What practical problems do families need to face in the TV series "Youth School"?

As a TV series mainly reflecting the family life of the college entrance examination, "School of Youth" caused a lot of discussion on the Internet a while ago because of the arrival of the college entrance examination. The living conditions reflected by the four families in the play seem to deliberately enlarge the reality in order to set up a drama conflict, but many details can still reflect the practical problems that many families in the college entrance examination have to face in contemporary society.

China's parents' anxiety

In China, the college entrance examination is still the only way for many children to change their fate. For this reason, many parents pin their expectations for the future on their children.

In the play, Lin's mother is a typical example. Lin was above average, but because of her extraordinary performance in the senior high school entrance examination, she was admitted to a key high school. However, the temporary luck is short-lived, and Lin was ruthlessly crushed in the key high school where she was a bully. As a result, Wang Shengnan began to accompany her, and her control over her daughter became more and more "inhuman". As long as it is not related to study, she is not supported to do it, and she is also cynical about her daughter's hobbies.

Wang Shengnan's control made Miao miserable, and she was anxious to escape from the shackles in front of her.

But is this kind of pressure just exclusive to "school scum"? No, Xueba also has such distress.

Qian Sanyi, a top scholar, can't escape such a "tragic" fate. Although his achievements left many school scum, his mother Pei Yin still refused to relax. She doesn't support Qian Sanyi to join the radio station, and she is too close to Lin. She is afraid that she can't accept any slight decline in her grades. Qian Sanyi once complained invisibly: "If I don't get the first place in the exam, isn't it your son?"

Wang Shengnan and Pei Yin sometimes care more about the college entrance examination than the children themselves. Their behavior is not an example. Many netizens said that this is their true portrayal. ?

Under the system education in China, the college entrance examination is a pass for every student. At this time, parents' anxiety should not be a burden to children. Learn to be rational and be an open-minded parent. Maybe things will be better than expected. At this point, Jiang Tianhao's family is doing very well.

Puppy love and rebellion in adolescence

Is high school really so boring that only study is left? That's not true. The years of high school are the most unforgettable time for all the people who have passed by. Even in the intense study, all the throbs belonging to adolescence will not stop growing.

Our high school is really the best years in Seeds of Love. In fact, it is puppy love, which is nothing abroad. But in China, parents protect their children too well, and everything is clearly arranged at what age.

However, the most indispensable story in high school life is the bittersweet love.

Aunt Qian likes Lin, and Deng has a crush on Aunt Qian. Jiang Tianhao was attracted to Deng at first, but later he fell in love with Lin.

In fact, the problem of children's puppy love seems to me to be a little unrequited love, which does not have much adverse effect on learning. But Qian Sanyi's mother, Pei Yin, called Lin's mother to school and accused Lin of "seducing" her son in front of the teacher. In the face of Paine's unreasonable behavior, Wang Shengnan couldn't help crying and laughing. She had to make a move: "As long as your son appears, there should be no opposite sex within 30 meters of Fiona Fang."

Pei Yin this alarm, Lin and Qian Sanyi natural hard. In fact, Pei Yin's worry is really worrying. Qian Sanyi is a very thoughtful boy. He can prioritize. But it doesn't mean that parents should not interfere with their children's puppy love during the critical period of the college entrance examination. I don't think so. It's just that parents should first figure out the direction of things and then give their children correct guidance rationally.

In fact, besides puppy love, rebellion is the real "nightmare" of the real college entrance examination.

Lin's personality completely collapsed in his later period. She is no longer in the top 50 of that grade, and is determined to be admitted to NTU Chinese Department. She made unreasonable accusations against her father's career; Academically, she was fascinated by the live broadcast and even voluntarily gave up the college entrance examination in order to sign a contract; When the mother was pregnant with a second child, she was even more excited.

Many netizens are accusing Lin of not being sensible, but we often ignore the characteristics of her age. Adolescent rebellion is an inevitable process, but for Lin, who has been depressed for a long time, it is an awakening of self-awareness, but this awakening broke out too violently and was beyond the control of his parents.

But all rebellions will eventually return to calm and be freed from the love and tolerance of parents.

family crisis

The hidden bomb of family crisis has always existed, but it was released in advance when the children were about to take the college entrance examination.

Deng's mother's love life became a mystery, and Linda almost divorced. Jiang Tianhao's family went bankrupt unfortunately, and Qian Sanyi kept her parents' looks.

Four children living in seemingly unhappy families are actually the true epitome of the growth of teenagers. Not every family is happy and harmonious. Adults think that sticking to a superficial feeling and so-called principles for the sake of children's good is actually the greatest harm to children. The way the four families deal with the crisis in the play has also taught parents in modern society to think and reflect on what is the life that children really need.