What about long-distance love, Hunan, Dongguan

I talked about long-distance love three times, but I didn't expect to talk about long-distance love again. I didn't expect that the girl I liked this time, although local, worked in Beijing for many years, and at first the woman didn't look at us much. Because I missed the first two times, I learned from a painful experience and summarized some things that should be paid attention to in long-distance love. Fortunately, the talk was good this time, and it is estimated that we can get married soon. I hope to share some experiences with you.

1。 Reduce useless mechanical chat. For example, whether meals are delivered every day, whether it rains or not, pay attention to dressing in hot weather and cold weather, just pay attention to it occasionally on the phone, and don't send messages often, which is a bit of killing feelings. Love, talk about feelings, not just be caring and attentive, everyone will say good things, which is of little use. Talk more about deep, inner communication. I miss you three words, many times more than what you are doing. Have you eaten?

2。 Give each other small surprises and gifts from time to time. On some special days, if it is not convenient to meet, just send a bunch of flowers or a small gift. These practical things are far more reliable than what you said. For example, when a girl is menstruating, buying a packet of dates and a bottle of honey directly can make her feel that you care about her more than verbal care. In addition, the price of gifts should not be too high, which will make girls feel pressure, moderate and applicable.

3,。 Girls must be able to touch you often. To put it bluntly, we should meet regularly, especially on special holidays, such as Valentine's Day and her or your birthday. Your distance can only be seen once a month or two. You go once and she comes once, which is actually equivalent to going to each other once every three or four months. I believe that both time and economy can afford it. Just reminding you, don't go to the party as soon as you meet. Let's hang out with that girl first. Let's talk about it tonight.

4。 Personally, it is the most important point. Make a practical plan. After a long time, you will go to a city for development, such as going back to your hometown, or going to another city, or making an appointment to go to a certain city. A girl needs security. Give her a tangible tomorrow.

Although long-distance love is inconvenient to meet and has the pain of lovesickness, it is precisely this that will make the other person's impression of you stay in his heart's perfect impression and reduce the unnecessary friction brought by being together every day, which is also an advantage of long-distance love.

Personal understanding, pure hand-beating, I hope it will help you and bless you.