What should I do if my wife and ex are stuck at home late at night?

My wife Dandan and I have been together for four years. She comes from a cadre family and grew up in Beijing. She has been pampered since she was a child and likes petty bourgeoisie. At the beginning, I overcame all difficulties and spent a lot of effort to catch it. She is the kind of girl who is very proud at heart. Because her family, appearance, and knowledge are all outstanding, so I have been making myself better so that I can better match her.

At the beginning of this year, the company expanded its scale and opened a new branch. Because of its outstanding performance, I was transferred to the new company as a manager. After I was promoted, I was busy with the company's affairs all day long, and all my energy and thoughts were focused on work. I suddenly came home last week and blocked Dandan and her ex-boyfriend at home, only to find out that she had cheated on me behind my back.

Even at that time, she repeatedly explained that after work that day, her colleagues in the department went out to play together. After coming out of the bar, she stood alone on the roadside to stop a car. She happened to meet her ex-boyfriend, who volunteered to get her. Send her home, and out of politeness downstairs she invites him up for a cup of tea. Dandan's explanation did not eliminate the misunderstanding in my mind. That day, I expressed my doubts with silence. Even so, Dandan turned a blind eye to my performance.

Life goes on, but life cannot be as usual. In those days, I got off work on time every day. Actively do housework and kitchen with Dandan. Hope to return to the sweetness of the past. And Dandan also put away the arrogance of the past, and we started to be cautious even when talking to each other, for fear that a certain topic would touch a painful point. Dandan obeyed me in everything and was considerate. I thought it was a guilty reaction caused by her doing something sorry for me; I was a little indifferent to her.

Later, the company hired a female employee named Wen Jing, who was responsible for the internal affairs of our department. Every time she worked overtime, she would order takeout for us, make tea for me, and handle some trivial matters. Gradually, I developed a good impression of her, and even handed over a lot of business for her to handle without exception.

As the contact deepened, I became more and more fond of Wen Jing. At that time, in order to avenge Dandan's previous betrayal, I had a relationship with Wen Jing during a business trip. That day, in the hotel, she said to me bluntly: "I love you, but I will not destroy your family. If you want to end this game at any time, I won't mind." Her words were like eating me It was a reassurance that I could cheat more freely. When I came back from a business trip, looking at Wen Jing's youthful and energetic appearance, I felt that I couldn't live without this woman.