dog, and haizhu [3]

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marry tiande, yuede, tiandehe, yuedehe, and forgive. Marry on a date that avoids breaking the moon, on weekdays, collecting the day, closing the day, robbing evil spirits, plaguing evil spirits, punishing evil spirits, being tired of the moon, five tombs, harming the moon, being in a big time, being an official, wasting four things, avoiding four things, being poor, being divorced from five things, being specialized in eight things, being tired of being married to the sun.

8 Precautions Editors

Respect both parents

Choose a date, and old people will be very concerned. We must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision.

Don't be too superstitious

Although "auspicious day" is a tradition in China, at the same time, we should understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid or not, and it doesn't depend on a certain "auspicious day", so we need to make arrangements from a scientific perspective.

Set the wedding date as soon as possible

In foreign countries, of course, you can choose the date according to the actual situation, but try to set the wedding date as early as possible, so as to prepare enough time for the wedding planning, and don't rush into anything! You can ask important guests for advice before setting a wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you set a wedding date, don't change it easily.

Try to avoid peak days during the wedding peak period

Wedding auspicious days

Because of the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peak periods all over the country, because new people want to hold their weddings on these good days. When choosing the wedding date, you must first know the wedding peak period and the peak days in the peak period in the city where you are going to hold the wedding, and try to avoid these days during the peak period. In this case, it will be of great benefit to choose master of ceremonies, cameras, floats, hotels, dresses, etc., and it will also directly reduce your wedding budget or improve the quality of your wedding. In fact, sometimes just one day in advance or one day later, you can choose the most ideal hotel, book a long-awaited car, have the best master of ceremonies to preside over your wedding, and an excellent cameraman to record the ceremony of your life, even your relatives and friends don't have to worry about dealing with several weddings at the same time. Because, choosing one day of the year is very important and memorable for you, but it is a very ordinary day for others. Like the anniversary of your first kiss. In this way, not only can you get the best service with less money, but you will also step into the wedding hall with a very leisurely mood and enjoy the wedding blessings from friends and relatives. Good day, good mood. Of course you can have your cake and eat it!

the weather on the wedding day

maybe you think it would be romantic to hold a wedding on a rainy day? But most new people still hope that the wedding day will be sunny. Whether you like light rain or sunshine, knowing the weather conditions on the wedding day can make you know what you are doing and make some contingency arrangements in advance. You can also choose the corresponding services at local meteorological stations according to your needs, and get real-time weather information on wedding day, so as to plan ahead.

The bride's menstrual period

Avoid the bride's menstrual period

Wedding auspicious day

If the wedding day happens to be the bride's menstrual period, it will be a troublesome thing, so it is necessary to avoid the bride's menstrual period as much as possible. There are two methods. First, if the bride's physiological cycle is regular, she can calculate her menstrual period. Second, if it is inevitable to choose the bride's physiological cycle or its physiological cycle is irregular and it is impossible to determine the menstrual period, you can consult a doctor 1 days before the wedding. If there are no contraindications, you can take medicine before the wedding under the guidance of a doctor, and generally you can postpone the menstrual period.

Work plan of both parties

Try to avoid the wedding from affecting your work plan, because in those days of preparing for the wedding and holding the ceremony and wedding banquet, the couple often can't concentrate on their work. Therefore, when setting your wedding date, you should also refer to your annual work plan. Don't choose your peak hours or before and after business trips, so that you can not only have enough holidays for a sweet honeymoon, but also avoid the situation that you can't hold the wedding as scheduled because of unexpected work events or affect important work plans because of wedding preparations.

we need to consider the following points:

auspicious wedding day

1. The wedding year and the wedding day should not rush to the couple's palace

2. The wedding date should not rush to the birthdates of both sides [2]

3. The wedding date should avoid the same spirit of cadres and branches and be the same as the five elements of a man's life day, and also avoid the same spirit of daily work and be the same as the five elements of a woman's official injury

Try to choose the wedding date on a day when there are talented people or Noble Moon. < P > 5. Try to choose a day when both men and women can live together or wash away the evil spirits, which is also called dissolving the evil spirits of marriage.