Why are beautiful women and handsome men always attracted to handsome men?

There is always a situation when beautiful women and handsome men pick up girls. Even if they pick up girls, they are always attracted to handsome guys. Then do you know why women are always attracted to handsome guys? Do you want to be a master of attracting handsome guys?

Beautiful women and handsome men pick up girls

First, the unique way of attracting.

After studying marketing and marketing, I found that people are more easily attracted by something unique or outstanding. So I always like to say this sentence: "Try to make yourself different". You need to have different attractive ways in the game of men and women gathering.

I can tell you a series of factors that may attract women. But you need to recognize what you already have and what you hope to achieve through your own efforts. Of course, these conditions are all to make you more attractive in front of the woman you like. The point is, you need to be attractive.

But don't be too divorced from the public. If you are so obsessed with the word "different" that you are out of the normal category, I think you will eventually suffer. So you try various styles and choose the one that suits you.

Second, your enemies are insecurity and need.

Insecurity and need are the biggest obstacles to picking up girls. Insecurity and demand, like poisonous carrots and arsenic, can easily kill your attraction to women.

When men show a sense of need for women, they often have some inappropriate behaviors, expecting attention and recognition. When he shows this need, women can't find the security they need in him.

When a man is dissatisfied with himself or himself in the environment, he will feel insecure. He will be cautious, cowardly and uncertain. Sometimes he will try to pretend to be confident, but this disguised confidence will be seen through at a glance. He will make some outrageous language behaviors because he is eager for recognition.

And women can immediately find this insecurity and need.

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Third, avoid insecurity and need.

Too close to women. Don't get close to or always surround women when you first meet them, otherwise women will only think that this is a manifestation of need and insecurity. On the contrary, leaning back as far as possible will make her feel that you don't care about her so much, and then slowly find comfort around you.

Slander or criticize a woman or ex-girlfriend. If you talk too much about your ex-girlfriend or other women, or talk about their shortcomings and deficiencies, women will think you are insecure.

Too emotional. If you are easily upset about something, women will easily notice that you are insecure.

No problem. Women like men who have their own opinions, and a man who can make decisive decisions and do good deeds will be favored by women. If you always ask, "What do you think I should do?" "Where do you want to go tonight?" Or "What do you want?" You show an excessive sense of need. So, in these cases, you have to make your own decision and then do it with confidence. If she disagrees with your opinion or doesn't like your suggestion, she will tell you, but she won't let you deduct points.

Try to gain attention or appreciation through words or actions. I know some people always like to be cool or show off in front of women to get their attention. This way just tells women that you are not safe and that you have needs for me. So don't do it. If you are really cool, you don't have to tell her, she will find out easily.

Argument. This is really something I often do. Some people always feel that they don't like anything and want to quarrel. If you are such a person, you'd better realize that this kind of quarrel is an obvious manifestation of insecurity and need. Maybe your point of view is always correct, but you should know that too many quarrels will definitely be bad for your pickup truck career. Try to get rid of this habit. If you really want to argue about something, try to argue in a humorous way instead of being serious.

Four, six points to attract women

I have done a lot of research on this topic, and finally I have determined that the following six points are the most attractive to women:

1. Property (money, property, gifts for them or other things that can be given to them)

2. Power (influence, leadership, sense of security)

3. Fame

4. Appearance (including height)

5. Exclusivity (loyalty, marriage, availability)

6. Personality (humor, creativity, romance, wisdom, mystery, etc. )

You will find that 1 to 5 is not something you can change in a short time. If you are not rich, you can't become rich in a week. If you are not famous or tall, you can't appear in a popular movie or suddenly grow several inches in 24 hours.

Then the only thing you can change in a short time is point 6.

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Five, to attract women's personality characteristics

Interesting. Humor works for almost any woman. If you can make her smile happily, your's relationship can go further.

Wisdom and creativity. When wisdom is used correctly where she is interested, it will make you look sexy. Surprise her with your creativity and wisdom. All kinds of ideas, fantasies or unexpected things, as long as they can attract her, can be.

Education. Just like wisdom, as long as it is used properly, your education will become a part of attracting women. Some women will feel your pressure because of their academic qualifications, which is good for you.

Taste and upbringing. Women will find your taste. Do your shoes match your belt? Do you know anything about interior design and color contrast? Do you know all kinds of wine? Do you like watching foreign movies? Do you know anything about fashion? Do you like Frank Sinatra? Do you like western food? When she visits, will you prepare side dishes before dinner? Will you pour her a glass of wine? Will you open all the doors for her? Women will notice everything.

Dominance. Women are attracted to powerful men for no reason. According to the survey among primate species, among the males who have a spouse, the dominant males account for 75%, while those males who are extremely lacking in dominance have no spouse at all. The same is true for people.

Care. Women don't just like gifts; They also like to hear what you think of them. These are all gifts to them, and gifts are just a symbol. No matter whether you send a card or a diamond, what a woman gets in her heart is the same (of course, because diamonds can be preserved for a longer time, they can be favored by women for a longer time! )。 But at the same time, women like to hear you tell her what you think of her. Even if you tell a woman that you don't like her going out with other men, she still likes to listen to your thoughts, because it shows that you have her in your heart.

Pay attention to details. Women not only pay attention to the details of others or things around them, but also pay attention to every detail of themselves to make themselves more attractive. If she wears a sexy dress, she didn't wear it by accident. If she has a new hairstyle, it's no coincidence. Men who can pay attention to these details can impress women more and attract women more.

Unpredictable and predictable. These two points are contradictory. Women are often attracted to men they cannot predict or control. They were attracted by men who flirted and showed their love to them, but these men didn't call them the next day as they expected. It is predictable that only when women start to choose husbands will they begin to expect their men to behave themselves. At that time, women really longed for a predictable man.

Passion, happiness, happiness. There is nothing worse than disappointing in front of women. Some men will keep a straight face and show an uneasy expression when a woman is happy, or interrupt her when she is happy to do something. This is the biggest mistake. Remember, your enthusiasm will not only affect a woman's mood, but also attract her to you.

Adventure spirit. Women are easily attracted to men who like to do extreme, adventurous, unusual and even dangerous things. Because these things are exciting. Being adventurous will make men sexier.

Aggressive. Women like men who know what they should do and have the courage to pursue it. * * * is a sign of loving life. When I say enterprising, I don't mean turning dating into * * *, but that you can set a goal for yourself and pursue it enthusiastically and achieve it by hook or by crook.

Confidence/arrogance. Women are attracted to men who are a little arrogant. But just a little arrogant. It seems hard to explain. Many people don't understand what I mean by "a little arrogant", but understand it as arrogance and go against my meaning. If you have seen pierce brosnan in the movie, clark gable in the movie and Tom Cruise in the movie, you will know. This kind of confidence/arrogance is a little conceited and humorous. It will drive women crazy.

Rich knowledge If you know something about women's interests, it will greatly increase your attraction. You need to show it to women with the attitude of "I know a lot, let me tell you slowly", not from the perspective of "I know a lot, but you know nothing".

Attention. Women like attention. Interestingly, women prefer others to publicize this concern rather than imply it in any way. If you say, "I thought of you today, and I think I like your voice very much …", it is much more effective than listening to women's nagging to show that you value women.

Not interested, it doesn't matter, it is challenging. Most women are used to being pursued by men in various ways. On the contrary, if you are cold to a woman, for example, if you call her, you call her only because she thinks you are free, or you are not interested in her, they will try their best to get your attention. This way, which is contrary to most people, is effective in this case. Moreover, it will fascinate women, even if they don't want to admit it, but a man who looks cold will really make them more interested.

Charm (natural attraction). It's hard to describe. By watching some James Bond movies, you will understand the meaning of charm. You can look at it and pay attention to Kerr Kane's character. The role of charm is very obvious, because charm always gives people a feeling of Prince Charming.

Romantic imagination and angle. See how Don Juan describes the world in the movie. He saw a woman's heart, looking for her beauty instead of staying on the surface. Romantic imagination can have poetic words, interesting stories, fascinating history and emotional descriptions of various things.

Body language. This is very important, because women are always signaling in conversation. You need to accept it and make some responses. I will talk about this in detail in the next chapter.

Sexual ability. Like men, women like sex. Like everything else in life, a good lover is not easy to find. Women will be addicted to lovers they know very well, because they know how to make women feel great and can also bring them some incredible feelings.

Of course, everyone has more than one personality, so these personality characteristics can also be used in combination.

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Sixth, how to attract women.

1, keep the frame and pass her test.

Remember, attractive women always get everything they want, and they get upset when they get nothing.

Women always test you to see how deep you fall into their trap. This is where most men are trapped and where they lose their personal charm. So always pay attention to this situation, pay attention to her test, and keep the framework.

Remind yourself that she is just a guest in your life.

2. End each chat first.

Most men always mistakenly think that they are with women, thinking that as long as women are not bored, they want to be with women more-whether on the phone or going out to play.

But you should take the initiative to end this chat while chatting. By doing this, you tell her that you don't need her anymore, and you have your own life.

In this way, you are completely different from those lame and useless guys she used to date!

Win her curiosity by keeping a sense of mystery.

Many men can't wait to tell their life experiences to women completely on the first date.

This is a very bad practice.

And you have to cover up your life, cover up part or some details, and let her imagine these gaps.

This is a good practice, even when discussing topics that some people like to brag about, such as work, relationships or money.

I think if you want to impress women and make them like you, leave more blanks for them to find out for themselves, so that they will be impressed.

Not only that, when you keep some information, it also makes women eager to know, which also gives women more opportunities to be with you.

Use arrogant humor to keep her interest and attention.

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Never answer a woman directly unless the answer is no.

If a woman complains about what you have done, you should say "I'm glad you like it" and then continue your business.

Deliberately misinterpret or exaggerate what women say, and try to find some clues to make fun of meat in conversation.

Laugh as little as possible at your own humor or jokes.

5. Exercise a deep and loud voice that women can't resist.

Women like men with commanding voices, and these men can gain a high position in women's hearts only through their voices. So take some time to practice your intonation, and you will soon benefit from it.

6. 93% of our communication is through body language and intonation.

Remember, women always look at you in conversation and find out what kind of person you are through every detail.

Pay attention to whether you stand straight when you walk. Keep your shoulders back and blow your head. Let you take your time and pause more when you speak, which will form an irresistible self-confidence atmosphere in front of women.

7. Eye contact is the key.

When you make eye contact with a woman, keep this communication. You can turn your head slightly and squint at her slightly, but don't look away. A slight squint and frown will make a woman feel instantly with a confident man.

8. Don't waste time understanding women. Instead, they just keep trying to improve their relationship.

I find it a complete waste of time to try to understand women.

If a woman is friendly to you, ask her for an email address or phone number.

If you walk outside and everything goes well, then approach her and kiss her.

The key is to constantly strive to improve the relationship between the two. No matter what the result is, you won't lose anything, it will only make your next success easier.

9. When chatting with women, you should learn to stimulate women's imagination.

When you describe hugs and kisses to women, they will begin to imagine that these things happen between you and her.

Read some romance novels and then pay attention to the author's description of these things. Maybe you have no feelings for them, but remember, women are crazy about them. So feel free to use it.

Seven, the necessary skills for men to attract women

1. Clean up your house and make it look neat, including making quilts every day and tidying up the shop. You will find that doing these little things will greatly increase your self-confidence. And when she plans to come to your house, you won't appear flustered.

2. Learn to cook some simple and delicious meals. It is cheaper and more romantic than traditional dating, and women like it.

3. Learn astrology, palm reading, handwriting analysis or * * * and other skills to make things go smoothly.

4. Put some props everywhere. Stuffed toys, pets and photos of you and your friends or family are all good props to start a conversation.

The combination of gentlemanly demeanor and arrogant humor will make women absolutely irresistible. As long as you do it right, it will bring magic.

6. When you are with the woman you like, remember to help her open every door, pull out her chair and get ready, and walk on the outside of the sidewalk when you are in the street. When you take her downstairs, be sure to walk with her to the door.

In a word, you must keep your gentlemanly demeanor.