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What moment made you feel that your colleagues around you were so scary that you didn’t dare to have close friendships?

Before entering the workplace, I had long heard from family and friends that "the workplace is like a battlefield." In the workplace, there are intrigues and intrigues, and you cannot make friends with your colleagues. I went to work with anxiety, but it didn't feel like this. The big brothers and sisters in the department were smiling and amiable. We all helped each other at work, were united and friendly, and occasionally organized gatherings, making us feel like a family. I was very grateful to be able to meet such a group of colleagues and be integrated into such a team.

But! ! ! !

This is not the case. What made me decide that the colleagues around me were terrible was not one moment, but many moments. Here are two simple examples for readers to understand by themselves.

Moment 1. I am a male and I am cautious about my words and deeds at work. A colleague from a subsidiary branch repeatedly submitted materials that were in a mess. I usually endure it, but one time I got angry and casually said something. Then a lady sitting next to me shared the colleague’s bad performance with me. It was considered a way to vent at the time, and it was nothing. I didn’t take it too seriously. On the way home that day, the colleague called me and said that if there was anything I didn’t do well, please tell her directly. . .

Moment 2. At that time, I was doing preliminary planning for a project abroad. In the early stage, the process of starting from scratch was very arduous. I put in a lot of effort and got recognition from the leader. I felt good about myself and had a sense of accomplishment. Full. Because I was doing the preliminary work, the company sent a colleague to take over. My colleagues didn't speak the language well when they first arrived, and it was difficult to communicate. They were not familiar with the environment and were not proficient in the work. After teaching from scratch for three months, they returned home with satisfaction. Half a year later, I learned on a certain occasion that the version of my departure became that I knew that I was not capable of working, took the initiative to escape from the project, and did not do many things well when I left. . . .

There is no other purpose in giving these two examples. The past is over. In fact, the workplace itself is like this. Everyone thinks that they are noble and moral, but when they enter the melting pot of the workplace, how many people are clean and pure? If a friend who is about to join the job asks me for advice, I will only tell him, "There is a Buddha in your heart, but don't forget that there are butcher's knives in the world."

At that time, I had just joined the company for less than a year, and it was also the time when I loved being warm to the people around me. Anyone, regardless of gender, would express their enthusiasm in the warmest way.

At the end of the year, the company organizes various competitions, and if you win, you will get a prize. In fact, it is to give you some welfare and make you happy.

Table tennis competition. I know nothing about table tennis, I am very enthusiastic, but I play very poorly. I know this.

I was knocked out by my opponent, a proofreading teacher. This teacher later won first place and beat everyone else.

The key is here. At nearly noon, all competitions are over. This teacher, who is famous for his outspokenness, called me and said, I heard that you were very dissatisfied with your table tennis defeat. How about we do it again?

I was panicked at the time. This really doesn’t exist. I don’t know my level yet?

Explain quickly. That's over.

However, it is still unsolved in my heart.

This whistleblower, so-and-so, was sitting next to me, his expression not revealing. When I first arrived at the unit, she received me most warmly. I did all the work, mopping the floor, bringing breakfast, and waiting for the bus (at that time, my house was rented across from the unit, so I didn’t need to take the bus).

My name is sister, it’s true.

The Chinese New Year was not a good one that year. My heart has been feeling terribly uncomfortable. It seems that I got up in the middle of the night and wrote a long article describing how to relieve my mood.

Later on, I was always on guard and realized that I was really not sincere.

Buying shoes together and secretly pouting.

Another colleague, whom we had been getting along with until now, suddenly couldn’t get along with him.

When I bought WiFi for my own use, she resisted and asked me not to buy it. She probably thought there were too many WiFis in the office and was afraid of poor signal.

Later, one day, I picked up my things elsewhere and came back to tell me that I didn’t have them.

I was absolutely disgusted. At the beginning, I planned to fight to the end and fight to the end. Later I thought about it and forgot about it, I didn’t want to make a fuss anymore. But the trouble had already begun, and when she saw the beginning, she changed her tone and gave me the things.

Colleagues are colleagues.

One afternoon in the first year of high school, there was a math class.

The teacher is giving lectures and I am sleeping.

It was as if someone told me in a dream that something was wrong.

I suddenly woke up from my dream.

I saw the classmates around me looking at me and smiling...

The teacher seemed to be looking at me,

trying to kill me with his eyes.

I was extremely panicked,

I quickly asked my deskmate in secret ventriloquism,

Oh, what’s going on, what’s going on...

< p> He said: Teacher Fang asked you to go up and do that question.

Damn...

You must have found me sleeping in class...

You want to embarrass me...

I jogged up to the blackboard, < /p>

While exhausting my 15 years of understanding of numbers,

Quickly, neatly, accurately, and eloquently,

I solved that very complicated trigonometric function The topic is finished.

Take a long breath,

Turn around and nod to the teacher...

Strange, the teacher’s eyes seem to tear me apart. .

Why is everyone laughing...

I returned to my seat inexplicably...

Damn, did I do something wrong? !

At this time, my deskmate told me in secret ventriloquism:

Actually, the teacher didn’t ask you to come up and do the questions...

Everyone looked at you because you just said Snoring...

Me! Got it! indivual! wipe!

Please let me die! !

All the bustle in the world is for benefit, and all the hustle and bustle in the world is for benefit. There are more smiling tigers and more things to trick people! I stay away from such people. If you don't recruit people, they will tell you behind your back, which is very annoying. It’s all just for food

After I went to work, I always thought that I was a very good colleague and a very good buddy. Suddenly, because my girlfriend made a mistake, we found out that this colleague was bitten like a mad dog. Man, it’s really heartbreaking to bite all of our colleagues who are working together. I hope we won’t encounter such a mad dog in the future, otherwise we will really not dare to get along with each other seriously

Once, I taught Passed a class of senior students. I like that monitor very much.

Chatting with a colleague (just the two of us at the time) on the playground. I casually sighed: How wonderful it would be if this were my son! She smiled meaningfully at that time: Do you want to "see" him? I was dumbfounded and said, "I really want to recognize my son."

Talk and laugh at will, like a gust of wind. Don’t think about it afterwards.

Unexpectedly, soon there was a rumor in the class: It was a lie that I loved everyone so much. I really like that squad leader and want him to be my son.

Several girls had issues with me in person.

Although I cannot say that there is no trace of jealousy, there is no doubt that I cherish my care for them. To understand this level, I had no choice but to explain it nicely and make these "geges" happy.

My partner, a straightforward and taciturn person, once said: "You have paid a lot for a class."

A group of girls were making trouble for a few days and saw that I treated them badly. It's still the same, and I won't mention it anymore.

But! The monitor became unusually conflicted. Coping with homework and being distracted in class. I even had a fight with my good friend after class.

Later, a smarter girl told me: It was a girl who told everyone about confessing her son. That girl lives next door to my colleague!

Suddenly, I understood the monitor’s rebellion.

Needless to say: some people ridiculed the squad leader for "acknowledging his son" to avenge his past management. The squad leader wanted to tell everyone in a rebellious way: "I don't accept her behavior. Don't think that I want to be her son."

That colleague once talked to me very nostalgically: "Back then, I The class that takes over is the senior class, and the management is called majestic, and no one dares not to listen... Now I haven't taught the senior class for many years.

“You teach senior students, why do the students still listen to you!” …”

When I saw this topic, I was a little hesitant to write it down! After all, no one is perfect, everyone has different ways of doing things, and their thoughts are also very different. Different!

What moment made me feel that she was too scary to have sex with her? In fact, it just happened, and I just realized this moment.

She did it in the company! She is a six-year veteran employee, and I have only been here for half a year. I have always called her sister since I came in. Whatever she asks me to do, I help her with everything I can! After all, I feel that everyone is a colleague and it is important to help each other! Yes. But last Saturday (2018-08-04), a fire suddenly broke out in the company's workshop. We were office workers. When we were notified of the fire alarm, we followed the instructions and went to the factory gate to wait for the leader's arrangements. We picked up our mobile phones and ran outside! , after all, fire and water have no mercy, human life is the most important!

Almost everyone gathered outside the factory to see the fire situation. If help was needed, they would do their best to help. ! But the elder sister of this old employee went to the parking lot immediately and drove her motorcycle home. Because we both ran at about the same time and were relatively fast, I was the only one in the department who saw her first. One person left the factory on a motorcycle!

The fire was not under control until almost 5 o'clock! In the department group, the department manager sent: Thank you for your support. Help, everyone can go home now, please be safe! After a while, everyone in the group sent out "We're home" to report that it was safe, and she did the same.

The next day, we still went to work, and then we. People in the office were talking about yesterday's situation, and her words: It was too hot yesterday. I felt so hot while standing outside and had no water to drink. My face was all red! Her art is so high, and her ability to make things up is okay.

As for me, I didn’t point out her lies. After all, it would make both of us very unhappy, but she stayed in my heart. It gave me a bad impression: I only think about myself when things happen, I am not pragmatic, I am not a typical workplace person, I am not suitable to be a friend in life, let alone a close friend!

So, sometimes it is true that colleagues only think about themselves! Maybe he is a colleague!

He is the kind of person who likes to play tricks,

but is not clever at all, and treats others as fools,

even thinks he has been deceived. Everyone,

People who are complacent and happy with it.

I don’t have a deep experience in this aspect, because I am not someone who trusts people easily, so basically. I won’t fall into the trap of my colleagues.

But I have a friend who is usually a very enthusiastic person. He always has a warm relationship with his colleagues and likes to make friends, so let him. It feels like he has a good relationship with every colleague. But once, something like this happened. He and one of his colleagues were on a business trip and stayed in the same business standard room. They ate and drank together in the evening. This friend of mine was a comparison. It was so delicious that by the end of the meal, people were already extremely drunk.

That was several years ago, at least ten years ago. His colleague is not very good at drinking and is very sober. The two of them returned to the hotel to rest. When my friend woke up the next morning, he found that his iPhone and wallet were gone. Do you think it's particularly tricky?

When I returned to my workplace, I found that my colleague had actually resigned, and that business trip was his last work assignment. He has long since disappeared. He has not been working here for a long time, and he is not very familiar with others. It is because my colleague is very enthusiastic and loves to make friends, so I became very close to him.

I called that person on another colleague’s cell phone but didn’t answer, and then I sent him a text message. Guess what this garbage person replied? He replied, “If you transfer 2,000 yuan to me, I will I'll give you the phone back. Look, who are these people?

At that time, my friend also called the police in the city where he was on a business trip, but in the end there was no result.

This has taught my friend a lesson, and he will not be able to trust his colleagues so easily in the future.

Colleagues are colleagues. They were colleagues when they were working. No one may know each other after they have resigned. Never have any financial dealings with colleagues. It's very dangerous. If you meet someone who is not kind to you, it's easy to cry and lose your temper.

I am always wary of my colleagues. In the company, I can never have a heart-to-heart relationship with my colleagues. Just be polite