What is the wisest choice to know that her husband is cheating (this is the wisest way)

The beginning of every marriage is happy and full of expectations. Every woman wants to have a harmonious family and love her husband, just like a princess in a fairy tale. But life can't stand too many baptism. Married life is no longer a simple two-person world, and there is no longer the passion and romance of first love. In a blink of an eye, it becomes tasteless and boring.

Facing the hustle and bustle of modern life, extramarital affairs are full of temptations and excitement for many men. In the face of fresh and exciting love, they often don't remember that they have become fathers and husbands at the moment of derailment.

Faced with the pressure of life and society, as well as the increasingly dull family life, they choose to greedily enjoy the longing voice in their hearts and enjoy happiness with luck! It was not until one day that they lost the fire that they found that they had already lost themselves and could not find the direction of life.

Many women think it is unacceptable for their husbands to cheat, and some will cry and choose divorce. And there is also a kind of selective meditation, forbearance after a long time. In fact, as long as men cheat, no matter how they choose, it is a kind of torture and growth for women. It's better to be a smart woman, analyze the problem rationally and finally make a decision after discovering her husband's infidelity than to cry!

Wang Yun is 45 years old. While working outside, she met her husband, Li Liang, and married freely. When she first got married, her husband doted on her like a baby. Every day when I come back from work, I will hug her before cooking for her, even at night.

After marriage, they returned to the city where Wang Yun's family lived and opened a supermarket. Although business is not very good, it is no problem to pay for family expenses. Both parents are retired workers, and they are very distressed by Wang Yun. Seeing that their economy is not good and their parents are anxious, they will often come to help. Li Liang and the two of them will discuss themselves and go out to look for a job.

After having children, I gave them to my mother-in-law. With the help of parents, the living conditions at home are getting better and better. They bought a house and a car and their living conditions are getting better and better.

It is said that men become bad when they have money! But their days have just passed, but Wang Yun was surprised to find that her husband got off work at five o'clock and got home at half past five, but recently he always said he would work overtime and came back late. Wang Yun didn't care so much at first, but when her husband came home, he always deliberately avoided sending messages. Sometimes I secretly laugh and ask him what he is laughing at. He is always making excuses.

Careful Wang Yun chose her husband to work overtime and waited at the gate of their company. When she saw her husband and a young girl getting on the bus one after another, she didn't believe her eyes until she followed them to the hotel.

She doesn't know how she got home. She wanted to cry, but she didn't have the bitter power! After seven years of marriage, she worked hard for this family. How did a man who loves himself as a treasure become like this? She asked herself countless times in her mind, where did I go wrong and where did I not do well enough!

Watching her son sleep in bed, she didn't tell her mother all this. She struggled again and again and got divorced! No divorce! Finally, she decided to try her best to save it. She doesn't want this happy family to fall apart and her son to be unhappy in the future!

My husband came home late at night His eyes froze when he saw Wang Yun who was not asleep. He seems to have found something wrong! Wang Yun told him to go to bed early!

From that day on, Wang Yun went to the company every day to wait for her husband to get off work, and Li Liang also understood what was going on. But instead of going back on his word, he chose to try his best to escape from her sight! Wang Yun couldn't bear to see her husband like this. She's going crazy. That night, she had a quarrel with her husband. She scratched her husband's face. She is still a man. She didn't hit her, but she burned her arm with a cigarette butt!

From that day on, Wang Yun knew that her husband was having a hard time, and the key was that woman. Wang Yun was unwilling, and seven years of marriage was ruined by a woman.

Clever Wang Yun found the woman and took the real estate license, because the real estate license was bought under her mother's name, for fear of any accident. When she opened the property certificate to show her, she explained one of the families.

Cut economic income, all by her supermarket! If divorced, Li Liang has nothing. That woman left without saying a word, and that woman completely left her husband's life! The woman left, and her husband was completely honest. Wang Yun breathed a sigh of relief and had a long talk with her husband calmly. From falling in love to getting married and having children, step by step to today, she admits that she still loves her husband despite his infidelity. She told him about her conversation with the woman, hoping that he could understand what the woman really wanted from her and whether she had true feelings for him. Let him make a choice!

After listening to Wang Yun's analysis, my husband was too ashamed to say a word. Because he realized the absurdity and mistake of his cheating, he was sorry for his wife and children, and he wanted to spend the rest of his life making up for Wang Yun! Since then, he has been better to Wang Yun and more responsible to his family. He has finished all the hard work ahead. It's been 10 years now. Wang Yun said that although she still has a knot in her heart, she won't mention it again. Looking at their life now, she feels that what she has done is not wrong. He thanked God for giving her a complete home and a husband who could correct her mistakes!

In fact, in marriage, many men, like children, will make mistakes and fall down on the road of growth. When a man can't find his direction, maybe it's time for you to give him a chance, give him a direction and let him start over! It is not easy to start a family, and it is even harder to maintain a relationship. In this noisy society, it is even harder to get a man who will accompany him all his life.

In the face of the rapidly rising divorce rate, it is also a very realistic problem who can guarantee that he will not make mistakes and who can find a better self after divorce. Of course, it doesn't mean that you won't choose divorce after you find out that your husband is cheating, but I hope you can weigh the pros and cons and choose the most favorable decision for yourself. I hope you are in contradiction, think twice before you act!